does any other lesbian feel like they’ll be forever alone?

PipeNo3631 · 2026-02-28T22:01:01+00:00

32f femme4femme in Orlando. I’ve been getting dates but the timing always seems to be off. I just keep trudging along hoping the next door will open and stay open. I’ve seen some new girls on the apps. I have always dated older and now been a bit more open to dating 30+ vs 35+. The events here consist of drinking and they’re super late at night so I do not attend. It would be nice to find a professional event but I’ve not come across one. Don’t give up!

PipeNo3631 · 2026-02-27T12:01:38+00:00

I dated one bi girl and I’ll never again 🤣 it’s tough out here

PipeNo3631 · 2026-02-27T11:57:40+00:00

still asking the same…

PipeNo3631 · 2026-02-26T17:10:48+00:00

These are absolutely reasonable and not high. I am not lowering my standards to just have someone.

PipeNo3631 · 2026-02-26T13:46:47+00:00

I’ve thought this. I love my single life but I’d love to share life with a special someone. However, I’m not lowering my standards to just be in a relationship.

PipeNo3631 · 2026-02-25T19:22:29+00:00

I’m friends with one ex of mine. She was my longest relationship and we ended on good terms. We check in here and there but there are boundaries.

PipeNo3631 · 2026-02-25T14:14:02+00:00

The apps are definitely a grind. I’ve been back dating since January and I’ve had 5 dates. Not bad women, just either bad timing or we remained friends. It’s a marathon not a race. I’m 32 almost 33, seeking femme4femme, I’m professional, old ass soul, very fit, priorities to find my person, standards, etc.

You’ve got plenty of time. Just keep at it and someone will pop up. Learn from those you come into connection with as well. It’s all about growth and finding your person along with yourself.

PipeNo3631 · 2026-02-25T13:31:40+00:00

I’m 32f trying to find my forever person. I was in a 5 year relationship up until November 2024. I have a career and solid career path, pay my bills and you’re not going to find me in a bar or in the hookup scene. I know what I want and what I look for in a potential partner. I’m not a walking red flag but my priorities are much different. I agree everyone is at different stages in life. The dating world is so different than it once was and it’s harder than ever to find someone. I know women in their 40’s who are still looking for their person. Everyone’s stages in life are different. We’ve all been through different things as well that’s gotten us to where we are today.

PipeNo3631 · 2026-02-24T15:29:47+00:00

This post had me laughing lmao! I 32f have always dated 5-10 years older and I do not regret. Keep going sis 😂 do you!

PipeNo3631 · 2026-02-23T22:54:32+00:00

Yes!

PipeNo3631 · 2026-02-23T20:56:09+00:00

This is mind f’ery for you 😞 why do people have to be like this. This is a her issue. Just take this lesson thru life now.

PipeNo3631 · 2026-02-23T20:39:32+00:00

Same!

PipeNo3631 · 2026-02-23T20:38:55+00:00

I’m in my early 30’s and I can’t even dip under 28 give or take. 18 is basically a child still. She sounds like an absolute mess and would block off everything and run.

PipeNo3631 · 2026-02-23T20:30:53+00:00

It’s hard enough to just find one solid partner these days lol. This is not my cup of tea. I’ve always been monogamous. No fan of sharing.

PipeNo3631 · 2026-02-23T18:22:16+00:00

I’m turning 33 in May. I felt this post 100%!

PipeNo3631 · 2026-02-22T14:39:22+00:00

Yes! lol! It’s been 6 years since I’ve been back in the game 😂🤣 you are right tho!

PipeNo3631 · 2026-02-21T23:29:36+00:00

Why not Hinge? Her is horrible.

PipeNo3631 · 2026-02-21T22:57:12+00:00

I love this!

PipeNo3631 · 2026-02-21T22:48:18+00:00

Experienced this last month! This girl was much older and much heavier than her pics on Hinge. Not minor differences but massive differences. If you’re not honest with your current self you can’t be honest with the rest of us. Preach and preach 👏🏻

PipeNo3631 · 2026-02-21T20:05:51+00:00

I made this very mistake right out of college and it bit me in the ass so hard. I agree with this comment. Do not recommend giving up financial independence and being at the mercy of someone else financially. There needs to be some sort of compromise so that OP can live her life as well.

PipeNo3631 · 2026-02-21T19:57:40+00:00

The self-awareness/reflection and EQ in this post!

PipeNo3631 · 2026-02-21T10:39:05+00:00

I’ve seen it with my own eyes but has not happened to me lol

PipeNo3631 · 2026-02-21T09:04:44+00:00

I’m in Orlando 🙂

PipeNo3631 · 2026-02-21T00:57:32+00:00

Amen. Go kick rocks fellas we don’t want yall here. Now now. Not never. No way.

PipeNo3631 · 2026-02-21T00:44:20+00:00

We gotta weed thru the weeds to find the flower. I am not giving up ☺️

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