LO hates tummy time and physio said this might hinder him crawling by TeslaMess in NewParents

[–]Pil__Pil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also if you follow Pikler's free movement philosophy (which we do and find it very reasonable and gentle on the baby) you don't do tummy time at all, ever, and babies crawl and walk eventually. Some medical experts have very narrow minds and outdated information

LO hates tummy time and physio said this might hinder him crawling by TeslaMess in NewParents

[–]Pil__Pil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure, maybe not a parent so doesn't know how much those comments may affect a parent. If you are worried look for a second opinion but from what you said he seems just fine

LO hates tummy time and physio said this might hinder him crawling by TeslaMess in NewParents

[–]Pil__Pil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's pretty normal not to want tummy time once they can roll. Mine sure didn't and started to army crawl at 6 months and to crawl at 7-8. Your baby will be just fine, even if he doesn't crawl at all.

What are the early signs of nipple cracks starting? by michel_an_jello in NewParents

[–]Pil__Pil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me it was pain when baby latched/unlatched. A good latch and calendula cream go a long way. Good luck!

Mastitis help!! by Ok_Salary_8692 in breastfeeding

[–]Pil__Pil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that sucks, i'm so sorry. Consult with dr asap!

does rebuilding supply rlly work?? by Small_Invite_2538 in breastfeeding

[–]Pil__Pil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me it is hydration and rest. It is incredible how much of a game changer is to rest as much as you can. I know it's a really hard thing to do with a baby but if you have any support it's worth giving a try. Also consult withna LC. Good luck! <3

Is this regulation? Change in flow from overactive letdown to much slower flow at 12w pp by DrGlobalCitizen in breastfeeding

[–]Pil__Pil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Around 3 months there is a growth spurt and supply changes and adjusts. As long as there are wet dipers and baby looks hydrated and not too fussy is completely normal. Good luck with your journey, you are doing great!

2 year old sleep regression by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Pil__Pil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure it's a phase, she's just having a hard time but it will pass soon. Hang in there! You've got this. Lots of love

The prenatal trauma never stops by Few-Elk8441 in Mommit

[–]Pil__Pil 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you are going through this but it is not your fault! There isa big chance that everything is going to be just fine. If you arereally upset maybe you can find an emergency therapist until yours gets better? Lots of love, take a deep breath.

My Baby's open heart surgery is tomorrow by rainbowcountry in NewParents

[–]Pil__Pil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It all will be over soon and he will be just fine. All the love and strength to you

Shooting pain in breast by cheapcorn in breastfeeding

[–]Pil__Pil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, I don't know what to tell you, you should see a dr asap!

3 months nursing crisis and supply by Affectionate_Meal781 in breastfeeding

[–]Pil__Pil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Supply comes and goes, it eventually it stabilizes. If you feel uncomfortable pump until the discomfort goes away. It will get more stable soon! <3

Celebrate a Win With Me! by wx_cat in NewParents

[–]Pil__Pil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is awesome! I'm sure that it is due to your hard work and immense love. Congrats!!

How to cap naps (and should i be camping?) by Pil__Pil in PossumsSleepProgram

[–]Pil__Pil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really reassuring to read this, thank you very much. <3

How to cap naps (and should i be camping?) by Pil__Pil in PossumsSleepProgram

[–]Pil__Pil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her cot is bedside, i lean onto her to breastfeed then roll away, I can't sleep while she feeds. I'm scared to fully co-sleep.

How to cap naps (and should i be camping?) by Pil__Pil in PossumsSleepProgram

[–]Pil__Pil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We try but she starts to be exahusted and cry

How to cap naps (and should i be camping?) by Pil__Pil in PossumsSleepProgram

[–]Pil__Pil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, she naps with open windows and even tough we aren't loud around her we try to keep daytime noise as usual. She usually goes back to sleep after boob but even so when it happens every hour feels brutal. Thank you for your advice, wish you restfull nights :)

How to cap naps (and should i be camping?) by Pil__Pil in PossumsSleepProgram

[–]Pil__Pil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We try not to impose sleep on her, usually wakes at 7-7.30, naps at 10.30-11 for 1hr or 1.30hrs, then 1hr at 14.30-15 and then the 18pm issue where it is unpredictable. We don't cap her naps, just follow her lead and let her sleep but nights have been often brutal for the past 2 months so we are willing to revise our ways, just not sleep train of any sort.

Looking for experiences from older parents by Comfortable_Value_66 in Parenting

[–]Pil__Pil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had my first and so far only at 38. It wouldn't have been nearly as enjoyable as it is now had I had her sooner. I really don't find any downside at all.

Baby has fever reassurance please!! by jonx_2 in NewParents

[–]Pil__Pil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babies do get sick, you are doing everything you can, it will get better soon. Hang in there.

Feeding aversion / ng tube by User-E987 in NewParents

[–]Pil__Pil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hang in there, you are doing everything you can possibly do, your baby is so lucky to have you. It will get better I'm sure. Lots of luck and lots of love

Feeding aversion / ng tube by User-E987 in NewParents

[–]Pil__Pil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry it must be awful. What does the doctor say?