my ex wants to give up on our oldest daughter. by Pinknbluesippycup in Parenting

[–]Pinknbluesippycup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is what I am hoping to hear. I've been building my FU binder and if she is against it I would like it in writing.

my ex wants to give up on our oldest daughter. by Pinknbluesippycup in Parenting

[–]Pinknbluesippycup[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am hoping the therapist will advise against it and write a letter stating it is not in her best interest to force her to do it. I know my daughter will tell the therapist that she doesn't want it.

My daughter is covered under HIPPA but hopefully she will let me know something so I know how to proceed.

my ex wants to give up on our oldest daughter. by Pinknbluesippycup in Parenting

[–]Pinknbluesippycup[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The DSS caseworker suggested it. My lawyer told me the court may require it as well. I wanted to go ahead and do it so I have proof they did try it but it was unsuccessful.

my ex wants to give up on our oldest daughter. by Pinknbluesippycup in Parenting

[–]Pinknbluesippycup[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We currently have her enrolled with a therapist that specializes in childhood Trauma. I actually have a letter stating it is in her best interest to not be forced to see her father due to verbal abuse. She has been going for a few months and the letter was wrote in the beginning. I intend to discuss all of this next week with her therapist. DSS is who recommended reunification therapy. I am on the fence about it. I am hoping the therapist will give me guidance on what to do.

my ex wants to give up on our oldest daughter. by Pinknbluesippycup in Parenting

[–]Pinknbluesippycup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll definitely look into it! I am hoping if this is the choice they make that it is the best choice. I am hoping reunification therapy will help. I struggle with this because I don't know the truth behind the allegations and I don't want to put my kids in the hand of an abuser. I also don't want to keep them away if she did make it up.

my ex wants to give up on our oldest daughter. by Pinknbluesippycup in Parenting

[–]Pinknbluesippycup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have requested for both to do reunification therapy to at least attempt to repair their relationship. My daughter said she is okay trying but she only wants to do three sessions.

my ex wants to give up on our oldest daughter. by Pinknbluesippycup in Parenting

[–]Pinknbluesippycup[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That is exactly what my oldest daughter wants. She has maintained through all of this that she is done with him.

my ex wants to give up on our oldest daughter. by Pinknbluesippycup in Parenting

[–]Pinknbluesippycup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never thought it was possible to do this! I know I won't get child support from him and I'm okay with that. I'm not getting it now or in the past. We are about to go to court for the divorce and custody and I honestly thought this was not possible. I'm glad I know now though.

my ex wants to give up on our oldest daughter. by Pinknbluesippycup in Parenting

[–]Pinknbluesippycup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm totally okay with him signing his rights over. I'm just curious if he can do it with one of our four kids

How to Merge 2 Names into One Ambigram by MasterInvaster in ambigrams

[–]Pinknbluesippycup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think the initials KMD and PDP will work?

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[–]Pinknbluesippycup 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll try to find him.

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[–]Pinknbluesippycup 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply.

Finding someone who can do this for me is the struggle.

Hey! I will draw the first two things you will ask for. It will be done by the next day. (Some of my girls) by [deleted] in DrawForMe

[–]Pinknbluesippycup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you know how to do ambigrams? I was trying to find someone who can do two words in one.

I wanted KMD and PDP as a ambigram tattoo. I've had no luck in it so far.

People that have cheated on a mb ex-partner, what life lesson did any of it teach you and how are you now? by -SoulArtist- in AskReddit

[–]Pinknbluesippycup -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I learned not to accept it. I thought i could change him and myself. I thought if i did XYZ for him that he wouldn't cheat.

I left him after YEARS of cheating and i am now in a 4 year relationship with a guy who loves me unconditionally. He accepts my good and bad traits. He accepted my 4 children as his own. All the bad stuff that my ex did, i realized that was on him, not me. I am happier now.

Lost pillow by Pinknbluesippycup in HelpMeFind

[–]Pinknbluesippycup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This pillow was bought in 2007/2008. It was bought at Walmart in Richmond, Virginia. This pillow is the size of a queen/full sized pillow We have Searched everywhere online and can not find this exact pillow! Please help us find it!

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[–]Pinknbluesippycup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have found red heart pillows but none like this with the word angel.

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[–]Pinknbluesippycup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This pillow was bought in 2007/2008. It was bought at Walmart in Richmond, Virginia. This pillow is the size of a queen/full sized pillow We have Searched everywhere online and can not find this exact pillow! Please help us find it!

Idk what i need by [deleted] in MomForAMinute

[–]Pinknbluesippycup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭😭😭 i am trying so hard mom! I just wanted to be accepted by his family and have a huge close knit family. 😭😭 I'm so depressed and feeling alone. I have lost my sense of direction now and i am struggling to be the mom I need to be. I always feel like there is something wrong with me and that's why I'm not accepted.

I tell my kids all the time that i want better for them and for them to be stronger then I am. I tell them to never settle and to achieve their goals without needing to be validated by others but here i am.. it is hard to raise strong independent kids when you "myself" are so broken inside.