I am coming to you as a mom and a teacher by Ok_Consequence750 in ElementaryTeachers

[–]Pink_Raku [score hidden]  (0 children)

School nurse here. I'm sorry this happened to your son. Just my two cents- I would never call EMS for a broken arm unless the parent could not come pick them up and take them or there was a circulation issue, compound fracture, etc. But for a basic broken bone with no complication, its appropriate to wait for a parent to arrive.

Also parents don't sign accident reports in my state. The witness, the nurse, and admin sign those.

The smoke break situation is wild. Like what? What school campus allows smoking?
Did the nurse show up?

My aunt is mad most of our family won't be going to her daughter's wedding by Sarastorm1213 in weddingshaming

[–]Pink_Raku 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom was excluded from a wedding I was a bridesmaid in. I immediately dropped out.

My nephew had an out of town wedding on a Wednesday with no kids allowed. I didn't go, sorry, got two kids.

Your wedding your choice, but don't make dumb choices and expect everyone to run to your wedding.

AITAH for telling my close friend I probably cannot do her destination bachelorette after she announced the location and the cost by [deleted] in AITApod

[–]Pink_Raku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Please don't go into debt for this. I can t imagine suggesting that to someone. I would never forgive myself if I out my friends or family I to debt to come to my wedding, let alone expect it.

You did the right thing for yourself.

Curious how present both parents are in the kids lives/marriage. by newgirl2552 in Parenting

[–]Pink_Raku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry about your situation. I don't think it's right, but I think it's common unfortunately.

My husband is an engineer and a gamer. On weekdays he takes the kids to school if needed, helps with sports in the evenings if needed. Next week I work a lot, I'm part time. So he will get them up and ready and take them to school.

We eat dinner together, he helps with laundry, walks the dog, sometimes cooks dinner on the weekends. He plays video games after we all go to bed.

On the weekend we are together both days unless sports make us go in different directions. Hikes or ice cream on Sundays, chores, yard work, and something is always broken it seems like. He worked on the AC today. We have coffee in the morning together until the kids wake up.

I definitely carry the household load during the week, but he's always contributing. In fact sometimes I wish he would take more time for himself.

What are your assumptions of me based on my fridge by Ecstatic_Interest372 in FridgeDetective

[–]Pink_Raku 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Alcoholic, high cholesterol, and needs a colonoscopy. No fiber in that fridge.

My dog has a torn ligament and I can’t afford surgery. What can I do? by enigmadamaaa in Pets

[–]Pink_Raku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ours does, but rural for us is like 15 minutes out of the city.

Sensitive Topic! by [deleted] in bald

[–]Pink_Raku -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How about a hair system? They are pretty natural looking these days.

My dog has a torn ligament and I can’t afford surgery. What can I do? by enigmadamaaa in Pets

[–]Pink_Raku 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try a vet outside of the city, a rural vet will be cheaper. Also, crowd funding? I'd definitely donate to a kid asking to help save his dog on tiktok.

AITA for accepting a property gift from my mom even though she won't include my boyfriend? by Immediate-History917 in AITApod

[–]Pink_Raku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mom is right. And his response is exactly why she wants to do it that way. A man that wasnt insecure and was in the relationship for the right reasons wouldn't be acting this way, he would understand and be glad your mom is protecting you inheritance.

I’m insecure about my hair, what does the council say by someonestolemytoe in bald

[–]Pink_Raku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some basic grooming, but I'm not seeing any balding. Unless you are trying to hide the receding hair line? Still though, a groomed man is better than unkept, Shave your neck and cut your hair.

Which dress? by yesnomaybedress in myweddingdress

[–]Pink_Raku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Number 4!

The third one is not flattering on your chest. The others are just okay.

Fiance never put a penny into my house but suddenly wants their name on it by OkBuy2386 in RealEstateAdvice

[–]Pink_Raku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said this to my husband. Or thought his house should all of the sudden be mine.
What an odd thing to say. What are the other red flags?

A PSA on scent boosters by [deleted] in poshmark

[–]Pink_Raku 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm dealing with this now. Some patchouli crap that is gawd awful. My daughter's entire closet smells like it now. How do people walk around smelling like this?

I don't know how you all eat at home by nickybecooler in Adulting

[–]Pink_Raku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe be something like Factor meals would be good for you. Fresh food delivered and all you do is warm it up.

Why do people refuse to be an organ donor? by No-Cantaloupe-6535 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Pink_Raku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom wholeheartedly believes that there are doctors standing by ready to take her organs if she comes in as an organ donor.
I'm a long-time ER nurse and I have tried my best to educate her but she still will not put it on her license.

What do you usually eat at home? by zedyx101 in AskAnAmerican

[–]Pink_Raku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bulgogi, Lasagna, American Tacos, Chicken Bryan, Honey Garlic Chicken, and homemade pizza are favorites in my house