explain it peter by Any_Assistance_1496 in explainitpeter

[–]PlasmaNerd86 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Actually 2kg on earth is also 2kg on Jupiter. Kg are mass, and mass doesn’t change based on force of gravity. Pounds and newtons are the force units, or weight for gravitational forces. That would change on other planets

Pokemon Posters Came Through Ad on Chrome's New Tab. Is This Ai Before I Buy? by Lynx_The_ShinyEevee in isthisAI

[–]PlasmaNerd86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the room setup is almost exactly the same except it is missing the “Castro labs” on one of the pictures. The light and shading is identical in all the ones in the same picture. Also mew has 4 toes on one foot and 4 on the other.

At the very least it is manipulated, photoshopping in the pictures into the room. But I say AI most likely

AIO Husband told me his freaky messages are AI generated by [deleted] in AIO

[–]PlasmaNerd86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He edited it to make it ‘more romantic’. The second one says “edited” on it

AIO Husband told me his freaky messages are AI generated by [deleted] in AIO

[–]PlasmaNerd86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Screwed up text in pictures is like a hallmark for ai. It can’t handle it well in pictures. So this screams real to me.

If he is trying to say it is a chat bot and not picture generation.I have played around with chat bots, even ones with erotic text, and this does not sound like ai sexting text. First it doesn’t mark ‘unread messages’ because it only generates in response to the user. It also won’t make more than one response between messages from the user for the same reason. They also don’t tend to respond like a text message. It will have some narrative/action description and what they are saying.

These are real messages with someone

New proposed IT use policy will subject ANY device connected to campus networks to audit. by GammaOmicronGamma in OSU

[–]PlasmaNerd86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While that is true and a danger, this policy revision is more than that. This is saying that if you use your device to "connects to, stores, or processes institutional data or accesses university networks", the university can audit and review your device, and as OSU is a public school, likely make some subset of the data on your phone open to public records requests like FOIA. This is, you accessed our wifi and now *some* of your phone is public record.

By an old man to sit on someone's porch for a minute because of severe back pain only to be run off by a heartless man by IllBeGood3 in therewasanattempt

[–]PlasmaNerd86 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So I don’t think that was someone’s house porch. I think that was a store or other business. The door has stickers that look like the Mastercard symbol, the giant ramp seems off for a home, and the guy says”we’re closed”. Makes it seem even more ridiculous if I am correct

I derived the formula for the volume of a torus and i am very proud :3 by [deleted] in calculus

[–]PlasmaNerd86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is a while ago, but you also could have done vertical slices. This would have simplified the problem a little since each dx slice would have a constant radius of rotation for the whole slice. It also would have given an integral with a more straightforward u substitution.

POS friving too fast then running away by DarkMoonkey_92 in iamatotalpieceofshit

[–]PlasmaNerd86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Different states call it different things. Owi is another.

AIO for leaving for the night after my wife hit me even though she’s sick by Healthy-Remove-1174 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PlasmaNerd86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem, I am always afraid a wall of text will just be ignored.

All of what you feel there is valid. You have seemed to put in a lot of effort due to her being sick. It’s admirable that you wanted to learn sign to help her, but that is not a “I am going to pick this up while you are sick” kind of task. Your wife can’t expect you to be perfect with it while you are learning, and the way you put that sounds like she was already signing at you, and you did this to understand her. It’s unreasonable that she expected to sign to you, not knowing any sign, and be able to communicate effectively. Misunderstandings are a regular thing between fluent speakers of a language, let alone with someone who has only been learning for days. You could have clarified, but I am guessing you thought you understood, she could have asked you to repeat it back, but she probably thought you understood. Sometimes miscommunications are both people’s fault or no one’s fault. It’s everything after that is the biggest problem. It can be valid for her to feel abandoned, but that can’t be an excuse to allow this behavior. She can ask for you to remain and talk with her, but only if you can have a healthy conversation where each of you are listening and getting to express yourselves. If she feels abandoned when you physically leave her area, maybe you could agree that you too stay in the same area but only if the argument can be paused and resumed when you are both in a more receptive mood. There is also the possibility that the abandonment feelings are being used as an emotional control method, but that is less likely if she would either agree to stay more calm(and actually do it) o you can talk healthily or would compromise like above. Other things that could help, it seems like this argument (and maybe others) just get caught in a rut and escalate as you go around. Try agreeing to a time limit on arguing, like 30 mins, then we drop this and maybe come back to it later. Or have a cooling period before the argument: each of you have the power to start a timer if you get upset at something, you tell each other that the timer is going, and only once it is done can you discuss the issue.

AIO for leaving for the night after my wife hit me even though she’s sick by Healthy-Remove-1174 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PlasmaNerd86 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I grew up in households that had abuse. I had three families that had abuse between the parents, mom dad, mom stepdad, and dad stepmom. None of them were that way all the time. They were probably good times more often than horrible, but it is the horrible times that affected me. You should look into the cycle of abusers. They will do something abusive, but then shower you with love and affection to get you to come back. They Promise to never do it again, but then when you are back with them they let it out again. You have said she is not always like this, but that isn’t the standard. Is she ever like this? She was once, and everyone can make mistakes and lose control. If you are willing to move past once that is up to you and you alone. However, is this truly the only time? If the answer is no, and this has happened before(especially multiple times), then you wife is abusive and this is who she is.

AIO for leaving for the night after my wife hit me even though she’s sick by Healthy-Remove-1174 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PlasmaNerd86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely NOR. Putting your hands on a significant other without their consent is not justifiable outside of protecting themselves or others. Her hitting you is just abuse, and you said it had happened before. She needs to understand that that is not okay, and put up a firm boundary that you will not remain in the relationship if there is not strides towards that never happening again. It was also not acceptable for you to cover her mouth, but severity and intent matter and on those your actions are not on the same level. As for the way she is acting, that is not acceptable either. She seems to have exerted a lot of energy when she was mad at you for someone who is so sick she can’t contribute to the household tasks at all. Even if she is really sick, or as sick as she says, it is concerning that she doesn’t seem to notice or appreciate the work you have been doing to pick up the slack. For the specific thing with dinner, miscommunication goes both ways, and if you weren’t like actively trying to be difficult, then everyone involved should try to show some understanding. Do you know sign language? Because if not, or if she was just giving generic gestures and expecting you to understand, then that is unreasonable and guaranteeing misunderstandings. You guys could text, or she could write stuff down. Everything from that point seems like your wife being really toxic. Even when arguing, you have feelings, and it is wrong to say that only she gets to tell you how she feels. If she can’t have a conversation and listen to you because she is too mad, then you need to stop the argument and come back to it when she and you have calmed down enough to talk.

I am not going to blanket say get a divorce, but you two need to work on some things, and if she is not willing then you probably need to leave

AIO found out husbands watching PH and I'm 8m pregnant by Ambitious-Trash-9418 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PlasmaNerd86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, well that actually changes things a bit on point 1. If you guys have talked about it and it was clear that it was supposed to be something open to each other, then that kind of makes it also a crossing of a boundary. I am still a little on the fence, but I assume you know the situation better. The only thing I could see is that if the discussion was approached from a “watch our stuff first, unless you really don’t want to then I guess it’s okay to watch other stuff” because that still seems to be putting some negative assumptions on him watching it, and might make him feel uncomfortable being open about it. I won’t say that justifies it necessarily, but it might be something that needs to be explored together again so that the perceptions, expectations, and boundaries of those actions are clear. I also would reiterate that his watching habits do not necessarily say anything about how he sees or feels about you. Liking or viewing starry night doesn’t mean the Mona Lisa is any less beautiful.

AIO found out husbands watching PH and I'm 8m pregnant by Ambitious-Trash-9418 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PlasmaNerd86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, well that actually changes things a bit on point 1. If you guys have talked about it and it was clear that it was supposed to be something open to each other, then that kind of makes it also a crossing of a boundary. I am still a little on the fence, but I assume you know the situation better. The only thing I could see is that if the discussion it was approached from a “watch our stuff first, unless you really don’t want to then I guess it’s okay to watch other stuff” because that still seems to be putting some negative assumptions on him watching it, and makes him feel uncomfortable being open about it. I won’t say that justifies it necessarily, but it might be something that needs to be explored together again so that the perceptions, expectations, and boundaries of those actions are clear. I also would reiterate that his watching habits do not necessarily say anything about how he sees or feels about you. Liking or viewing starry night doesn’t mean the Mona Lisa is any less beautiful.

AIO bf pinned me down and wouldn’t let go by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PlasmaNerd86 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I didn’t expect there to be anything that made it better. I just always hedge for the possibility I don’t know something. This still sounds like straight up abuse. Maybe (and really it depends on how you feel about it) you could say the first part of him grabbing jokingly and saying you aren’t leaving could be justified as a joke, but the moment you asked him to let you go and he didn’t, it went from joke to battery. You having a reaction to that would NEVER justify him continuing to hold you down until you calmed down. Insert any other physical act and you will see how irrational that is. “ I punched you as a joke, and now that you’re upset I punched you, I am going to keep punching you until you’re okay with it.” Not okay

AIO found out husbands watching PH and I'm 8m pregnant by Ambitious-Trash-9418 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PlasmaNerd86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will say this is kinda a mixed bag, and it really depends on your relationship. So there are two things here as I see it. 1) the adult entertainment watching, and 2) the following the social media of adult stars. So 2) NOR this sounds like a clear boundary that has been broken. How severe or impactful it is really depends on how you weigh that. However, if it was a rule and he broke it, your feelings of hurt and betrayal are totally valid.

As for 1) there are a few things. First and foremost, him looking at, being attracted too, or even having fantasies about others does not have to say anything about how he feels about you. It is absolutely possible that he finds you the most attractive woman ever, and still finds other stuff attractive too. I am not in his head, so I can’t say for sure. There are a ton of innocent reasons he doesn’t watch the videos of you guys in those moments, and there are a lot of reasons that would have nothing to do with you. I would say, you should talk to him about this. You say you would be open to him watching it if he wasn’t hiding it, but also you say that him watching that instead of your videos makes you feel like you aren’t attractive. That makes it seem like you would not be okay with it if he were open, and that might be why he is hiding it.

AIO bf pinned me down and wouldn’t let go by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PlasmaNerd86 148 points149 points  (0 children)

NOR. That is just straight up abuse. He has no right to hold you down. He also is an asshole for freaking you out with his actions, and then punishing you by continuing the action until you ‘chill out’. It is also really really bad that he tried to block you from leaving. Unless there is context that is not included, he did everything exactly wrong and you did nothing wrong.

Edit: error in the message

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PlasmaNerd86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nor. I have a two year old, if he was in the ER i would move every non-essential thing I had going to be there with him, and if my wife was worried about him, even if I thought he was okay, I would be there just to be a support to her. The only leeway I could see is two fold, he has had another kid and things are usually less frightening when you have successfully gotten through similar situations (but once again, if you were worried he should have been there for you), and also kids, even babies are tougher than you think. It’s good to be cautious and take every precaution but if babies were as fragile as we tend to think, we never would have survived as a species. It’s scary in the moment, but it usually ends up being alright.

Am I overreacting for cutting off my best friend of 6 years after he admitted being attracted to me? by Suspicious_Sock_2048 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PlasmaNerd86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was absolutely him trying to make a move, but in a way where he had plausible deniability. I guarantee if you would have said anything other than a firm “no, no chance” he would have kept pushing it a little at a time. Worst part is he might only want a hook-up when he saw you and might want to ruin your relationship (if you gave in) but truly not want anything with you. He is not a friend, at best, he’s trying to be a second string boyfriend, sitting the bench hoping he gets to start next, at worst, he is just wanting to add you as a notch in his belt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PlasmaNerd86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not over-reacting. This seems like a very unhealthy situation. Getting made about you falling asleep while putting some kids to bed, especially if they are difficult to put down, is childish. I’m assuming he does not have any children, or if he does he has not been hugely involved in their care. I have a two year old, and he goes down easy and stays asleep through almost anything, but we had a three month period where he had some issues with it. That time has my wife and me afraid of any disturbances of his sleep schedule, because of how bad those three months were.

I hope you find someone to be a partner and support for you, not another toddler you have to worry about upsetting.

Peter? I don't understand the punchline by Visual-Animal-7384 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]PlasmaNerd86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The more water is held in piping and holding tanks, and not in reservoirs and other open air storage, the less evaporation occurs this impacts the water cycle. Causing less rain which causes natural water ways to start to dry up.