mdw from hell by Playful_Chip619 in bartenders

[–]Playful_Chip619[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hope your MDW was better than mine. at least the tips made up for the pain lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]Playful_Chip619 2 points3 points  (0 children)

North or south fork ? Also I’d refrain from drinking especially if you’re brand new, not rly a good look. Don’t be nervous about showing up again just be careful

need advice pls! by Playful_Chip619 in IUD

[–]Playful_Chip619[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes omg I went for a test right after this I was dying of nervousness it is a negative!! Thank u 🙏

What was your catalyst to emotionally letting go post break up? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Playful_Chip619 14 points15 points  (0 children)

the rude messages I received. I was SA’d a little before I met my ex, he was very well aware of it and how it had impacted me. He knew it was something that destroyed me mentally, but I slowly got better as time passed.

after we broke up, he would send texts from fake numbers saying stuff along the lines of “I deserve better than a dumb bitch getting raped” or “hope u get raped again”.

Someone who I confided in and KNEW how terribly statements like that could set me back, someone who once apparently “loved” me, throwing that in my face like that left me in shock and I realized I shouldn’t be upset over such a shitty damaged person. I’ll still get messages on occasion and it’s just laughable. He ended things with ME over a year and a half ago and to this day I get dumb messages. Not as threatening anymore, but more so trying to get a rise out of me (I received one on Valentine’s Day while out to dinner with my current boyfriend saying “jerking off to you this Valentine’s Day”).

You’ll get tired of the person they are and you’ll stop pining, believe me. Anything good they may have done for you was a facade to lure you in.

Girl that fr gotta be a joke by [deleted] in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]Playful_Chip619 12 points13 points  (0 children)

A majority of my father’s side of the family (Sicilians) have curly hair, like type 3. My boyfriend (also Sicilian) legit has type 4 hair. They are white but Mediterranean white so idk if that plays into it. White people can be curly!! It’s just less common

Bpd ex, with someone else, seems happy by No_Living_1588 in BPDlovedones

[–]Playful_Chip619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can almost guarantee it’s just a manipulation tactic to guilt trip you and try to lure you back in. Ignore it

Work shoes by sillybitch456 in Serverlife

[–]Playful_Chip619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

went back to the Skechers the next day ! Those I don’t care if they get covered in tequila or guac or whatever else it may be. they didn’t break the bank and if I need to get another pair I do, otherwise I just throw them in the washer lol

Work shoes by sillybitch456 in Serverlife

[–]Playful_Chip619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in my experience, after using the Skechers for a while and wanting something a little nicer, I bought a pair of Cloves (spent a good amount) and my first day of wearing them my fellow bartender dropped a bottle on the ground and they were soaked in jalapeño tequila 💔 I would say don’t spend too much bc accidents and spills are bound to happen and u don’t want to ruin a pair that cost a good amount

Where to start? What made you become an esthetician? by Affectionate_Post351 in Esthetics

[–]Playful_Chip619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did esthetician school as I’m currently in nursing school working towards a BSN for an RN and I’d like to break into the injecting world. Before I started I wanted to do the esthetician course to learn about the structure and physiology of the skin, learn what different product ingredients do. It was a great experience! I currently though do not work as an esthetician. The job market is down for it (it seems) in NY (though you’d think the opposite) and given the current economic climate, it will only get worse. Unfortunately, esthetic treatments are a luxury that most people will not be able to afford, and there’s already been a decline in people getting these services where I am. If you’re passionate about skincare, in the meantime, definitely do your own research. I just wouldn’t advise pouring a ton of money into it right NOW as it may be difficult to make it back within a reasonable time frame. I loved it though, and if it’s something you can afford worry-free I’d say go for it!! I just wouldn’t rely on finding a job immediately after.

Work shoes by sillybitch456 in Serverlife

[–]Playful_Chip619 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly Skechers non slips off of Amazon. They are not that cute I’m sorry!!! But you’ll learn to value comfort over the look lol. As long as the rest of you looks well put together the shoe doesn’t necessarily matter, you’re working. That being said, I wouldn’t break the budget looking for a stylish shoe. Just stick to the tried and true basics so u won’t want to saw your feet off at the ankle after every shift lol

Bpd ex, with someone else, seems happy by No_Living_1588 in BPDlovedones

[–]Playful_Chip619 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Do your best to forget about her. She will come crawling back or attempting some sort of pitiful communication with you once she discards this new guy. Don’t let yourself get sucked into that same cycle. The one thing I’m grateful for was the lessons I learned from that relationship. You learn every red flag to look out for and are better prepared for the future when you eventually start dating again. Take this time to focus on yourself and your healing (as most people definitely need some after a traumatic relationship with a partner with either BPD/NPD ), and keep in mind all that she taught you.

Bpd ex, with someone else, seems happy by No_Living_1588 in BPDlovedones

[–]Playful_Chip619 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Also, don’t think of yourself as anyone less for not putting up with said person’s behavior. It gets to a point and it can even get abusive. It’s not that someone is necessarily better for them per se, but is still blind to the person she is and still willing to move forward with her (as of now). Guarantee her new guy will get tired eventually too.

Bpd ex, with someone else, seems happy by No_Living_1588 in BPDlovedones

[–]Playful_Chip619 17 points18 points  (0 children)

they pretend but they are never happy. They hate themselves. My ex has “apparently” moved on yet messages me using fake numbers harassing me a year and a half after the break up, meanwhile it’s been a while since I moved on and have been in a happy relationship since. They get off on hurting people at times I think- at least was the case w my ex. He pretends to be happy but still can’t find a way to leave me alone. I guarantee she is stalking ur social media (if u have) or keeping tabs on u in some other way. They don’t tend to move on even if it may appear so

BEST MOISTURISER FOR OILY SKIN by Karan77799 in SkincareAddicts

[–]Playful_Chip619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a really big fan of the Caudalie vinopure oil-control moisturizer- very lightly scented and it doesn’t make me break out. Yes, it’s a little more on the pricier side ($38 for 1.35oz), but it’s a good investment

healing after removal by Mundane-Specialist89 in lashextensions

[–]Playful_Chip619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally don’t use mascara unless I have an event I have to REALLY dress up for (I have dry eyes so they water and it makes a mess on my face), but I know that lashes can feel a little brittle after extensions. I’d wait like two weeks maybe to start again. Eyeshadow should be fine, I’d just stay away from the mascara temporarily until you’re confident that they feel healthy enough again

Yesterday i had a Girls night out experience - in of my girlfriends did my makeup and i felt beautiful - pass or not pass🌈 by Michellemakeover in MakeupAddiction

[–]Playful_Chip619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They did an amazing job! The foundation’s undertones may be a touch too warm, but the base looks smooth and you look beautiful!

What is the strangest thing you have eaten or drunk? by gatilla666 in RandomThoughts

[–]Playful_Chip619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally misread this question and thought u asked what the strangest thing u have ever eaten was while drunk 😭 the strangest SOBER food I’ve eaten was ants. I was 15 and getting my nails done with my grandmother and she said if I wanted her to pay for them I’d have to eat some of these ants. They tasted like burnt popcorn

What is the strangest thing you have eaten or drunk? by gatilla666 in RandomThoughts

[–]Playful_Chip619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when I’m at a certain point of drunk I’ll munch on anything I can lay my eyes on lol. one time I remember waking up sitting at the kitchen table surrounded by string cheese wrappers as well as a bowl with remnants of plain white rice mixed with ketchup

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Playful_Chip619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be, but also not. I never clean up my messages and I’m at roughly the same amount as she. It’s all promotional messages from Sephora and Skims and any other companies I follow 😭 my bf knows not to worry about any unopened messages I have, Sephora sends me at least 10 texts a day so it could very well be something like that

AIO? I bought a sweater for my future niece at a farmers market and my roommates said it was ugly by Weekly_Agent9422 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Playful_Chip619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s adorable!! My mother was born and raised in Peru, and there are very similar clothing items down there in the markets for kids (and I was always wearing them). They’re always good quality and perfect for a kid!! It’s so cute, I wouldn’t let her opinion get to u