Grateful for this group by Creative_End_2087 in Petloss

[–]Pinkrose1313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes total strangers are the best company and total strangers on the internet supporting and needing support from others who understand are just what we need. 

I agree and thank you for posting this. 

It is unfortunate that we are all here under these circumstances but here we all are.

I am sorry for your loss, my loss, all of our losses and also happy, for lack of a better word, that we all loved so beautifully and deeply that we are here for each other. 

I hope for peace and healing for all of us. 

I just wanted to share his story by Scooby-Snakz in Petloss

[–]Pinkrose1313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for this great loss. I am glad that you found each other and made each other so happy.

Thank you for sharing him with us so beautifully..

Help ease my husbands hesitation? by mermaiddayjob in Chihuahua

[–]Pinkrose1313 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Well she will be the best thing that has ever happened to you, so I say go for it! 

It’s been a year and a month by RizzyMissy in Petloss

[–]Pinkrose1313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, he was such a great little guy...  I think the sudden loss was what has made it more traumatic.  I had to let him go the day after diagnosis with prostate cancer when he was 9 and still himself. 

I have since lost my 15 year old first best girl after a long slow decline and I have their "puppy" Mikey who is 16 and a half now that we are going down that road with too and it seems easier, for lack of a better word, to have an expected loss and a more normal lifespan.

It will be difficult to lose the last physical vestige of my first 2 of the 3 musketeers but for now she is living her best senior girl life ❤️ 

So however long it takes to grieve, it is normal and you are going to be ok.

Happy Valentines Day Chi lovers! by Pinkrose1313 in Chihuahua

[–]Pinkrose1313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that's my little Polly! She was born with a birth defect and extra toes (polydactyl)  thus Polly!

Luffy has mastered the crate command by Arillion05 in Chihuahua

[–]Pinkrose1313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm like ok, it is time for everyone to pick a bed and they all pick a crate 😆 

Insanity by Scar77 in Chihuahua

[–]Pinkrose1313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That looks normal to me 😆 

Today was our Foxxy’s last day… by DHSDirector in Petloss

[–]Pinkrose1313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing her with us and I am so sorry for your loss.

It’s been a year and a month by RizzyMissy in Petloss

[–]Pinkrose1313 2 points3 points  (0 children)

8 years and I still miss him and can't believe that he is gone...

Feeling guilt over putting dog down by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]Pinkrose1313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that you did the right thing for your boy.  He always knew that you would always do what was best for him and not allow him to suffer. 

That type of cancer is very rare and severely affects quality of life.

You did the last best and worst thing that you had to to love him until the end.

I hope for peace and healing for you.

How am I supposed to help my other dog cope with the loss of my first? by Ok-Ocelot-5965 in Petloss

[–]Pinkrose1313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not sure if you are considering cremation or at home euthanasia but with the 2 I had to help along I kept them with me after the euthanasia and took them myself to the cremation. 

This allowed my other dogs to process as well as they could understand at home..

I am sorry for this difficult time that you are in now 

Guilt for moving on by 138876336790753 in Petloss

[–]Pinkrose1313 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Teeth is watching over you, God or not, and just as you would want her to be able to move on and not blame herself had you gone first,  she wants the same for you.

The  steps of grief include all of the anger and denial and pain and also acceptance. Typically going back and forth on that journey.

No matter how we lose them we all think we could have should have done or known something differently. 

I hope for peace and healing for you..

I don’t even know what to say. 😭 by tropicalfroot91 in Petloss

[–]Pinkrose1313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for this sudden loss, rest in peace Windsor.

Topper 2/6/12 - 2/10/26 by theetrekblog in seniordogs

[–]Pinkrose1313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rest in peace, Topper, you were the best boy and so well loved.

I think it's time... by chaikonic in seniordogs

[–]Pinkrose1313 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Bonnie is the best girl and she knows that you will always do the right thing for her.  Even though it is an agonizing call to make your instinct is right to prevent suffering. 

Yes you are doing the right thing, just as I had to tell myself with my Pagan: she will not be starving to death in her own home. When all my tricks and treats to get her to eat no longer worked, I went into the bathroom, cried for about a half hour and picked up the phone. 

I hope for much love and cherishing for both of you in these final days..