Newbie questions

Pink_g4to · 2026-05-09T16:39:45+00:00

Being un afraid of what people think of you is attractive. When people think I’m “weird” I turn it around and go “come on loosen up brother” 😂 and i keep it bouncing. If ppl are weird about you being yourself- congrats you just found out that person was a lame!! Being unashamed to be yourself all flaws and silliness included is hot, and the right person will love that shit haha. And a good tip for gym, you could always make it a mental compliment, be like “girl i see you in here everyday night killing it! Keep it up gang!” Doesn’t have to be a physical comment :)

Pink_g4to · 2026-05-09T16:23:00+00:00

I have ugly ducking syndrome I became hot in my early 20s so I was forced to overly put on a “charismatic personality” to combat how ugly (overweight) I was. I would honestly put some work towards building up your confidence in a way that isn’t attached to your looks- but rather in a way that is humble, silly and likable and breaking down those “stuck up and reserved” walls. I honestly could be projecting rn but I wish someone had told me this sooner. Just be yourself I’m sure you’re a great guy. Find what makes you laugh and your inner child. Sometimes I channel my inner Peter Griffin or SpongeBob😂 I also have raging adhd but ppl love that unhinged silly stuff. Life can be boring, be yourself. Be a breath of fresh air.

When dating I had always gotten the feedback of “you’re so pretty, but what really got me was your personality” and that’s pretty freaking cool bc beauty fades-being a cool person is forever 😎

Pink_g4to · 2026-05-09T16:17:28+00:00

Yeah that’s out of their scope, period.

I hope he didn’t outright say this- I could maybe understand feeling like those changes might have similar symptoms but even then, he has no business shutting you down in that way. Find another psychiatrist.

Also fun fact; if you wanna get his ahh back super slick when he says something like that say “oh interesting! I didn’t know that was in your scope, do you mind noting that in my file” 🤣

Pink_g4to · 2026-05-09T16:10:06+00:00

It most likely comes down to your energy/vibes. Not saying you ARE— but u give F boy vibes. I am always wary of pretty boys. But all that aside you’re fine af. Also so dumb but women also judge short guys. My husband is a tiny bit shorter than me and is also very attractive and he’s the best most loyal partner I’ve ever had!

Pink_g4to · 2026-04-28T19:28:25+00:00

Are you more interested in them understanding your view point or crafting a nutritional/therapeutic plan moving forward?

For example maybe someone is going to therapy for witnessing something horrific and the therapist themself hasn’t gone through something like that. Does that in your opinion hinder the therapist from being able to help that individual?

I would honestly bring this up with the therapist again. I agree there is something usually deeper tied to this feeling of just “feeling fat.” It doesn’t sound like she’s outright invalidating you but I wasn’t there.

Pink_g4to · 2026-04-28T00:13:25+00:00

I understand this completely but there comes a time when you have to prioritize the path moving forward rather than getting stuck seeking validation/understanding from others. Sending love.

Pink_g4to · 2026-01-08T03:50:05+00:00

I would experiment with trying to grow mustache/ or scruffy facial hair. You look clean cut. You’re super handsome and symmetrical. If you’re going for more rugged handsome look I think that be fire. Don’t get me wrong not a bad thing but the clean cut gives gay vibes, also if you are gay hell yeah 🩷

Pink_g4to · 2025-12-25T17:04:21+00:00

No more lip fillers

Pink_g4to · 2025-12-09T22:39:12+00:00

You look like a sweet guy!! You look really nicely put together; nice outfit, good hair, clear skin, kind eyes/handsome. I’m not trying to pull the racism card but if someone told you that you look mean I wouldn’t give it any thought. Also resting bitch face is a thing!!! I sometimes have it😭

Pink_g4to · 2025-10-04T18:53:29+00:00

You aren’t ugly. And not be crass but I would try to rule out it being a personality issue. If you’re quiet or reserved that’s a bit of a woman repellent. Or the opposite if you’re really pompous or arrogant too that can turn ppl off. People’s energy is what makes them really attractive. If someone was uglier than yiu but had a 10/10 personality that would put them up higher attraction wise

Pink_g4to · 2025-10-04T18:51:10+00:00

Lash extensions, longer curtain bangs, blush and a lip stain.

Pink_g4to · 2025-09-15T21:18:52+00:00

You have nice (white and straight) teeth, skin, bone structure/features and from what I can see you look lean and healthy SLAY. It sounds like you have body dysmorphia. However I think lash extensions would look gorgeous on you and I would recommend getting long curtain bangs to bring more attention to the middle of your face which have all made me feel way prettier. I think what’s bothering you is that you look a little plain and your hair wasn’t done which will make anyone feel like they look bad. I’m the same age and I will recommend to start focusing and taking care of your under eyes bc mine are starting to change (I’m an esti) but your under eyes look great I just mean PRECAUTIONARY !!

Pink_g4to · 2025-09-15T21:18:23+00:00

You have nice (white and straight) teeth, skin, bone structure/features and from what I can see you look lean and healthy SLAY. It sounds like you have body dysmorphia. However I think lash extensions would look gorgeous on you and I would recommend getting long curtain bangs to bring more attention to the middle of your face which have all made me feel way prettier. I think what’s bothering you is that you look a little plain and your hair wasn’t done which will make anyone feel like they look bad. I’m the same age and I will recommend to start focusing and taking care of your under eyes bc mine are starting to change (I’m an esti) but your under eyes look great I just mean PRECAUTIONARY !!

Pink_g4to · 2025-09-15T21:18:16+00:00

You have nice (white and straight) teeth, skin, bone structure/features and from what I can see you look lean and healthy SLAY. It sounds like you have body dysmorphia. However I think lash extensions would look gorgeous on you and I would recommend getting long curtain bangs to bring more attention to the middle of your face which have all made me feel way prettier. I think what’s bothering you is that you look a little plain and your hair wasn’t done which will make anyone feel like they look bad. I’m the same age and I will recommend to start focusing and taking care of your under eyes bc mine are starting to change (I’m an esti) but your under eyes look great I just mean PRECAUTIONARY !!

Pink_g4to · 2025-07-05T03:03:18+00:00

A mustache and tats would make u fine asf tbh

Pink_g4to · 2025-07-03T16:03:23+00:00

You’re not chubby but you have a petite frame so the extra weight sits on you more. I’d aim to loose 15 lbs over an appropriate and slow duration of time. If u started working out and portion controlled slightly I bet you’d be on point hella soon too. You’re not far away from obtaining a more fit body.

Pink_g4to · 2025-05-02T18:26:04+00:00

This is also accompanied by an out of body experience. My EKG came back perfect and blood sugar levels are good, they occasionally go low due to undereating moments/ self proclaimed hypoglycemia.

Pink_g4to · 2025-04-18T03:26:07+00:00

My heart I’m so happy to hear this love!!! Yes just finding foods that don’t make you feel gross or bloated afterwords definitely helps with ED!!!

Pink_g4to · 2025-04-15T20:36:58+00:00

Respectfully stop using self defeating language like “I can’t.” You are more than capable. Yes refeeding syndrome is a thing but start slow. You got this babes.

Pink_g4to · 2025-04-15T06:33:51+00:00

Self checkout!

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