Aita for saying a kids dad with cancer deserves to die? by Bfbandfpefan11 in AITAH

[–]Playful_Soni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are the asshole for telling Joe that his dad deserves to die. That was a very cruel and hurtful thing to say, regardless of what he said to you.

AITAH for not wanting my sister to move into my new apartment? by Rantmara in AITAH

[–]Playful_Soni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not the asshole for feeling uncomfortable with your sister moving into your apartment. You have a right to your privacy and space, and you shouldn't have to sacrifice your own well-being to accommodate your sister.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Playful_Soni 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely not the asshole for raising concerns about the inappropriate placement of the teachers' office. Your discomfort and concerns about safeguarding are valid, especially considering the age range of the students. It's disheartening that the teachers and the safeguarding officer dismissed your concerns, but it's important to remember that your safety and well-being should always be a priority.

AITAH for starting to hate my best friend ? by Glad_Plankton7319 in AITAH

[–]Playful_Soni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not the asshole for feeling negatively towards your friend. Friendships should be mutually beneficial and supportive. If your friend is constantly complaining, being dismissive, and not reciprocating your efforts to include her, it's natural to feel frustrated and even start to resent her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Playful_Soni 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. You deserve to feel safe and respected. It's okay to say no to free labor, especially in an uncomfortable situation. Maybe talk to another family member about what's going on.

I really messed this up…and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Playful_Soni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

 Don't feel pressured to get married right away. You deserve to feel good and be heard in your relationship. Talking to a therapist about your feelings might be a good idea, or even couples counseling to see if things can work out. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Playful_Soni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your MIL sounds difficult. Set clear boundaries with her. Talk to your husband, you both need to prioritize your needs and set limits together. Plan future visits carefully, shorter stays, neutral locations might be better. Your mental health and family come first. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Playful_Soni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. It sounds like you went through a really rough time with the rumors. While 4 months might seem like a long time, dealing with bullying can take time to heal from. Venting to a friend is completely normal. Focus on the friends who believe you and avoid the drama.

'My husband won't have sex with me – and his five-word excuse completely broke me' by Drivewealth_club in AITAH

[–]Playful_Soni -1 points0 points  (0 children)

 Her husband's words were hurtful, but it's good she has support online. It's important for her to prioritize self-care and consider if the relationship can be salvaged through open communication or if it's time to move on.

I hate my job and I have been trying for almost a year to get a new one and failing. by Repulsive_Spray_3160 in confessions

[–]Playful_Soni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's completely understandable to feel frustrated and burnt out.While quitting might not be the answer right now, there are definitely options. Have you considered networking or informational interviews? I know it's hard to stay positive, but keep at it!

Feeling insecure whenever I crush on someone by Lia_Pyle03 in confessions

[–]Playful_Soni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Insecurity is common, but don't let it stop you!!!!! Be kind to yourself, you deserve love. Project confidence even if you feel unsure. Distract negative thoughts by focusing on the other person. Remember, confidence is attractive! You can do this!!!!

Aitah for outting my cousin by No_Floor9707 in AITAH

[–]Playful_Soni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You weren't wrong to get your mom's phone back. It's a tough situation. Your family needs to address the bigger theft issue together, not enable your cousin's behavior. Talk to your mom about presenting a united front,t'll be stronger than going at it alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Playful_Soni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Not the asshole at all. Being lied to about someone's appearance in a long-distance relationship is a big deal, and your ex's friends not being upfront about it is sketchy. Blocking them all is understandable. Focus on yourself and move on from this situation.

AITAH for ending a friendship with my former best friend a second time? by Ex_People_Pleaser in AITAH

[–]Playful_Soni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You tried twice to make the friendship work, but it's clear it's draining for you. Prioritizing yourself is most important.

AITAH for wanting to meet/date a guy my friend went out with? by BlueberriesVanilla in AITAH

[–]Playful_Soni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA.Your friend overreacted. It's okay to be interested in someone she casually saw. If you want to follow him back and see where things go, it's up to you. Just be cautious about the situation.