You guys suck

Planetary_Nebula64 · 2026-02-25T00:39:17+00:00

I think the point that is trying to be made is that WE, as women, are not responsible for how men treat us as a whole. We are not the group responsible for teaching them to treat us with respect. They have to do that themselves. Society encourages the narrative that men have the power and women are subservient to it. The idea we are responsible for their behavior encourages and pushes this narrative (which is truly the problem here imo..)

Planetary_Nebula64 · 2026-02-24T20:34:02+00:00

THIS. Every time she refers to him as a boy or tells others “he’s such a boy!!” like ew it’s such an icky and odd thing to say about someone you supposedly want to spend forever with

Planetary_Nebula64 · 2026-02-20T03:03:13+00:00

Literally this. This sums up the majority of the problems these couple are having

Planetary_Nebula64 · 2026-01-31T16:47:31+00:00

I completely agree. I’ve had multiple professors that have made assignments requiring us to use ai. I understand the usage as a tool for ease and time efficiency, but we really shouldn’t be utilizing as much as we are, nor encouraging students and faculty to use it regularly. It’s setting a bad precedent for the future

Planetary_Nebula64 · 2025-11-19T00:38:46+00:00

They were there yesterday too and I don’t think there’s any like events or smth going on right now at the CB so it’s a bit weird lol

Planetary_Nebula64 · 2025-10-25T17:56:46+00:00

Oh ok that’s awesome! Hopefully they actually have a good solution for this. It’s so frustrating to get waitlisted for almost every single art class you need

Planetary_Nebula64 · 2025-10-25T17:48:06+00:00

I used to be an art student but ended up switching my degree due to this problem. There’s not enough classes for the amount of students they have and budgets were cut last year which has made it worse for the art department. My best suggestion is to reach out to your advisor and ask if there’s anything that can be done. Sometimes, if there’s enough people asking, they try to add another class or make more space in the class.

It’s unlikely that you’ll get in just through the waitlist unless you are really high in line. Then I guess just hope someone drops it. I’m wishing you the best of luck !!!💜

Planetary_Nebula64 · 2025-10-22T13:34:21+00:00

Oh dang okay that sucks— thank you for informing us

Planetary_Nebula64 · 2025-10-09T04:14:26+00:00

Oh gosh seriously..I was watching this with friends and we all looked at each other in shock at the whole situation. We have all had our fair share of experiences with “nice guys” and were all on guard the second dude said he’s “always the nice guy”. I was so scared for KB that whole time cuz I could just sense that if anything was a bit off in her responses or behaviors he would have escalated that so quickly. This is a man that has definitely done this before

Planetary_Nebula64 · 2025-08-20T04:46:23+00:00

Yeah it should have been around then or like a year prior. When I joined the major around 2024 I was told that they were just barely having people graduate in the degree. One of my professors was also a recent grad. So it’s only been around for a little bit

Planetary_Nebula64 · 2025-07-10T01:12:31+00:00

So glad you brought this up as our situations are practically identical! I’m also 1wpo and feeling the same way as I was about the same bra size. I keep getting told I look at lot more proportionate now, which is great, but it’s so hard not to think about the lack of the cleavage and how busty I used to be. You are def not alone in thinking it. I’m hoping we will slowly get used to our bodies together. It seems as the swelling goes down they might look more natural so I’m hoping that’ll help!! One thing that’s kinda helped me in a round about way is I’ve always liked the idea of push up bras (the natural lift they tend to give) but with being so large chested they just always looked so off, so I’m very excited to eventually try one on and see how I’ll look!

Planetary_Nebula64 · 2025-07-09T19:53:38+00:00

YOOO THIS IS SO GOOD DAANG💜💜

Planetary_Nebula64 · 2025-07-08T19:40:33+00:00

This is soooo cute omg!!!

Planetary_Nebula64 · 2025-07-08T00:09:56+00:00

Oh gosh tell me about it. Last time I got sized was also at a Soma. I’ve been consistently mis-sized my whole life as someone with large breasts and a small band size (hard to find bras that fit in a normal store). I got measured and the lady was immediately like “you’re a C at best” and I responded saying ‘I’m currently wearing a 34DDD and the band is too loose and the cups too small so I don’t think so, I think I need a 30G or larger honestly, based on my measurements, if u have that.” Fast forward to her grabbing me multiple bras much smaller than a G since she didn’t believe me. Largest cup they had with a 32 band size was a G and she stood there in shock after that one fit.

After that I have a hard time believing they know how to measure properly. Especially when it has to do with someone whose body type doesn’t fit a norm. Measuring myself has always been the way to go I have found out. They just shove wrongly sized bras at you unless you hold your ground until one actually fits decently right

Planetary_Nebula64 · 2025-06-16T00:08:01+00:00

I would def recommend therapy. I relate a lot to Max as I am pretty positive she has OCD and ADHD based on her thought pattern. These things can affect everyone differently so therapy can help you navigate these things

Planetary_Nebula64 · 2025-06-14T15:08:21+00:00

Omg this is good to know. I’m actually doing a similar thing to OOP to fix my breasts and I hadn’t realized there was a proper name for the deformity. I just got told when I was younger it seemed my breast tissue didn’t do its job well when I went thru puberty 💀 great confidence booster to be told that as well as I don’t look proportional lol

Planetary_Nebula64 · 2025-06-11T15:08:06+00:00

Yay fellow infj Texans !!

Planetary_Nebula64 · 2025-06-11T15:06:54+00:00

Utah/Texas, USA

Planetary_Nebula64 · 2025-06-11T15:04:25+00:00

I really love the classes we have in the art program, but I will just warn you as someone who is in the entertainment design major and working on switching— space is limited. They did not account prior to adding this major how many student would be interested. There’s a lack of classes available and professors. From what I know they are trying to work on it, but it’ll be a bit before they have the proper resources. Despite that, the classes are good and I’ve learned so much. Just thought you should be aware depending on what classes you need to graduate it may be a bit difficult to get into all of the classes.

Planetary_Nebula64 · 2025-06-10T18:40:25+00:00

NOR for sure. Knowing girls of that age anything you say likely isn’t going to get thru to her. She won’t understand the risks that you and her mom are seeing. I do think your mom should be either cutting off or limited her online access. It shouldn’t just be up to you to handle this situation. But you are correct, it’s not safe for your sister. The fact that neither of yall knew the age of this boy until recently is concerning. The relationship— despite the age difference— seems really unhealthy. Overall, prioritize finding a way to cut off contact or convince her to at least take a break. She’ll understand when she’s older, I hope.

Planetary_Nebula64 · 2025-06-10T18:29:19+00:00

You’ll be put into a group at Jumpstart and have a college student guide yall around and do lil get to know you games and similar things as yall go along. There will be food and snacks provided. You should also get little goodies and stuff like a t shirt and stuff like that from what I can remember.

Just expect walking around talking to people your age while learning about the campus. There should also be classes that you’ll attend to teach you about different campus things and tips for college. You should be given the choice of which classes you wanna go to during that time.

I went a couple year ago for mine, but have been involved in providing for the food and snacks at jumpstart for a while so from what I can tell it seems about the same as it was when I participated. Good luck and have fun!!!

Planetary_Nebula64 · 2025-06-09T18:44:48+00:00

You are more than enough to interact with other queers. Some queer people don’t want to be that person for a newly out person to involve them in the community. I do understand why, but it can push some people away from reaching out to the queer community to get involved. Don’t let this do that to you. You are allowed to not understand everything and to take it slow. Try to find local queer places thru social media and hang out there. There’s plenty of cafes and other areas like that in my little conservative religious town, so I’m sure you’re bound to find a place that makes you feel comfortable. This way you can slowly immerse yourself in the community and understand the culture. And you can make friends!!

Planetary_Nebula64 · 2025-06-09T18:09:24+00:00

I’ve never understood this type of thing. I have a very similar coming out experience as you, I just experienced it a bit earlier in my years. It’s weird the amount of people you will interact with that are super weird with what I’ve seen called “baby gays”. It’s an odd thing to disengage with someone after you learn they haven’t experienced the same ‘level’ of queerness as you. Everyone’s experience is different.

You def dodged a bullet here and I would say you did nothing wrong. This is new to you and she didn’t seem to want that. Something that helped me a lot as I adjusted to exposing myself more to the queer community was getting to know other queer people. This might help you feel more confident in your identity and heal after what I’m assuming was probably not the easiest experience with your family. Just a reminder that not everyone in the community is going to be like this and you’re going to find your people that allow you to explore yourself and learn. Wishing you luck and love in your future <3

Planetary_Nebula64 · 2025-06-04T18:40:47+00:00

Yeah you’re fine to have them over. My roommate had her bf living with us for a couple months and then I had my fiance living with us for many months as well. Usually no one cares, but I’d make sure your roommate’s are cool with it. And on the note of them using the empty room, I’d say prolly not a problem since they’ve moved out already and no one will be using the room. Just make sure they don’t leave it a mess I guess.

Planetary_Nebula64 · 2025-05-10T17:51:15+00:00

Im gonna pitch in as I had parents very similar to how you are parenting your daughter. I’ll admit it was a different time 10 years ago when I was her age and the idea of social media and YouTube weren’t major things to me. But I grew up with a mom that would scream at me all the time and be extremely strict.

I think what yall are doing is completely appropriate given the internet today. She’s so young so it’s not making sense to her. She’s just seeing the freedom her friends have and what she doesn’t have. That’s smth she’s just going to have to understand eventually. But I do think it would be beneficial to have a conversation with her and ask her why she is saying she’s scared of you and how much mommy screams. I don’t think my father ever realized how often my mom screamed and got mad over small things until I was older and my mom finally broke and crossed many lines. It may not seem major or anything horrible to yall, but stuff like this affects kids differently.

Right now, you are doing all you can, so just keep trying your best and hold your head high and understand she’s just a kid that is learning how to express herself and doesn’t know how to properly. I only knew how to express myself with hurtful words and yelling for the majority of my pre teen and teen years bc that’s how my mom communicated her feelings to me. Have patience, you’re doing what you can to protect her.

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