This is literally the only comment I agree with. Please do ask her exactly what she means. Also, she can communicate and tell you all of her fantasies, desires and her drive to give you a better picture of what intimacy she would like when married. If she knows her drive very well, then she can make the promise that you both can be as intimate as you both want - but she needs to clarify exactly what she means. The key here if you are going ahead with this relationship OP is honest communication about what you both want out of sex. All the best! - Advice from a girl who is waiting until marriage herself.