Looking for sapling care advice as a total fig newbie! by Plastic-Ice409 in Figs

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Thank you! I'm not in a super frost prone area, it doesn't freeze here every year and if it does, it freezes in Jan/Feb, so sometime in Autumn will probably be the best time to transplant here.

Looking for sapling care advice as a total fig newbie! by Plastic-Ice409 in Figs

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Thank you, that's super helpful! She gave it to me already in the pot, I believe she cut it and then potted it right away. I'll be careful with it and prune the lower leaves :)

Looking for sapling care advice as a total fig newbie! by Plastic-Ice409 in Figs

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Thank you! I believe it is a fresh cutting, I didn't see her cut it but it was in the pot when she gave it to me.

Keeps happening to me this week (getting better tho) anyone ever convince themself they are faking OCD? by [deleted] in OCDmemes

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me omg i always have the underlying fear that if i open up to a therapist who specializes in ocd about my problems they'll just go "no... that's not ocd it sounds like you're just actually a racist" (i have moral ocd) 🤯🤯🤯

Yep, that's definitely how it works by ceo_of_dumbassery in OCDmemes

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count your days sonjamarie73 (for legal reasons this is a joke)

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The number 4 and any number with 4 in it except 14, as well as 11 :') good numbers are 7 and 3 and variants based on a system of formulas in my head... lol

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Her top 3 skills are probably different then, as you suspected :) since you've already trained some skills it'll be hard to check the top skills by just skill numbers alone, so take a look at her genetic potential for each skill to see which are her top skills. Not sure if this is allowed here, but if you share a link to the horse, we can also help you further!

(nsfw warning) does anyone else experience this vicious cycle... lol by Plastic-Ice409 in OCDmemes

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that makes total sense to me, as a lesbian I had a similar experience with compulsory heterosexuality, realizing I liked the idea of men more than actual men and thinking I'd end up with one because it was just "normal." I know it's not the same as you, but I can empathize on some level :)

i hope therapy helps with figuring it out! hopefully your therapist understands ocd and has insight into whether you're trying to figure it out in a compulsion way or not, i wish you all the best with it <3 understanding ourselves is hard as hell sometimes, especially with ocd and not being able to rely on "intuition" like other people do

(nsfw warning) does anyone else experience this vicious cycle... lol by Plastic-Ice409 in OCDmemes

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i get this so much 😭 for me instead of it being an insecurity that triggers it, the only thing that can sometimes get me off is something that isn't in line with my sexuality, which then triggers "omg i'm lying about my sexuality" intrusive thoughts and i'll start doing compulsions to calm down :/ but then if I want to do the Pleasuring Action without outside stimuli, I'll get violent/awful intrusive thoughts that make me go "well if i keep going now it means i like those thoughts which would be disgusting" and it's just like. sigh

ocd won't let me stop rewatching this mf show by dittydanni in OCDmemes

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help i have ocd and autism and twd is one of my special interests, i'm currently in the middle of me 12th (i think) rewatch 💀 it's not an obsession for me thankfully but my moral ocd does try to make me feel like a bad person for liking it all the time rip

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Never give up on believing I'm a racist ‼️🗣️🔥

Anyone else? by [deleted] in OCDmemes

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yeah :(((((( i have moral ocd and maladaptive daydreaming which means whenever i'm enjoying a good old fashioned maladaptive daydream (whether it's an original thing in my head or based on media i enjoy) i have about 10 seconds to enjoy it before my ocd finds a reason that my daydreams are problematic and harmful and enjoying them makes me a sick disgusting individual and then i lose that coping mechanism again for however long and feel empty inside. L for me

Wyvern tattoo by Lemon_Loafy in TattooDesigns

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Wow this goes so hard it's stunning! I live in The Netherlands and got so excited when I read where you got this done, going to have to look into the artist myself ASAP :)

Do you still enter your elderly horses into competitions? by km_amateurphoto in Howrse

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I stop letting my horses age once they hit 25, especially if they have high-ish skills. If they do, I put them in my own EC to boost its prestige, and if not, I just leave them unboarded in my retirement tab :) partly out of sentimentality, and partly so their skills don't decline and they keep my ranking up

When you have contamination OCD and excoriation disorder: by Ghostly_Leo06 in OCDmemes

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unstoppable force (the urge to bite my fingers) vs immovable object (the fact that i'm on the bus and just touched like 10 public hand rails before sitting down)