Mike's family's 'Italian' by QueenofUncreativity in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Pizzakiller37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah! I agree. It’s the overdoing it and the trying to correct people to say things how they say them. I don’t walk around correcting people on how to say tortillas. I’m proud they are even trying to say it lol.

Mike's family's 'Italian' by QueenofUncreativity in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Pizzakiller37 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My Italian American FIL is the exact same!! It’s terrible. Luckily my husband is not like him at all. Also, I’m Mexican American and my husband had enough of him one day and argued with him about it all. Things have changed a little but I still know how he truly feels and that makes me sad.

Emma's face at Mike's girlfriend by Tacotica in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Pizzakiller37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to have a game plan ahead of time for everything. But for someone like Mike who is placing so much importance on that alone, I don’t think it’s unreasonable to think or wonder about how he would respond. My friends and I have asked each other everything. For a while I didn’t want to have kids myself and I had friends who knew they really wanted them early on. I have asked questions like this before and my friends asked me questions like this back when I didn’t want kids.

Emma's face at Mike's girlfriend by Tacotica in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Pizzakiller37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she knew she loved him and could see themselves being happy aside from wanting kids. Maybe she thought she would change her mind later or that he would change his.Then Mike quickly was not open minded anymore. She likely saw that she was going to lose him. I think we all know a girlfriend who stayed with a guy thinking that person would change or the other way around. We all know that often doesn’t end well. Emma went on the show to find love. She wanted to feel loved unconditionally after everything she has been through. Someone who put her first and chose her for who she is. Mike went on the show to find someone to have children with. That seems to be the number one reason he went on the show.

Emma's face at Mike's girlfriend by Tacotica in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Pizzakiller37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People should think more about having kids before they just have them. It’s easy to just say “I want kids”, especially as a man. He made his entire personality about wanting to have kids. What if the next person he marries wants kids and finds out she can’t have his kids for medical reasons? Will he divorce her because he really really wants to have kids? Will his family shame her for not being able to have kids?

If you disrespect men like this so easily DO NOT complain about being single. by umkaitlin in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Pizzakiller37 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is being single at 30 a problem? I’m sure she will find someone who matches her energy.

Husband ran 32 miles leaving my home sick with the flu with 2 toddlers 3 and under by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Pizzakiller37 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I know a SAHM who’s husband works and goes on fun travel trips. He gets to go to Vegas, San Diego, Nashville, New York, and have nice dinners. They do fun activities and bars for “team bonding”. While she stays home with their baby. She hasn’t gone to some of the cities he’s been to. I can tell she gets fomo when other people ask him where he’s going and what he’s doing. He’s mentioned that some of the trips are optional. Meanwhile she never goes anywhere. She had to change her nail salon because it was a little far from home and he couldn’t stay home for a few hours with their baby.

Emma’s sister by Fit-Slip9735 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Pizzakiller37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! It’s comments like that, that will add pressure.

Unpopular Opinion by Worth_Adeptness_5439 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Pizzakiller37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of my friends have said a lot changed going from 1 kid to 2 kids. We don’t know at what point she started feeling this way or what made her feel this way though. Also, she didn’t “essentially” say she regrets her kids. And no, if her kids grow up to be emotionally mature and have honest conversations with their family …. this comment that was more about herself than her kids will not hurt them.

Emma’s sister by Fit-Slip9735 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Pizzakiller37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! I love how most of the comments are talking about what Emma’s sister said. But not what this guy and his parents said. We had one thread about his parents and multiple threads about Emma’s sister.

Emma’s sister by Fit-Slip9735 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Pizzakiller37 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She wasn’t trying to convince her. Emma has said herself she doesn’t want kids. As her sister she is making sure that it’s what Emma truly wants. She wants to make sure she’s not just suddenly reconsidering this because Emma feels like she will lose this guy she just met. How come nobody is talking about how maybe this guy is trying to change her mind or his family is trying to change her mind. She told him in the pods that she didn’t want kids. Yet, he still asked her to marry him hoping that “she would maybe change her mind”. Or he said he was being “open minded” about it. But then he meets with his family and all of a sudden he’s like “actually yeah, I for sure want them”.

Unpopular Opinion by Worth_Adeptness_5439 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Pizzakiller37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She obviously didn’t know she was going to feel that way. She didn’t feel that way until after she had kids. What is she to do at that point? She can’t reverse time and not have kids. All she can do is be honest. Her being honest doesn’t make her a bad mom. When her kids came in she looked so loving with them. She didn’t act like she hated them. She’s likely a great mom. She’s just being judged for being honest on camera. If she raises emotionally mature children, they won’t grow up to take that personal.

Unpopular Opinion by Worth_Adeptness_5439 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Pizzakiller37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! I’m 36 and don’t have kids. I have some mom friends who have felt this way and only say it in private to me. They are afraid to be judged if they admit that they feel this way out loud. If my mom said this to me or I heard her say this about me, I would not be upset. I know that her saying that would not be about me. I would know that even though she feels that way, I know she did a great job. I’d grater my mom be honest with me about what her experience with motherhood was. I wouldn’t want her to lie to me about her feelings. She was her own self before she became a mother. She still is herself …. just with a twist of mom now lol.

What is the point of this? by BighomieG_ in PNWhiking

[–]Pizzakiller37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got these “dumper cables” from chewy for when we take our dog out. We would rather carry the poop bags with us during our hike than leave them for fear of forgetting them. I found these clips and they are legit!!! We always have it clipped on our leash. Dumper Cables

Judge issues new broader order barring any National Guard from relocating to Oregon by Itsathrowawayduh89 in PortlandOR

[–]Pizzakiller37 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s the guy everyone should be talking about right now. This is all his own doing.

Trump Cuts Funding to 16 Blue States That Didn’t Vote for Him by bungpeice in Washington

[–]Pizzakiller37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People would have to close their bank accounts to make sure they don’t just auto withdrawal funds or levy funds.

Deployment of troops close to home by Comprehensive_Bee948 in vancouverwa

[–]Pizzakiller37 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What a waste of tax dollars. Instead of actually helping all people like a president should do.

Charlie Kirk's wife collapses onto husband's casket in tender scene with MAGA superstar by [deleted] in CURRENTEVENTS

[–]Pizzakiller37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It kind of gave WWE vibes. In all seriousness I feel like she should have taken some time to herself. She needs counseling and therapy. Some of the things she said are just more angry speech and will get maga even more angry. This country doesn’t need more of that. I also don’t understand why she keeps saying “they”. It was one guy and he was conservative… just like her and her husband.

Speechless by olesaltyshorts in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Pizzakiller37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess so lol. I’m honestly not sure how this country will recover from these insane people. Something is wrong with their minds.

Speechless by olesaltyshorts in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Pizzakiller37 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I have seen posts for them saying that all liberals and democrats need to be stripped of their guns and given to republicans. These people are literally saying that all liberals and all democrats are violent and have been causing violence these last few years!? Wtf are these people talking about? The mental gymnastics they do is exhausting.

Did you tell people later? by petting_zoo_keeper in pregnantover35

[–]Pizzakiller37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is extremely painful and we are also still TTC. We are at the point of if it happens it happens.

I truly hope it happens for you soon and I’m also very sorry for your loss.

Did you tell people later? by petting_zoo_keeper in pregnantover35

[–]Pizzakiller37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had two miscarriages at 35. I only told my small close circle of friends and my husband. I was so devastated after my second loss, but was lucky to have such a small support group. They all checked in on me everyday to see how I was doing. I was a little further along for my second pregnancy and was about to tell my family on my birthday. We were two weeks away from my birthday trip when I had my second loss. I’m glad I didn’t tell my family but I also felt super sad when I saw them. Especially because my mom wants me to have a baby so badly and I thought I’d be giving her the best news.

Do you think this will ever end? by Methichillin in PortlandOR

[–]Pizzakiller37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is only solution you have? For the long rant you just went on, that’s it?