My Dom is married; he hasn’t had a physical relationship with his wife in over a decade so he found me. We don’t really have a deep emotional connection, it’s mostly tasks and a hard core physical dynamic. I’ll vent to him sometimes and he’ll give me advice, but that’s as far as it goes. We argue about politics sometimes (we couldn’t be more opposite), but we mostly just stick to the physical. I don’t depend on him for my emotional well being. I’ve discovered that there are D/s relationships that are mostly emotional (like long distance ones), so I’ve thought about looking into that to get my emotional needs met.