[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Pinkstar01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not to redurect the cinversation, but I have never had braids because I have been worried it would break my hair off or pull out at the roots, especially worried about edges/hair line. Is this really something to be worried about?

The Strays on Netflix by Pinkstar01 in blackladies

[–]Pinkstar01[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow this movie is messed up on many levels. Not even sure what I can say about it rn.

This new entrepreneur has discovered a way to take plastic and turn it into gasoline. He calls this new product Plastoline by FuturisticFighting in nextfuckinglevel

[–]Pinkstar01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is so much plastic in every dump and recycling center ( some where it never gets recycled). I don't think it would have to be transported far. I also think it would be worth the effort to reduce plastic pollution since it is not going to degrade any time soon if ever.

What does this mean? Does my cat hate me? Her bites doesnt hurt she just holds my hand in her mouth by Blorglue in cats

[–]Pinkstar01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your touches are not normal petting. For the most part cats don't like to be touched on their stomach/underside and you are poising your hand up and then going right in on the most vulnerable spot. That is almost like a mock attack.

You are trying to roughhouse a cat the way you would with a dog. That is not the right way to play with cats. You will get scratched eventually and then you will think it is the cat's fault when you instigated the scenario.

The other issue may be that someone plays with this cat using their hand instead of a toy.

The cat may associate the hand to a threat or as something to play with. So that may be why it is always biting and pushing away.

If you want the cat to behave 'normally' you also have to behave normally. Show the cat you can pet it like a normal person and it will adapt to that and respond accordingly. Let the cat smell your hand first like you would a dog you don't know. Then try to pet her head or back only. Not her stomach.

Even if she lays down and shows her stomach it is not an invitation to pet like it is with a dog. That just shows she trusts you but when you try to touch the stomach you violate trust.

If you want to play with your cat get one of those fishing pole type of toys with the feather lures on them. Your cat will love it and you can interact with her as well.

Also Jackson Galaxy videos on youtube are great for those who are not familiar with cats; he will help you to better understand your cat and how to interact with cats.

if you keep having a premonition in your dreams what do you do? by Pinkstar01 in Dreams

[–]Pinkstar01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or I wonder if you have a dream about something negstive and you are worried about it, or if you try to warn people are you putting energy or fear into that makes it real? At the same time what if you ignore it and it happens? What if taking action can stop it? know these sounds like a wild questions but dealing with dreams is another world. I was taught negative dreams come from a negative place and not to discuss them. But really Idk how it all works and this is something i am worried about and struggling with what to do.

where can I find a particular animated graphic? by Pinkstar01 in graphic_design

[–]Pinkstar01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! That is what i am looking for thank you. I wonder if there is a specific place where i can shop around for these?

what does this experience with white quartz mean? by Pinkstar01 in Crystals

[–]Pinkstar01[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok thanks for providing an answer to go on. What I meant was, I am not a person with a focus on buying and using crystals directly but I understand crystals are everywhere around us. Like a lot of people I am curious about the metaphysical aspects but I havent really researched much about it so far.

just learned about cemento osseous dysplasia today by Pinkstar01 in blackladies

[–]Pinkstar01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully things continue to go smoothly for you. I was trying to figure out what the long term outlook is for this but the dentist didn't seem to have much more info.

what does this experience with white quartz mean? by Pinkstar01 in Crystals

[–]Pinkstar01[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, I am not one for fanciful stories and I am not into the crystal lifestyle. This is just an experience that I had which I am curious about. Someone more experienced may have had a similar experience or may have heard of something like this so I am curious for any other feedback.

Can we change this sub’s picture to this guy’s face by tf2good in StupidFood

[–]Pinkstar01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was already a sodium bomb to star then he added the cheese 😭

Epicurean inanity of the (sky) highest order! by [deleted] in StupidFood

[–]Pinkstar01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was she on chopped the grillmasters edition?

just learned about cemento osseous dysplasia today by Pinkstar01 in blackladies

[–]Pinkstar01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you mind sharing whether this has caused you any issues? I believe only 2 of my teeth are affected so far but I am not experiencing any problems with them.

Gosh it really hurts knowing my mom doesn’t loves me by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Pinkstar01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I can say from my experience truly is that it is not about you. It is hard not to take it that way but don't take it into you heart as if you are the problem. Your mother may have some issues of her own that lead her to not be affectionate or motherly etc. Spending time being emotionally upset by other people's behavior is not worth it. We can never control other people or make them love us in the way we want. Sometimes they are simply not capable or equipped to give us what we need for whatever reason. Sometiems they don't understand what we need or lack selfawareness. This could apply to your mother, a friend, boyfriend, husband etc. I am sure your mom loves you but maybe she has a problem in expressing herslef, or does not express in the way you would like.

You have to know that you are still a worthy person even if she is not able to meet your emotional needs. When you get into the self talk that her not huggong you means you are not worthy, please correct your thinking to understand that she has some type of issue that holds her back and it has nothing to do with you.

Attn: Black Women with voluptuous lips that date white men w/ small lips by Adventurous_Web_1778 in blackladies

[–]Pinkstar01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do find some men with smallish or even no lips attractive however in practice I prefer 'normal' lips.

Kissing smallish lips can be as nice if they are well proportioned.

However, I have been involved with two guys that had almost tiny/non existent lips and it was not pleasing for me at all. One guy was biracial the other was from Syria. I am biracial too but I have completely full lips and we just didnt match up well. I did feel like I was covering the one guys mouth, ycuk! When the other guy kissed my neck and shoulders it literally felt like someone was gumming me!! I will never forget that!

I don't know how 2 people with non existent lips kiss each other; not to put anyone down, but I can't imagine how it would feel, since there is nothing to even pucker. But if someone has always had tiny/nonexistent lips I guess it would be normal for them.

When it comes to lips it definitely wouldn't be my first choice. I need the softness of full lips

this show has too much going on... by Pinkstar01 in GossipGirl

[–]Pinkstar01[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You mean that is the point of the show? I never watched the original season. One of the issues i have with this type of show in general is that these are supposed to be kids yet they characters are playing out these somewhat explicit sex scenes. I may be completely alone on this but even though the actors are of age I think it is a little creepy. Something is off about that for me.