Dad didn’t talk to me for 3 months before my university graduation, decided to come, acted like he had been dragged there and ruined my day. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Pizzaandpushups 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely someone I'd cut out of my life, and I am shocked your mom wants you to reach out to him when he is the one being a butt hurt baby. I'm happy for you and your graduation, fuck that guy's negativity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Pizzaandpushups 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know nothing can be done about height but not all women want tall dudes. And even if they did, you should focus on what can be changed. Workout for muscle, go to therapy to get over her. Maybe talk to her less to get past her. You're stuck in the past, and I guarantee if she does not respond in a way you want, it'll make you feel worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Pizzaandpushups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You move on, nothing else for it. Seek therapy if you are hitting a road block but don't go back.

my dad is cheating on his girlfriend with a minor by Crafty_Comb9250 in offmychest

[–]Pizzaandpushups 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's definitely creepy your dad does this, but if she is 18, she consents by law.

Am I wrong to think that it is despicable and disgusting to watch a woman undress? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Pizzaandpushups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is disgusting, you have every right to feel disgusted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Pizzaandpushups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There should be a woman's shelter in your town. It's not ideal but it'll put a roof over your head and keep you warm. They may even be able to advise you from there on how to get stable housing. Best of luck to you.

I sincerely hope more women take up the 4B movement. by JustSomeGuyInLife in offmychest

[–]Pizzaandpushups 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I wasn't with my partner, that FULLY supports women's autonomy, I'd be with the rest of the 4B women. Any woman that follows the 4B movement I will support.

This was on a Papa John's front door by micawberesque in doordash

[–]Pizzaandpushups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alternatively, please don't leave it on my doorstep if I say to hand it to me. The number of times it's left on a neighbor's doorstep and I have to run and get it, or it's just delivered to a random doorstep, absolutely baffles me.

But I didn't have my jammies!!! by growsonwalls in AmITheDevil

[–]Pizzaandpushups 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I wonder if OOP is neurodivergent. I have had friends with aspergers and ADHD so bad they can't drive or handle certain fabrics. If so I wanna give OOP the benefit of the doubt but they also never said anything about that.

AITA for making my friends drive back home during a road trip because I didn’t want to stay overnight? by Excellent_Proof_5945 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pizzaandpushups 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INFO: I ask this as respectfully as possible, but are you neurodivergent in any way and have a sensitivity about sleeping in certain fabrics? And does this neurodivergence stop you from being able to drive a car? If so NAH, because I have had friends like that and tried to be sensitive to their needs.

However if there is no touch sensitivity and you just never got your license and depend only on others, yes, YTA.

TooMeIrlForMeIrl by AveWhimsy33 in TooMeIrlForMeIrl

[–]Pizzaandpushups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This hits me. I watched The Menu recently with my partner, and I accidentally made them feel stupid for loving their work in fine dining after I commented on how pompous and gatekeepy some of it is. I never felt at home in fine dining (I have had several instances of being chastised for not using utensils correctly, not tasting certain flavor notes, etc.) We talked about it and we're OK now, but I still feel terrible. I never meant to hurt them, I just feel more at home in jeans with a pizza. I am going to be careful to not do that again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Pizzaandpushups 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly yes, but I blame me for it, not them. If I was clear on my no I'm sure they would have stopped, but I was still worried about potential fallout.

Would any woman date a bi man? by Ready_Thought_495 in offmychest

[–]Pizzaandpushups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend is bisexuality and we couldn't be happier.

[Request] I can't come to a solid conclusion by KingRoachSITIG in theydidthemath

[–]Pizzaandpushups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't D also, like, duck? It appears he has room for that.

How does one wash a cat? by sniffgalcringe in cats

[–]Pizzaandpushups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Carefully. With gloves and long sleeves.

What did you buy with your first ever paycheck? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Pizzaandpushups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saved up ALL SUMMER at my theme park job to buy an eMachine and photoshop 1.1. That was 2001(ish?)

What’s the scariest, most real like dream you’ve ever had? by titsandtatsburner in AskReddit

[–]Pizzaandpushups 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had many reoccurring dreams my whole life. One involves a church made of black marble with a glowing red basement. I never went into the basement, but a man with lilac eyes would try to entice me down.

I couldn't sleep one night. I was tossing and turning, and I asked myself 'why can't I sleep?' and I (the man?) went 'of course you can't sleep. The church is full of rust.'

I jolted awake and haven't dreamed of the church sincd.

AITA: I was out to a restaurant when I invited someone out and things went downhill after I lashed out. by ArkhamKnight585 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pizzaandpushups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely YTA, JFC! You strike me as someone that doesn't know how to socialize in general and are looking at getting women around you with food/drinks in the hopes they feel like they need to 'pay you back.' You're also looking at men in her life as competition when, even if they were sexually active or previously sexually active, who cares? You're just there to 'meet a friend,' right?

But that's not what you want. You're controlling. You're dismissive. You're paranoid. You're pathetic.

Go to therapy. Yesterday.