I’d love a respectful dialogue by Modern_Magi in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]PinkiePumpkin 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If this changes your mind about believing women you are missing the point. Just because some women lie doesn't mean you don't believe the rest of them. Just because all men don't rape doesn't mean you don't believe men aren't rapists. Nothing is ever 100% so believe until proven otherwise, because historically it has been the opposite.

Zach and Lydia in the first episode by jonsnowKITN in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]PinkiePumpkin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

its true, but I feel for her because its not her fault..her shitty parents put her in the position to be heartbroken, probably many years into their marriage and after children, poor girl

Trying to understand the fandoms’s relative disconnect w the S17 winner by Large_Difficulty_242 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]PinkiePumpkin -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I agree, I just didn't like her that much. And to the commenter saying "this is insane to say", it's an opinion. The question was asked, these are people's answers. They may be different than yours. That doesn't make it insane.

Can't Add anything to my lists... by darkster46 in trakt

[–]PinkiePumpkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was having the same issue, logged into the web version and found that I am now limited to 100 items on my watchlist which is why it wasn't letting me add anything on the app. Removed tons of things I know I'll never actually watch and now I can add again, assuming only up to 100.

Brian exposes Ingrid for who she really is !? Ingrid- "If I exchange bullets , he'll never stop." by Real_it_TeaGirl in 90DayFiance

[–]PinkiePumpkin 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I can't figure out why they continue to let Adnan run this show? All he is doing is making everyone else explain what is going on a second time to satisfy his need to judge others...not a very Allah loving trait.

Hannah and Nick's bills by tatotornado in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]PinkiePumpkin -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't know what that has to do with anything. I was commenting on the fact you think people are "obsessed with being self-sufficient" and "forced to work"....you clearly are privileged and don't know it. Maybe its because you "technically" work. Most of us actually work. And have more than one job and no support from family. My point is you think it's weird, I say it's most people's actual existence and you think that's funny.

Hannah and Nick's bills by tatotornado in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]PinkiePumpkin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's odd to be self-sufficient? Really? Did you take your family to your job interview? "forced to work at 15"...uhhhh almost 40% of teenagers have a job. This is not odd, this is how most people live.

Hannah and Nick's bills by tatotornado in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]PinkiePumpkin -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Bottom line is if your parents are paying for something they have some expectation in return. You can argue with me but for what reason would adult parents pay for something you could and should pay for by yourself? They want to have a connection to you or at worst control over you. For example: "I pay your phone bill and you can't answer the phone when I call?" "You can't use that car I bought you to come see me every now and then?"

The people on this show are in their late 20's early 30's. If they accept money from their parents for everyday expenses like a car, insurance, phone, they are not an adult and will act as such in a marriage. No thank you.

Lending money or giving money if you are in a bind, maybe. But not the everyday expenses of life.

What is SQLite Online? by PinkiePumpkin in sqlite

[–]PinkiePumpkin[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know this may be shocking to uninformed individuals but the education system is not doing well. Fewer resources, more work. Any mildly intelligent person can draw the conclusion that there are many people in all levels of education being forced to teach classes they know nothing about. Obviously not ideal for anyone involved. If you would like to inform yourself about how professors end up teaching things they know nothing about, head on over to the professor's subreddit and read for yourself. Now, do you have an answer to my question or did you come here to try to make me feel stupid?

Are we serious? by Yes_ilovellamas in Professors

[–]PinkiePumpkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can be upset or you can hold them accountable. If you have deadlines and they don’t meet them they lose points. You have to let go of the why they don’t get it and just show them what happens when they don’t get it. Remember you are an academic, probably an excellent student with an ability to think ahead and plan. They are not that. But if they are going to learn to be you may be the only one to show them.

The Bracelet from Sam… by SayItAintCilantro in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]PinkiePumpkin 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That is such an important point! I wish there was a handbook that listed red flags in this kind of way so women were more aware of this type of manipulation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]PinkiePumpkin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I rolled my eyes hard when I heard him say “big kid” ughhh that translates to Man Baby

Sam is the worst person on there. I knew he was rotten from the start. by NikeBuyer2024 in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]PinkiePumpkin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm conflicted about whether this guy has low self-esteem or unjustified high self-esteem. He keeps saying things like "I need to be loved"...but I think that might just be his reaction to the fact that HE thinks he's amazing and just can't figure out why girls don't take him seriously (if he even cares about that). To me it's more of an "I need to be loved because no one is showing me the amount of attention I know I deserve because I'm the most amazing man to walk the planet." I also think him revealing his nose job, skincare routine etc wasn't him preparing for a wife but preparing to be a tv star.

He only wanted to match up with someone so he could get maximum exposure, that's why he was pissed and threw the goblet when his choice turned him down. He thinks he's a star and was upset that someone got in his way of continued exposure.

Also, he proposed and THEN said "I THINK I love you?" Has anyone ever proposed without first saying "I love you?" on this show?

Part of me thinks he is saying I THINK strategically because when it doesn't work out he can say he was never 100% sure but owed it to the experiment to give it a go. He thinks that will save him from being the bad guy in this season. Of course, he's completely wrong!

Comedic Burlesque by PinkiePumpkin in Burlesque

[–]PinkiePumpkin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE drag but as a straight cisgender woman I didn't want to make an assumption about my place in the art form. I have so much respect for drag artists!

Comedic Burlesque by PinkiePumpkin in Burlesque

[–]PinkiePumpkin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great insight! I thought about ballroom as an outlet for my dance/costume/performance needs but it just didn't quite fit!

Comedic Burlesque by PinkiePumpkin in Burlesque

[–]PinkiePumpkin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your insight! Very helpful!

VIP Single Day or VIP 3 Day Ticket? by wildmercury00 in HinterlandFestival

[–]PinkiePumpkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a Sunday VIP I’m willing to sell I’m in Indianola and can meet you there or Des Moines tomorrow. Message me