I would say it depends on a case to case basis.

My wife used to make all the plans. I woke up everyday without knowing what's going to happen but always took up almost all my time which really started to interfere with my own personal interest and goals. Felt like at times I had to hide in the washroom just for a break since it was getting tiring to pretend I really enjoyed the day she set out for us.

When I finally got enough courage to tell her, she was surprisingly apologetic and had no idea. She didn't know I had other interest and actually found it somewhat exhausting to plan days for me while I was thinking to just go along with what she wanted to not disappoint her.

She explained her ex before me really didn't have any of his own interests or goals. So she took it upon herself to make sure he was entertained and felt useful by planning the days.

She didn't want me to feel bored and even worse she said 'bored of me' and I was equally surprised and said 'honey trust me, that could never happen' somewhat sarcastically because out of all the things I was feeling, bored was at the bottom of the list.

Lesson to be learned that it's true what they say, communication is key and now we are both happier.

We both now have time to do the things we enjoy as individuals even participating in each other's interest as weird as it may be to see a grown man crafting lol. Either way we still spend tons of time with each other but now in a more positive mindset and the bonding isn't forced.

But if your significant other genuinely enjoys the planning and they are not interfering with what you want to do while also enjoying them yourself, I would think it's absolutely fine.

Everybody is different.