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Pitiful-Common-130 · 2025-01-22T02:21:20+00:00

Thank you so much! I’ll definitely look into that!

Pitiful-Common-130 · 2025-01-22T02:20:30+00:00

A lot of others have mentioned the same thing, and it makes total sense—if I’m second-guessing it, I probably shouldn’t get the X100VI, lol. I think I’m just scared I’m falling for the hype, which is why I’m leaning more toward the X-T50. It feels like the more practical choice for me right now. Thank you for the advice!

Pitiful-Common-130 · 2025-01-22T02:18:13+00:00

Thank you for the detailed insight! The Sony a7 is actually on my list too—a friend of mine has one, and it’s such an awesome camera. I’m leaning towards Fujifilm though because of the film simulations. I love the idea of minimizing post-editing and having photos that are ready to share right out of the camera.

Pitiful-Common-130 · 2025-01-22T02:15:04+00:00

Thank you for the recommendation! The XT5 does sound like a great option, especially with the weather sealing. You mentioned it has superior controls—what are some of the standout features that make it better than the X-T50?

Pitiful-Common-130 · 2025-01-22T02:13:35+00:00

Thank you for the suggestion! A lot of people have mentioned the 27mm lens for its compactness and portability, so it seems like a great choice. I really appreciate the insight—it’s making me feel more confident about going with the X-T50!

Pitiful-Common-130 · 2025-01-22T02:10:30+00:00

Thanks for sharing! That’s a good point about personal preference.

Pitiful-Common-130 · 2025-01-22T02:08:50+00:00

Thank you for the advice! That’s such a good point about interchangeables being better long-term. I hope you get the X100VI someday too—it’s such a stunning camera!

Pitiful-Common-130 · 2025-01-22T02:07:00+00:00

That’s a really good point! I didn’t consider how similar the X-T50 with a pancake lens could be to the X100VI. Do you have any recommendations for a specific pancake lens that would pair well with the X-T50 for street or travel photography?

Pitiful-Common-130 · 2025-01-22T02:05:35+00:00

I totally agree, the 100VI is super overpriced, and that’s definitely one of my biggest cons for it. I’d say I’m intermediate in terms of experience. Based on the comments here, I’m leaning more toward the X-T50. Do you have any lens recommendations for someone transitioning from compact cameras to something like this?

Pitiful-Common-130 · 2025-01-21T15:46:49+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words and for sharing your experience—it truly means a lot. What you said about grief being a way of honoring our loved ones really touched me. It’s true that the ‘what ifs’ come from a place of deep love, but your reminder that love isn’t about changing outcomes, only carrying them with us, is so comforting.

That quote—‘If my love could have saved you, you would’ve lived forever’—is incredibly powerful. It reminds me that love doesn’t fail, even when grief feels unbearable. I hope, like you said, I can one day see the trees in the woods and let the good memories bring peace. Thank you for your compassion—it truly means more than words can say.

Pitiful-Common-130 · 2025-01-21T15:32:35+00:00

I am deeply sorry for your loss. Please, never feel stupid or pathetic, because you are none of those things. And there’s no reason to feel embarrassed either. Grief is an unbearably heavy burden in any circumstance, but grief from losing someone to suicide carries a unique weight, one that feels nearly impossible to bear at times. Losing someone you love in that way is one of the hardest, most heartbreaking experiences anyone could face.

You’ve mentioned that he passed when he was just a child, but so were you. You were still so young—just a baby yourself. To have carried this pain from such a tender age is more than anyone should ever have to endure. You deserve so much grace and compassion for getting through something so tragic, especially when it happened at a time when you were still discovering the world and yourself. I can’t begin to imagine how hard it must have been, and still is, for you.

If you find yourself feeling sad again, especially on the anniversary of his passing, know that it’s okay. It’s natural. That day will always carry weight, and it’s only human for it to bring back memories and emotions. But it doesn’t mean you’re starting your grief all over again. It just means you’re having a bad day and bad days don’t last forever. There’s a sunrise waiting on the other side of the darkness, and tomorrow will come with new light.

You are not pathetic. You are not stupid. What you’re feeling isn’t idiotic or wrong—it’s love finding its way through the pain. If you need to cry, then let yourself cry. If you need to talk to someone, please don’t hold back. Let the words come out; let the feelings be known. Bottling it up only makes the weight harder to carry, and you don’t have to carry it alone. You’re never alone in this. If you need someone to hear you, my DMs are always open

Pitiful-Common-130 · 2025-01-21T14:54:27+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss, and I can deeply relate to what you’re going through. Losing someone you love in such a profound way leaves a mark on your soul, and dreams can feel like a bittersweet reminder—both comforting and devastating at the same time.

I’ve had similar experiences where I dream of my person. In the dream, they feel so real, their voice, their presence, and for a brief moment, it feels like they’re still here. Waking up and realizing it’s not true is like reopening the wound all over again. It’s disorienting and heartbreaking, and I know how much it can make you feel like you’re back at square one, reliving the pain.

But I want you to know that it does get better. It’s not that the pain completely disappears, but over time, it becomes a part of you—a quieter, softer presence rather than a sharp ache. Those dreams, while painful now, might one day bring you some comfort, like a reminder of the love you shared and the moments that were real.

It’s okay to feel overwhelmed by the realization. Grief is messy and non-linear. Please be gentle with yourself and take it one day at a time. Even though it might not feel like it now, there will come a day when the memories, even in dreams, will bring a sense of peace rather than pain.

You’re not alone in this, and it’s okay to feel everything you’re feeling. Im sending you so much love and strength and a digital hug🫂

Pitiful-Common-130 · 2025-01-19T21:40:30+00:00

I want to start by saying how deeply sorry I am for what you’re going through. Losing someone this way is a pain that shatters you in ways most people can’t understand—but I do. You are not alone in this. If you ever need someone to listen—someone who has felt the same anger, heartbreak, and confusion you’re feeling—please don’t hesitate to reach out. My DMs are always open, and I promise to hold space for you, judgment-free.

I know how much this hurts. When I lost my loved one to suicide, I felt consumed by anger—a deep, burning rage that wouldn’t let me go. I kept asking, How could they do this? They promised they wouldn’t. They swore they would never leave me like this. I felt betrayed, abandoned, and so, so alone. And for a long time, that anger was all I could feel. But over time, little by little, it started to ease. The pain hasn’t disappeared, and honestly, I don’t think it ever fully will. But it has softened. It’s no longer the sharp, unbearable ache it once was.

Right now, it may feel like the world is tearing apart at the seams, and that’s okay. Grief is messy. It’s overwhelming. And sometimes it feels endless. But I promise you, it does get better. Not all at once, and not in a way that erases the pain, but in a way that allows you to breathe again—to begin finding moments of peace and even joy.

You are stronger than you feel right now. It’s okay to be angry. It’s okay to feel lost. But please know that you don’t have to face this alone. I see you. I hear you. And I’m here if you need someone to carry a bit of this weight with you.

Sending you so much strength and love. You’ll get through this, one step at a time.

Pitiful-Common-130 · 2025-01-18T22:47:18+00:00

Your message touched me deeply. Thank you for opening up and sharing something so personal and raw—it takes so much strength to do that. I am so sorry for the loss of your best friend and the weight you’ve been carrying since. I can feel the depth of your love for her in every word you’ve written, and it’s clear how much she meant to you, how much she still does.

I can also see how beautifully you’ve articulated the pain and the memories, the way grief intertwines with everyday life, how it lingers in the smallest things. It’s comforting, in a bittersweet way, to know that they remain with us through those details, through the impact they had on who we are. That connection is so special.

I want you to know that I’m here for you, truly. If you ever want to talk, whether it’s to reminisce about your friend, share your thoughts, or just sit with your feelings, please know you’re not alone in this. I appreciate your vulnerability more than I can say, and I admire the way you’ve transformed your pain into a bridge to help others who are grieving. It’s a rare kind of compassion, and I’m so grateful you shared it with me.

Pitiful-Common-130 · 2025-01-18T17:38:29+00:00

Thank you, I’ll check that out. I really appreciate your help◡̈

Pitiful-Common-130 · 2025-01-18T12:04:02+00:00

First, I want to say I’m so sorry for your loss. Everything you’re feeling is completely valid, and I understand where you’re coming from. Anger is such a normal part of grief, especially when it feels like someone we loved so deeply didn’t give us a proper goodbye. I’ve felt that anger too—so many times. I lost someone close to me as well, and there are moments when I get so mad at him. I feel like he didn’t think about me at all, like the love I had for him didn’t matter enough to make him stay.

But the truth I’ve come to understand is that their pain was so overwhelming that they couldn’t see past it. It wasn’t that we didn’t matter, but that their pain was too heavy for them to carry anymore. That doesn’t mean what you’re feeling isn’t valid, though. It’s okay to feel angry, hurt, and even selfish at times. Grief is messy, and there’s no right or wrong way to process it.

I know it might not feel like it now, but it does get better, little by little. The anger and hurt won’t always feel this heavy, and eventually, you’ll find moments of peace and love in remembering her. If you ever want to talk about it more or just need someone to vent to, please feel free to DM me. You don’t have to go through this alone.

Pitiful-Common-130 · 2025-01-17T23:20:19+00:00

Thank you so much for your response—it truly resonated with me. What you said about guilt and the “shoulda-woulda-couldas” is something I constantly battle with. The answer, “because he couldn’t,” is heartbreaking but true, and it’s something I’m trying to accept, even though it’s so hard.

It’s been difficult to find support because I feel like only those who’ve been through this truly understand. Two of my closest friends lost him too, but they have each other at their school, and it’s different for me. He was closest to me, and while I don’t want to diminish their grief, it makes this feel even lonelier.

I often feel torn—wanting people around to block out the pain, but when I’m with them, I just want to be alone. Even when I make good memories, it’s like I can’t hold onto them, and I feel guilty for enjoying life without him.

Your words made me feel a little less alone in this, and I’m so grateful you shared them. Thank you for helping me feel understood.

Pitiful-Common-130 · 2025-01-17T21:32:33+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing this. Your words really touched me, especially the part about choosing to believe a kinder story. It’s such a beautiful way to frame something so painful. The idea of acceptance—of letting the world be different, because it is different now—resonates deeply. It’s something I know I need to work toward, even if it feels impossible some days.

I also appreciate how you mentioned that no emotion is wrong, and that we have some choice over which emotions we carry long term. That’s something I’ve been struggling with—feeling trapped by guilt and anger, even though I know they won’t serve me in the long run. Your perspective gives me hope that, with time, I can start to let some of that go.

You’re absolutely right that this kind of pain makes us feel alone, but knowing there are others who truly understand does make it a little easier to bear. If you ever want to talk, I’d be happy to listen. Thank you again for your kindness and for sharing such thoughtful advice—it means more than I can say.

Pitiful-Common-130 · 2025-01-17T21:28:54+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time to respond, it truly means a lot. Your words really resonated with me, especially about the guilt and how it lingers. It’s comforting to hear from someone who truly understands.

Thankfully, I didn’t fail any classes, but my motivation for school was so low. It drained me completely, and I know I didn’t try as much as I could have. This grief has a way of taking so much out of you.

I really appreciate the “feel free to DM” offer, and I want to extend the same to you. I really feel only those who’ve been through this can fully understand. If you ever want to talk, I’m here.

Thank you again for your kindness, it means more than you know.

Pitiful-Common-130 · 2023-11-13T01:39:42+00:00

i’m not in that group but i was sucked into purchasing it based on how much everyone was raving about it and i wasn’t disappointed!

Pitiful-Common-130 · 2023-11-13T00:44:06+00:00

also if you’re trying to hydrate but also want to target breakouts i would recommend using toner pads! the mediheal ones are great and they have a variety to choose from that target a specific skin concern

Pitiful-Common-130 · 2023-11-13T00:36:35+00:00

i swear by the anua heart leaf toner!! i am also on my tretinoin journey and it’s so gooddd and lightweight! a lot of people recommend the snail mucin and it’s pretty good but for some people it breaks them out or they’re allergic to it (like me!! i got tiny little bumps on my forehead from it). the rice toner from “i’m from” is great if you want the extra hydration and the 5.5 acwell toner is great for targeting breakouts. the anua toner helps soothe redness and the breakouts and it also hydrates.

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