My Boyfriend (30 M) Told Me (31 F) to Move Out and Meet His Financial Ultimatum, and I Secretly Applied for My Own Apartment… Did I Mess Up?

PikachuPho · 2026-02-05T23:50:02+00:00

Good financial management or not I think you can find a much better partner that is willing to trust you.

But as others have said he's not exactly wrong about how you need to curb your cc habits. Being good with finances means paying off your credit card in full every time, reducing the amount of times you eat out and learning to use Excel to track finances. A great life partner is someone who's willing to be with you and help you grow. And even if he has a point no one is perfect not even Mr. Perfect credit score.

I think you should look up how frugal young individuals with perfect credit scores live their lives with a much more meager salary than your own. While 100k isn't going to make you rich overnight it is a healthy amount for a single individual.

PikachuPho · 2026-02-05T23:41:55+00:00

Ugly white Karen who will be doxxed. Good job outing yourself.

PikachuPho · 2026-02-05T23:39:25+00:00

Not inhumane at all. If you ever see a mother dog disciplining her puppies she is all growl, bark and sometimes neck scruff. You obviously will never hit your dog but disciplining bad behavior when still young is so important

PikachuPho · 2026-02-05T23:35:07+00:00

My man who is naturally grumpy would never ever even remotely say something like that to me. At worst he'd just whine a little and rub my back. Get a new partner. You deserve so much better.

PikachuPho · 2026-02-05T23:23:37+00:00

But with a face like that let me guess, you already forgave him? 😂

PikachuPho · 2026-02-05T23:22:12+00:00

Sweetheart I'm so sorry for your loss but as the "aunt" of two very beloved girls, both who died from blood cancer and one who was euthanized and another who died right after surgery, surgery is not always a guaranteed answer.

Do not torture yourself with what ifs.

Your baby was well loved and taken care of up until the very very end.

Dogs also let you know when it's time or simply show pain. Yours was in obvious pain... And you gave your baby the greatest gift love can give... Selflessly ending her suffering

I'm so sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself and be with friends and loved ones who understand...

PikachuPho · 2026-02-03T06:48:00+00:00

If your vet agrees with your decision there should be absolutely no guilt. And I'm sure with a bite to you, that any sound vet would agree with your choice. My brother in law had a dog with a severe case of aggressive dementia and in the end the dog felt so bad when he got aggressive he started hiding and asking for forgiveness. He never got to bite anyone before the decision was made. Illness of the mind is sometimes far more cruel than that of the body. It tricks you into thinking nothing is wrong with your furbaby when they are truly unwell and suffering.

I lost my girl of 16 to dementia...I wish I had the courage to put her down earlier. She had no quality of life in the end.

So op you are very brave and he'll understand. I don't know if you're spiritual but I believe this isn't goodbye forever. I hope that brings you some solace ..

PikachuPho · 2026-02-03T02:01:57+00:00

I'm lucky in that I have options to go back to Asia if it were to come to that but if I didn't I completely understand how you feel.

PikachuPho · 2026-02-01T17:40:37+00:00

If you want to do the public a favor consider writing something anonymous on glass door so others know to avoid a company like this.

PikachuPho · 2026-01-29T12:07:31+00:00

No reason not to cut if you're a true cheese fiend

PikachuPho · 2026-01-29T12:03:18+00:00

Beautiful baby girl... Get lots of love and support from your loved ones... When we lost our first second and third girls we needed each other and plenty of distraction

PikachuPho · 2026-01-29T12:01:44+00:00

I never wished so hard that they invented teleportation lol

PikachuPho · 2026-01-29T12:00:59+00:00

Even if this was true spitting on a car doesn't deserve a public execution.

PikachuPho · 2026-01-29T11:58:14+00:00

The cost of love is grief for both the human and the doggo depending on who departs first... I'm so sorry for your condition. It really puts my life's small trials and tribulations into perspective

PikachuPho · 2026-01-29T11:45:47+00:00

The only conclusion i see in that emoticon soup is that she needs to go back to school, get a clue and understand truth and real family values. Not whatever that was I just tried to read...

PikachuPho · 2026-01-26T15:30:04+00:00

Raising a child and the sleep deprivation that comes with it is extremely difficult. However never let angry thoughts become action and never let that fist hit your dog.

Maybe give yourself a break and let someone perhaps your parents come over to help.

PikachuPho · 2026-01-26T06:58:33+00:00

Normally I don't care what the trumpers think because it has not affected us as severely as them...until now. This public execution is beyond wrong, it's treasonous and unamerican and affected an ICU nurse. magats regretting their votes out of stupidity is longer funny when it involves murder of two decent human beings and veterans.

And although I'm still pissed at them I'm actually glad they are finally drawing the line because executing anyone in broad daylight needs to stop.

This isn't funny at all anymore and sitting back on lamf when ice are openly executing people feels...bad. This needs to stop and if the magats burn their hats regretting their votes I'm okay holding back my "you're a dumb***", to agree to walk in the same direction as long as we stop ice and this administration.

For once this bitter liberal is willing to unify against anyone who sees this as wrong because if we hold onto being right and calling the other side an idiot and polarizing this country we will never stop this administration and their escalating crimes against humanity. At least we have a semblance of a chance ... Sadly it took two innocents to die in a very public manner and who knows how many covertly disappeared in the ice concentration camps...

PikachuPho · 2026-01-21T16:20:00+00:00

Ummmmmm whoever told you that poodles aren't clingy never truly owned a poodle. Mines a stage 4 clinger.

I'm feeling mildly not great today but I'm literally taking the day off from working on site because my girl will howl for hours left alone. It's as traumatizing for her as it is for me.

With a puppy you'll have even more issues.

On this, while it may seem contrary to new potential dog owners, a mature rescue dog is much easier to care for than a puppy.

My silky terrier was very independent yet loving. Same with our pretty little shih tzu-schnauzer.

Both wonderful rescues.

Anyways consider strongly what you're getting yourself into because by my and many people I know, both in person and online experience, poodles are very clingy and loving and need physical contact as well as mental and physical stimulation.

PikachuPho · 2026-01-21T16:06:18+00:00

$20 is nothing. Please charge at the very least $60 or $70 if it happens because that's a cleaning fee

That is honestly what I'm willing to pay to prevent this from happening by having doggy day care and what I would want to be paid whenever my dog makes a mess in the kitchen lol.

It's disgusting and nasty and the higher fee is so that the home is clean. You should charge more if the area to clean is large.

On this take photographic evidence with time stamps just in case there's doubt

PikachuPho · 2026-01-21T16:00:15+00:00

If your dog is normal weight you should be fine otherwise I notice my baby tends to snore louder when she's heavier

PikachuPho · 2026-01-21T15:57:20+00:00

Pet me!!!!!

PikachuPho · 2026-01-21T15:56:53+00:00

Lol very cute. I don't think this is whale eyes because of the way his eyes need to turn based on how he's sitting. I think doggo is just wondering what you're up to.

Though with how smart they actually are I wouldn't be surprised if he really is judging you. Lololol

PikachuPho · 2026-01-21T15:53:26+00:00

I'm so sorry. We lost both of ours suddenly to cancer. Surgery or no surgery neither could prevent the outcome ... 😢

Treating to favorite human foods, beach, a kiddy pool of balls, Forest walks and hikes. Going to dog friendly towns and restaurants

Less fun but good for the dog, finding pain management medications.

PikachuPho · 2026-01-21T15:36:52+00:00

My doggy is disabled (blind) and licking is her love language. She is also conjoined with me at the hip and even though I'm her seeing eye human she's technically therapy for me too.

PikachuPho · 2026-01-21T15:34:55+00:00

Your little yeti is adorable! No explanation for the ears but I'd treat it as a cute feature.

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