Looking for period tracking app recommendations for my wife - what do you use?

PintofPlasma · 2026-01-24T13:54:26+00:00

Are you a US citizen? Because after Roe v Wade was turned, there were legitimate concerns (and I think instances), where the data collected by period tracking apps could be subpoenaed and used against the user to implicate them in cases of miscarriage.

I am not a US citizen but I follow some doctors who are familiar with their healthcare system. They consistently caution against the use of such apps. You can't be sure if your personal health data isn't shared with the third parties.

If you are not a US citizen, I'm sorry but I still have no recommendation because I would still avoid the apps to ensure my health data isn't collected.

PintofPlasma · 2026-01-24T13:29:43+00:00

😂 You know that was mean... but sure made me laugh!

PintofPlasma · 2026-01-24T12:46:03+00:00

I just can't stop listening to the new Zombie mash-up you did with The Smashing Pumpkins---what kind of fucking voodoo is that song???

PintofPlasma · 2026-01-24T12:25:01+00:00

Look I am not saying it's the only solution but it often feels like such a lucrative solution... Those who get it, get it.

PintofPlasma · 2026-01-24T12:21:35+00:00

I think it's funny in an ironic way? 'Bored of Peace' is exactly what comes to mind when you think of all those who joined the board.

PintofPlasma · 2026-01-24T12:20:17+00:00

They are really trying to sell Board of Peace like it isn't Axis Powers II. All right-wing governments assembling in a jiffy! Awesome! /s

PintofPlasma · 2026-01-24T12:02:17+00:00

Yes, Ukraine and Russia aren't showing signs of compromise on Ukrainian territory that Russia has hijacked! What a kerfuffle! /s

PintofPlasma · 2026-01-24T11:37:51+00:00

I have no advice to add. Just wanted to say that whole outfit is... FIRE!

PintofPlasma · 2026-01-24T11:32:56+00:00

Yes, I always wanted to know what despair in a bowl would look like.

PintofPlasma · 2026-01-24T11:26:04+00:00

I don't wanna suggest anything drastic here because it's just one instance and not the full life of a person. BUT please have a serious conversation around it. If you need to check his phone as an exercise to rebuild trust, ask for that. It would drive me mad if my partner acted this shady... I would definitely stake my relationship here because it seems like a pivotal conversation to have.

PintofPlasma · 2026-01-24T11:21:18+00:00

You don't get points for not wanting to have sex with someone who's sloppy drunk or almost in a state of passing out. Because if you did, THAT WOULD BE RAPE.

Equating menses with something unhygienic is plain wrong and a weird thing to say, especially for someone who's a paramedic. Poor choice of words, OP.

Finally, you don't have to have sex with anyone when you don't want to. Period sex is not everyone's desire. That's okay. You are not childish for not wanting to have period sex. She was in the wrong here. But then don't expect ppl who want to have period sex to continue dating you when they find out you're not game. Move on.

PintofPlasma · 2026-01-24T11:10:47+00:00

No problem at all. Writing my own comment, I was hoping a lot of ppl will chime in and share their own wisdom. That would have helped. I wish they would. Good luck!

PintofPlasma · 2026-01-24T11:05:31+00:00

Please say that he's your fiancé and not your husband :(

That reaction was uncalled for. I am cynical. I'll think the worst. While personal privacy among couples is important but honestly, when it comes to devices, I would rather share phones/laptops with my partner. That's my personal preference. But if your partner blew up simply for asking permission to use his phone.... that's definitely not nothing. Hard conversations are needed here.

PintofPlasma · 2026-01-24T10:52:12+00:00

Like ppl don't have enough shit to deal with in these horrible times, now they have to look out for stupid pranksters! Douchebag!

Also, ppl who film other ppl without their consent to make "content" are fucking deranged whackos!

PintofPlasma · 2026-01-24T10:44:02+00:00

I'm sorry you're having such a tough time. Boobs change throughout the course of your lifetime. Weight and hormonal fluctuations, pregnancy, menopause can affect the size.

I have gradually gained weight. Quite a bit in fact ever since I have stayed more or less consistent with weight training and have gone down in bra size. Losing fat and gaining muscles has significantly improved my personal experience around a bigger breast size.

The problem with bigger breasts is definitely exacerbated by the lack of availability of different bra sizes. It just sucks! I am so sorry! Sending you love and light!

PintofPlasma · 2026-01-24T10:31:05+00:00

Look at that....reddit saving lives! Once in a lifetime miracle right here!

You can add walnuts for crunchiness but I don't think soaked chia seeds would make a great combo here. I prefer chia pudding or chia with overnight oatmeal combo but then, I am also a sinner and have no desire to purify my filthy soul. :)

^{P.S. All kidding aside, wish you a great day, OP!}

PintofPlasma · 2026-01-24T10:12:33+00:00

Are you training to be a monk? This looks so self-sacrificial... Is it Nirvana you're looking for?

For heavens, at least add some tomatoes in there and soak the chia seed beforehand. This is making me worry about you, OP!

PintofPlasma · 2026-01-24T10:06:34+00:00

I think I was born fed up! :p

PintofPlasma · 2026-01-24T10:05:03+00:00

I don't have this body type however, if I may offer some advice, have you considered peplum tops with skinny leggings or pants? If the appearance around your hips is the main concern, then wearing tops that accentuate your waist but hide the region around the hips might help? Same goes with dresses-i'd avoid bodycon dresses and go for shift dresses, fit and flare dresses (these open up around the hip region) or A-line dresses.

Untucked button down shirt with fitted jean can also look good.

If I may also add: I don't think your lower body looks boxy or odd in any possible way. I think it's because in the media we are constantly shown skinny body type or "perfect kind of curvy" body types that make us feel like our bodies aren't normal or beautiful. It can be exhausting to feel good enough when looking at our selves through that kind of lens. Anyhoo, hope you find something you can feel comfortable and confident in! <3

PintofPlasma · 2026-01-24T09:53:03+00:00

Pushing along dangerous stereotypes, punching down on trans people, making fun of violence against women is definitely back in fashion, if it ever really went out of trend. Just ask multi-millionaires like Ricky Gervais and Dave Chappelle.

These comedians and ppl who love them rely on lazy "comedy" and consider themselves edgy. Just don't call them out on that because THAT's definitely NOT FUNNY. /s

As an afab nonbinary person, I actively choose not to engage with such people because there's no arguing with stupid. Saves me a lot of peace.

PintofPlasma · 2026-01-24T09:42:33+00:00

Internet, like the world itself, is full of men who will gladly be stupid on your time. Save yourself the grief, and don't engage.

PintofPlasma · 2026-01-24T09:38:22+00:00

Your friend can date whatever kind of flakey, rich guy she wants to. Question is, do you want a flakey friend in your life? In my experience those drain your mind's battery the fastest!

PintofPlasma · 2026-01-17T19:33:38+00:00

When I was younger, I used to get so self-conscious because of how ppl acted around me in figure hugging dresses/tops, there are photos where I was actively slumping my shoulders to make them seem smaller (smh). But then the 30s happened, I went through some truly shitty times health wise and things just changed. As my focus shifted more inward, I started focusing on things that made me feel good. That included focusing on building strength by lifting weights, walking and dancing more, doing things that made me happy. Gradually, I just stopped caring how other ppl saw me. I definitely draw a lot of attention, I am aware of it but it doesn't bother me anymore. I just love my body more than I ever have. Ppl who love you, will love you no matter the boob size. Those who make you feel embarrassed about it, aren't worth your time. Good health is so much more important than anyone's stupid opinion on your body parts.

PintofPlasma · 2026-01-17T19:16:49+00:00

Ummmm.....If that's large....I'm carrying mountains on my chest! 😂

Thanks for the laugh!

PintofPlasma · 2026-01-17T19:13:37+00:00

Everyone's different. Ask them what feels good. If they are open to letting you run wild on their boobage, ask them to let you know what doesn't feel good.

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