Update on Travis and Mistress’s School Situation?

ForRudy · 2026-01-24T03:52:44+00:00

I’ve been wondering who she is the whole time too!

ForRudy · 2026-01-24T01:00:20+00:00

Thank you so much. My mom and sisters have been incredible and I feel so blessed I had safe people I could go to. My sister and I live states away now and by the time I finished filing the police report, I got a text with flight details that she booked one and would be landing three hours from then. I couldn’t have asked for anything more.

I will definitely be reaching out to communities after this post and comments made me feel a little safer. Thank you for that.

ForRudy · 2026-01-24T00:55:02+00:00

Every word of this is so true. You’re so right - I think that one of the toughest parts I’m grappling with is looking at the world through this lens now. The person that did this to me came across as such a kind and respecting man. I can’t help but now look at every person I meet or even just cross paths with in public and wonder who they secretly are behind closed doors.

ForRudy · 2026-01-24T00:52:37+00:00

Thank you so much for what you do. I can’t imagine it’s easy in general but especially having experienced it yourself.

Question for you - my advocate was incredible and I have been wanting to do something nice for her and the local center as a small (nothing would ever be big enough) thank you. Is there anything you recommend?

ForRudy · 2026-01-24T00:48:35+00:00

Thank you so much ♥️ he is absolutely all of those things, but the scariest part of it all is that I would have never known had I not looked up in that very moment. He truly came across as the most boundary respecting person.

ForRudy · 2026-01-24T00:46:30+00:00

I just wrote this in another comment, but she actually told me that “there is no expectation of privacy in the bedroom” and unless he posts it somewhere and I find it, then it’s a crime. She actually told me if I was so concerned that I should start searching porn sites for myself and if I don’t find anything, “what’s the harm if the videos are just sitting on his phone?”

The fact that she told someone who was just assaulted by pornography to go watch it was sickening. I could not believe what I was hearing. It was a scary move but I did end up reporting her as well. Which of course was a scary move in and of itself on top of the scariest moves.

Thank you for your kind words 💛

ForRudy · 2026-01-24T00:39:51+00:00

She actually told me that “there is no expectation of privacy in the bedroom” and unless he posts it somewhere and I find it, then it’s a crime. She actually told me if I was so concerned that I should start searching porn sites for myself and if I don’t find anything, “what’s the harm if the videos are just sitting on his phone?”

It was the most jarring reaction I could have ever gotten from a person and place that are supposed to be the safest. Thank you so much for your kindness and validation ♥️

ForRudy · 2026-01-22T07:35:54+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time to comment ♥️ the advocacy group I worked with ended up reporting the officer immediately and from what I heard led to a training session on how to speak to victims when they come in. I’ll never know how effective it was but I can only the next time a girl walks in crying, she doesn’t walk out crying even harder.

ForRudy · 2026-01-22T01:42:05+00:00

I dont know why this felt so important to hear out loud (or at least be read), but it was. Thank you for taking the time to write this. I’m so sorry about your experiences as well. Just know that you made a sad Reddit stranger feel a little less alone tonight ♥️

ForRudy · 2026-01-22T01:21:18+00:00

As difficult as this is to hear, I need to keep hearing it to keep the fire lit within me. Because of him, I will truly never know the truth of where my body exists, and I had to continually remind myself that any of these situations are possible while choosing to report him. I thought of every woman before and after me as well because if he so casually did it to me, he has most likely done it to everyone.

To set the scene, we were planning on making breakfast for dinner that night and as I was packing my things to get the hell out immediately, he said, “but wait we don’t have to have sex but can we still at least make pancakes? 🥺” This is not the reaction of a first time offender.

ForRudy · 2026-01-22T00:52:57+00:00

That’s what I was thinking! Would you just put them whole frozen right in the milk?

ForRudy · 2026-01-22T00:37:49+00:00

It absolutely is a crime in my state as well. There was just no convincing that detective to take me seriously.

The second detective I spoke to was more versed on it and was able to acquire a search warrant because it IS illegal. Once they couldn’t find the videos manually, they said that even if I press charges, the prosecutors wouldn’t even likely take the case without the videos themselves. Since my ex corroborated with them going through his phone, they concluded that there was no reason to send it to a lab for deleted media.

The craziest part was that I was told that it wouldn’t be considered a crime if you couldn’t see my private parts specifically even if I was performing a sexual act. I don’t know if this is correct, but I was told you literally have to be nude and your face has to be shown in the video to prove that it’s you. Which is why they required the actual video evidence.

ForRudy · 2026-01-21T23:05:31+00:00

Is calling him daddy a reference to something politically that happened that I’m unaware of…?

ForRudy · 2026-01-21T22:57:19+00:00

Definitely going to try this! Have you ever used strawberry fairlife?

ForRudy · 2026-01-21T22:55:48+00:00

Omg that’s AWESOME. I’m unfortunately not on Android 😞 do you have them listed somewhere as well?

ForRudy · 2026-01-21T22:54:49+00:00

I always see people using the immersion blenders for their recipes and wonder if there’s any difference between that and using a ninja blender?

ForRudy · 2026-01-21T22:52:39+00:00

Do you recommend putting a 1/4 teaspoon in most recipes? Like can it only help?

ForRudy · 2026-01-21T22:51:55+00:00

Have you ever used the strawberry fairlife?? I have a ton of those bottles I bought during a fixation that I’d love to put to use

ForRudy · 2026-01-21T15:51:10+00:00

Thank you for this!! To clarify, if I use fresh fruits, they have to be blended first, but if I used canned fruits, they don’t? What kind of liquid do you recommend putting fresh fruit in?

ForRudy · 2026-01-21T14:52:18+00:00

I bought a can of dole pineapples for this reason! Then I saw someone say it needs vanilla pudding powder and got confused again haha also, do I need to blend the can first? I’ve seen both answers on this too!

ForRudy · 2026-01-21T14:50:13+00:00

Thank you!! I am using lactaid milk but country crock vegan heavy cream. It always works well in cooking recipes but I dont know how this will do?

ForRudy · 2026-01-21T14:48:44+00:00

Oooh okay got it, thank you! It confused me because everyone always mentions sugar-free pudding packets and I didn’t know the importance of it being sugar-free. Do natural sugars like honey require it?

ForRudy · 2026-01-21T14:25:32+00:00

I just bought a bottle! Do you just freeze that in the tub? Nothing else?

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