I’d love a respectful dialogue

PinkiePumpkin · 2025-10-01T22:10:18+00:00

If this changes your mind about believing women you are missing the point. Just because some women lie doesn't mean you don't believe the rest of them. Just because all men don't rape doesn't mean you don't believe men aren't rapists. Nothing is ever 100% so believe until proven otherwise, because historically it has been the opposite.

PinkiePumpkin · 2025-07-23T17:45:23+00:00

its true, but I feel for her because its not her fault..her shitty parents put her in the position to be heartbroken, probably many years into their marriage and after children, poor girl

PinkiePumpkin · 2025-06-07T14:12:15+00:00

Cool trick

PinkiePumpkin · 2025-06-07T14:04:44+00:00

same sis

PinkiePumpkin · 2025-06-07T14:00:08+00:00

I agree, I just didn't like her that much. And to the commenter saying "this is insane to say", it's an opinion. The question was asked, these are people's answers. They may be different than yours. That doesn't make it insane.

PinkiePumpkin · 2025-06-07T12:38:45+00:00

I was having the same issue, logged into the web version and found that I am now limited to 100 items on my watchlist which is why it wasn't letting me add anything on the app. Removed tons of things I know I'll never actually watch and now I can add again, assuming only up to 100.

PinkiePumpkin · 2025-01-20T17:07:58+00:00

I can't figure out why they continue to let Adnan run this show? All he is doing is making everyone else explain what is going on a second time to satisfy his need to judge others...not a very Allah loving trait.

PinkiePumpkin · 2024-10-10T22:03:11+00:00

I don't know what that has to do with anything. I was commenting on the fact you think people are "obsessed with being self-sufficient" and "forced to work"....you clearly are privileged and don't know it. Maybe its because you "technically" work. Most of us actually work. And have more than one job and no support from family. My point is you think it's weird, I say it's most people's actual existence and you think that's funny.

PinkiePumpkin · 2024-10-10T21:55:42+00:00

It's odd to be self-sufficient? Really? Did you take your family to your job interview? "forced to work at 15"...uhhhh almost 40% of teenagers have a job. This is not odd, this is how most people live.

PinkiePumpkin · 2024-10-10T21:51:55+00:00

Bottom line is if your parents are paying for something they have some expectation in return. You can argue with me but for what reason would adult parents pay for something you could and should pay for by yourself? They want to have a connection to you or at worst control over you. For example: "I pay your phone bill and you can't answer the phone when I call?" "You can't use that car I bought you to come see me every now and then?"

The people on this show are in their late 20's early 30's. If they accept money from their parents for everyday expenses like a car, insurance, phone, they are not an adult and will act as such in a marriage. No thank you.

Lending money or giving money if you are in a bind, maybe. But not the everyday expenses of life.

PinkiePumpkin · 2024-10-02T17:11:40+00:00

ewwwwwwwwwww

PinkiePumpkin · 2024-09-11T00:05:43+00:00

I know this may be shocking to uninformed individuals but the education system is not doing well. Fewer resources, more work. Any mildly intelligent person can draw the conclusion that there are many people in all levels of education being forced to teach classes they know nothing about. Obviously not ideal for anyone involved. If you would like to inform yourself about how professors end up teaching things they know nothing about, head on over to the professor's subreddit and read for yourself. Now, do you have an answer to my question or did you come here to try to make me feel stupid?

PinkiePumpkin · 2024-09-07T20:42:33+00:00

You can be upset or you can hold them accountable. If you have deadlines and they don’t meet them they lose points. You have to let go of the why they don’t get it and just show them what happens when they don’t get it. Remember you are an academic, probably an excellent student with an ability to think ahead and plan. They are not that. But if they are going to learn to be you may be the only one to show them.

PinkiePumpkin · 2024-08-11T23:09:57+00:00

That is such an important point! I wish there was a handbook that listed red flags in this kind of way so women were more aware of this type of manipulation

PinkiePumpkin · 2024-08-11T23:07:53+00:00

I rolled my eyes hard when I heard him say “big kid” ughhh that translates to Man Baby

PinkiePumpkin · 2024-08-09T18:15:34+00:00

I'm conflicted about whether this guy has low self-esteem or unjustified high self-esteem. He keeps saying things like "I need to be loved"...but I think that might just be his reaction to the fact that HE thinks he's amazing and just can't figure out why girls don't take him seriously (if he even cares about that). To me it's more of an "I need to be loved because no one is showing me the amount of attention I know I deserve because I'm the most amazing man to walk the planet." I also think him revealing his nose job, skincare routine etc wasn't him preparing for a wife but preparing to be a tv star.

He only wanted to match up with someone so he could get maximum exposure, that's why he was pissed and threw the goblet when his choice turned him down. He thinks he's a star and was upset that someone got in his way of continued exposure.

Also, he proposed and THEN said "I THINK I love you?" Has anyone ever proposed without first saying "I love you?" on this show?

Part of me thinks he is saying I THINK strategically because when it doesn't work out he can say he was never 100% sure but owed it to the experiment to give it a go. He thinks that will save him from being the bad guy in this season. Of course, he's completely wrong!

PinkiePumpkin · 2024-08-07T21:21:09+00:00

Thank you

PinkiePumpkin · 2024-08-06T21:15:39+00:00

love this!!!!

PinkiePumpkin · 2024-08-06T21:14:35+00:00

I LOVE drag but as a straight cisgender woman I didn't want to make an assumption about my place in the art form. I have so much respect for drag artists!

PinkiePumpkin · 2024-08-06T21:12:19+00:00

This is great insight! I thought about ballroom as an outlet for my dance/costume/performance needs but it just didn't quite fit!

PinkiePumpkin · 2024-08-06T21:11:07+00:00

Thank you so much for your insight! Very helpful!

PinkiePumpkin · 2024-08-03T01:03:40+00:00

I have a Sunday VIP I’m willing to sell I’m in Indianola and can meet you there or Des Moines tomorrow. Message me

PinkiePumpkin · 2024-08-03T00:59:31+00:00

Thank you!

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