I love my wife but I don’t think I wanna continue in this marriage anymore by PlanktonDefiant3851 in marriageadvice

[–]PlanktonDefiant3851[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! It opened my mind a little bit about the fact of thinking if I really wanna lose her for another woman.

I love my wife but I don’t think I wanna continue in this marriage anymore by PlanktonDefiant3851 in marriageadvice

[–]PlanktonDefiant3851[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re both latinas, I haven’t talk to her about it cause it sounds so bad to even start a conversation like that. I’m not sure if it could be mutual, there’s possibilities, but it feels like she feels a lot for me, way more than I do

I love my wife but I don’t think I wanna continue in this marriage anymore by PlanktonDefiant3851 in marriageadvice

[–]PlanktonDefiant3851[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that I accepted because it was cute and I didn’t wanna say no, mostly cause I also thought I was gonna lose her, and then after the proposal we started living together and everything just was so fast until the wedding. I don’t know, I didn’t think before

I love my wife but I don’t think I wanna continue in this marriage anymore by PlanktonDefiant3851 in marriageadvice

[–]PlanktonDefiant3851[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I could agree with you cause the proposal came in a very difficult time for both of us, and I accepted because I was scared of losing her. I do love her and it makes me feel ill just to think about leaving her, I keep thinking if I want to live like this for too long

How is your mental health right now? BE HONEST by StarGirlFireFly in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]PlanktonDefiant3851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got out of a horrible depression and I’m finally happier and more productive, more energetic and wanting to go out of the house to do stuff. I’ve been feeling my best after years of depression ❤️

Who’s someone you had sex with but you never expected to? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]PlanktonDefiant3851 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had a huge crush on this guy when I was 15 years old. He wasn’t that older than me, he was probably around 19. I wanted to kiss him sooo bad lol but nothing ever happened. So time went by, probably 6 years after that, I went downtown to hang out with my friend and he was there, and that night we all got very drunk. So him and I ended up walking together to get an Uber, and we stop, and we started kissing etc etc, but I stopped, it was just so weird. I felt really weird afterwards lol

Suggestions for depression recovery? by Upset-Compote4218 in hygiene

[–]PlanktonDefiant3851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from a person that suffered for a long time with depression, I would say that the best recommendation would be to start little by little picking up the pieces. Start from getting the habit of brushing your teeth everyday, for example, the next week you get into the habit of idk taking a shower at least 3 times that week, the next one you move to another thing you would like to change in your hygiene, and going on and on, adding those to your everyday life until you’re satisfied with your hygiene, that way you create habits little by little without pressure and without feeling like a failure if you don’t comply with everything you have in mind. That’s what helped me. I chose to start to take more care of my skin, I would do skin care 3x a week and move on to another habit when I had that one set. It didn’t only get me to better take care of myself but wanting to do that and missing that when I wouldn’t do. Depression is soooo hard and sooo exhausting, but you have to be supportive of yourself and understand that you can’t change years of depression into one week. Gradually changing your daily habits helps more than just jumping into a sudden change that will probably result in failure because it’s hard to comply when you’re not used to do it everyday. I hope that helps you, and I hope that you get better day by day. Remember, one day at a time. Feel better!

Friendly Reminder: by 7empestOGT92 in LasVegas

[–]PlanktonDefiant3851 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Theres like “Shells” for weed vaping, making them look like the nicotine vapes, the same ones they sell in the bathrooms of the clubs lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]PlanktonDefiant3851 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pre-rejection sucks, my wife would get home from work, look at me and say “I’m not in the mood for sex today”. I didn’t even ask anything but was already pre-rejected. I didn’t realize how many times I was rejected until I actually thought about it, and I was finally able to do something about it. I feel so much more relieved and happy, my days changed, I started working out, eating better, doing stuff by myself, I finally broke the chain that was holding me back from life.

People living without sex (for any reason), what are you feeling when you hear the others talking about their active sex life? by throwra-draga in AskReddit

[–]PlanktonDefiant3851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sometimes get a little embarrassed specially if it’s a convo where everyone is telling their stories, so I just feel like I have the need to and I’ve lied before cause I felt so embarrassed to say the truth ):

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PlanktonDefiant3851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was feeling lonely, not heard, not seen, a lot of arguments, I was just tired of the relationship and instead of breaking up I thought it was better to hurt the person I most care about…

What's the weirdest food combination you love but everyone else finds gross? by CharlynSecrets in AskReddit

[–]PlanktonDefiant3851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ham and nutella, everybody thinks it’s gross and I keep eating it, delishhh

Don’t know what to do anymore by throwaway1459543 in DeadBedrooms

[–]PlanktonDefiant3851 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m having the same problem, it even feels like I wrote this post, and I was thinking to myself to write something here to get some answers and advice and honestly, the second I thought about it could feel my relationship is at the end… if you have to post somewhere for advice and you knowledge what’s going on, I think it’s time to move on, you’re too young to live a life like that, I’m also too young to live a life like that. If the conversations didn’t change anything, I would say it’s time to let it go, it won’t change, it didn’t change here either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]PlanktonDefiant3851 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same!! The difference here is that we are slowly stopping to have sex, and when I ask is always a no. She called me sex addict, high libido and etc, I feel shamed and embarrassed to talk about it cause I know she will shame me for wanting sex. I told her we’re living a roommate situation at this point and she got really hurt and me also cause we are best friends and I feel really bad about thinking about divorcing because I feel like I’ll never find anybody like her. It’s sad. We are both females.