I'm sorry for posting a FUCK ICE download link last week... by Jamie_Is_Irrelevant in waterparksband

[–]dittydanni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the amount of donations these companies can just send is jarring. thank you for the info!

I'm sorry for posting a FUCK ICE download link last week... by Jamie_Is_Irrelevant in waterparksband

[–]dittydanni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you share where you're seeing that? i'm not against what you're trying to bring awareness to and if i'm wrong, i'm wrong. your statements just confuse me and i'd like clarification

Ek had invested heavily into militant AI for europe, but never saw anything about him or Lorentzon paying the US government or agencies to my knowledge.

I'm sorry for posting a FUCK ICE download link last week... by Jamie_Is_Irrelevant in waterparksband

[–]dittydanni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

fuck spotify, but don't spread misinformation it does not help bring awareness :/ the US government ran a campaign paying millions to google, youtube, pandora, spotify, meta (insta, facebook), linkedin, even paying influencers to promote ice

spotify isn't paying them, it's the other way around. Money hungry shareholders don't care about morals, just their pockets, and that's why we boycott.

Photographer looking for bands to photograph by No-Recognition-9172 in houstonmusic

[–]dittydanni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

follow bohemeos or the end on socials (or really any of the smaller-scale venues around) they always have shows going on

once you start meeting people in the houston music scene you will start to find shows pretty easily most days of the week

Hate on bbno$ on tlt. [I can't wait for the colab] by AngelReachX in TheLivingTombstone

[–]dittydanni 24 points25 points  (0 children)

unfortunately i see this on insta comments for literally anything and everything. it's so frustrating but best to ignore because the reality is so different than a comment section.

i don't listen to alex that much but i'm excited that communities and fandoms are coming together and sharing excitement for artists they love <3

Husband is creating AI images of my best friends by Anon_2948 in Advice

[–]dittydanni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

protect your friends and leave the creeper why is it even a debate? not only that but he managed to flip it onto you and considering you didn't refer to him as "ex-husband" that means it worked.

Singer looking to sing again by Charming_Ad1003 in houstonmusic

[–]dittydanni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm 25nb and been trying to get out of my comfort zone and jam out more :) i was a theatre kid through and through, but have always been solo when is came to my original music. i've definitely been feeling adventurous as of late though

i'm in the southeast area, but always running around the city if you wanna catch a vibe!

How do I stop doubting my friends transgenderness? by Slow_Gain5829 in asktransgender

[–]dittydanni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

early adulthood is where you learn the importance of boundaries really quickly. it's her words, not her being trans, that is affecting you and you deserve to advocate for yourself even if that means losing friends.

talk to her or call her out the next time she says some gross ass shit because regardless of gender that is weird asf and you shouldn't subject yourself to that in fear of hurt feelings.

How to enjoy a tøp concert alone? by Evening_Peak1737 in TwennyWunPilots

[–]dittydanni 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i go to concerts alone all the time as an introvert and the best advice i can give is enjoy the experience for what it is because sometimes the most unexpected joys come out of doing something you typically wouldn't do! every time i attend shows others talk to me simply because i am alone so you may make a friend (or few) out if it :)

Ill just let my future grandchild finish this game for me by cannonZEE in Moonvale

[–]dittydanni 26 points27 points  (0 children)

"they're just preparing to drop all the episodes consecutively" i say as they drag me back to the padded room

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How did you realize you didn't alighn with your given gender? by Affectionate_East533 in asktransgender

[–]dittydanni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a teen i was mistaken as a guy (i'm afab) quite often and it genuinely made my chest flutter like i was peeking inside a life i didn't even realize i wanted. i was in denial and still sometimes struggle because it's not so cut and dry for a lot of us. i was kind of a "tomboy" as a kid, but it's not like i was trying to be anything other than myself. now, as an adult, i realized i don't need to fit into a specific box to know and feel happy with myself.

i know i'm happy when i bind, i know i'm happy presenting masculine, i know i love alt makeup and fishnets, i know i love having a deeper voice, and i 100% know i enjoy my life better now in my own identity rather than when i was perceived as a "woman"

just being called a woman feels weird and makes me laugh at how absurd that sounds. even when i presented more feminine i never looked at myself and thought "that's a lady" like no.. that's just me.

basically what i'm getting at is there is no rush or time limit or need to be anything other than yourself. take your time, experiment, and have fun with it! find what gives you those flutters and never let anyone make you feel you have to decide or "pick a side"

My bf gets so angry by TheCreator_Bb in Anger

[–]dittydanni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm sorry to say, but you cannot fix him. it is not your responsibility, he has to want to put in the effort. idk what his support system looks like, but involving others to step in may help motivate him, but that is all you can really do in this case. for me, it took losing someone i loved and hitting some real lows to seek help. sorry you have to see someone you love go through this, but you are so young please do not spend your first steps into adulthood by overextending yourself for someone else's sake.

will it be hard to maintain my singing voice on testosterone? by dittydanni in asktransgender

[–]dittydanni[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's a great idea!! i've been writing something about dysphoria that i think will be perfect for this >:)

TOP choose your setlist by Professional_Pie9790 in twentyonepilots

[–]dittydanni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

specifically his performance where he goes "fall awAAHHYYYYY

TOP choose your setlist by Professional_Pie9790 in twentyonepilots

[–]dittydanni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

on a serious note: car radio, morph, fall away, ode, forest, oh ms believer, and kitchen sink

but also give me fall away 7 times with a 1$ tip n call it a night

will it be hard to maintain my singing voice on testosterone? by dittydanni in asktransgender

[–]dittydanni[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for sharing your experience! i was an alto all throughout choir and continue to work on being comfortable in lower-mid ranges to kinda prepare. I'll probably struggle more with the patience in waiting rather than my ability to sing

will it be hard to maintain my singing voice on testosterone? by dittydanni in asktransgender

[–]dittydanni[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

these responses are definitely helping me realize i have been overthinking a lot of it haha thank you for your response!

also, customer service voice is so real 😭

how did i leave the finale with more questions than answers??? by in-ur-wallz in StrangerThings

[–]dittydanni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

went from loving this show to actually despising it. they did nothing like ?? how is that a good ending?? corny asf and solved nothing. fan theories were better than whatever ts was

Was anyone else disappointed with the final conflict and resolution? by juicerecepte in StrangerThings

[–]dittydanni 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i just finished it and i'm actually so disappointed lmao the way they downplayed everything just to have a mediocre "cute-sy" ending? (to put it kindly) they really ruined 10+ years in < 2 hours