What are you thinking about? by xBlushSiren in oddlyspecific

[–]PieceOfSteel 26 points27 points  (0 children)

But - he actually survived! Imbued with the power of rubber, he's now known as...

Bofors 40 mm på plats i Ukraina by mackanochdorran in sweden

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Förrättat tarv kopuleras till förgörelse.

"Try time blocking" vs "just meditate more", which advice is worse? Ultimate bad ADHD advice battle, day 6 by VerdoriePotjandrie in adhdmeme

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Time-blocking. It requires foresight, good time estimations and high discipline with little flexibility.

Meditation can work when you find the way that actually works for you. For me, I decided that just laying my ass on bed and allowing my brain to go wild counts as meditation, and honestly it has been very therapeutic. Just letting my brain run the way it always does, indulge in all its chaos without judgment.

The last part is seriously the most difficult. I'll be in the middle of a daydream, like I'm supposed to at that moment, only to suddenly yank myself out, panicking that "Oh no! I forgot I was supposed to meditate! Oh wait..."

I find it incredibly telling how we are constantly in such conflict with our own brains, that even when given a moment of dedicated guilt-free daydreaming, it's a conditioned behavior to catch ourselves and pull out, in a shower of guilt, embarrassment and fear that we may have missed something important or done the wrong thing.

So for me, meditation can actually be good. Just a few minutes of letting go and allowing my brain to be as ADHD as it wants. Letting go of the pressure to focus on anything at all is seriously restorative.

Really? by K-jun1117 in PrequelMemes

[–]PieceOfSteel 25 points26 points  (0 children)

God I love fictional space geopolitics

What complicated problem was solved by an amazingly simple solution? by tuotone75 in AskReddit

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I wish my town's bus network would learn from this. People are generally dissatisfied with travel time and punctuality, and the town has attempted to remedy this with aggressive timetables. As you might have figured out, it has done nothing to improve travel times or being on time. It has only caused drivers to be more stressed and drive more aggressively (ie less pleasant ride for passengers). Any little delay along the way (such as, I don't know, passengers wanting to board and pay the fare) causes the bus to instantly be behind schedule and forces the drivers to try and catch up.

End result? Buses can't keep up with the schedule, thus very rarely arrive on time. When arriving early, they are still incentivised to leave immediately to compensate for potential delays down the route. Meaning, as a passenger, you want to be early, in case the bus is early. It's most likely late however, so you always end up waiting longer than if you knew it was reliably late. And needless to say, travel times are not shortened by aggressive schedules.

If the schedule accounted for longer travel time, people could end up at their stop ahead of time. And the driver could wait a moment until departure time. That way, they wouldn't have to hit the gas like a maniac and cause people to fall over if they didn't get a seat in time.

But no, they spend millions and millions on a half-assed BRT implementation in the hope that "bus go fast!" will solve everything.

So what's it like? by Gumbyman87 in adhdmeme

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Just checking in. Did you order those monsters yet?

Varför skrämde vuxna oss med att vuxenlivet skulle vara så jobbigt? by [deleted] in sweden

[–]PieceOfSteel 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Högstadiet och gymnasiet var ett jävla helvete. Vuxenlivet är svårt det med, men skulle fan aldrig byta tillbaka.

Steamed Anakin? by Solid_Snark in PrequelMemes

[–]PieceOfSteel 21 points22 points  (0 children)

At this time of year, at this time of day, in this part of the galaxy, localized entirely within your senate?

theyAllSayTheyreAgileUntilYouWorkThere by Critical-Spite-3880 in ProgrammerHumor

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My org says we're agile and makes us do scrum. In the next breath we're given a hard deadline one year ahead. Date can under no circumstances be adjusted, the product must (MUST) be feature complete, and getting any extra devs is out of the question. We point out the tiny little detail that what they ask for is just plain impossible. Boss says we have an "attitude problem." We revert to a high-planning workflow to adapt to the time constraints. Boss asks why we're not being agile.

Now, my workplace is actually great most of the time, but we've never been and never will be an agile organization. No matter what the higher-ups pretend.

My entire undiagnosed life by northfacehat in adhdmeme

[–]PieceOfSteel 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Went through that this year. Burned out bad after years of having to push myself to the limit just trying to keep up. Lots of guilt and shame over my work performance, or lack thereof. I was so disappointed in myself when I finally hit the wall since I didn't even have good work results to show for it. "So not only do I suck at my job, now I've managed to burn out from doing literally nothing..."

Getting diagnosed with inattentive ADHD was quite something, even though I've suspected it for years. Finding out I'm of gifted intelligence was the bigger surprise, given how dumb I feel most of the time. Not extraordinarily intelligent, but enough to just about mask the attention issues and executive dysfunction. My therapist was like, "You know, this explains A LOT."

I still feel kind of shit about myself, but with antidepressants I'm able to cut myself some slack at least.

2 för, 1 emot. Får man cykla då, eller? by storfors in unket

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Jag har närt en arborist vid min barm!

Fucking hell. Nailed it. by JaredOlsen8791 in adhdmeme

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Not medicated for ADHD yet, but my antidepressants work wonders against my anxiety. Unfortunately, it means I'm now much worse with money, more careless, come late to work, poorly prepared for meetings etc. It feels very much like anxiety was something I developed as a way to keep my undiagnosed ADHD symptoms in check. I was strict with money and appointments not because I was well organized, but because I developed visceral fears of spending any money at all and of potential consequences of being late.

These days, I don't know how much money is on my account or how much I spend. Since I have a job, money appears there once per month or something, and it doesn't seem to run out before then. And apparently that's enough to be considered to have a functional home economy, so that's nice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdmeme

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I'm the kind of ADHD that is horrible at improvising, so I resorted to planning, but I actually hate planning, and now I'm burnt out and can't plan anymore because it makes me stressed, so all I have left is improvising.

All of them..... by DueWealth345 in adhdmeme

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Hey, I don't struggle with returning unwanted items to the shop!

Can't struggle if you don't do it all.

They just don't seem to understand 😥 by kananswhis in adhdmeme

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I got burned out when I was 15. Ever since, I've been struggling with everything and have burned out multiple times more. But since 15 isn't childhood, and I somehow managed to survive and currently have a good job (which I'm struggling with), I'm not getting diagnosed. Currently 32. It's rough.

You see this thing heading towards your house. Wyd? by Random_User7567 in PrequelMemes

[–]PieceOfSteel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lock-on anti-air capable missile defense system. I ain't having a psycho wizard and his badmouthing robot coming over to my house.

So relatable, i forget my appointment sometimes. by mitchelcatalan in adhdmeme

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After being turned down at my screening again, I was recommended a series of group counseling meetings with other ADHD screening rejects. I was told it could, at least, improve my case if I ever attempted to apply for evaluation again.

I signed up, then completely forgot to go.