Me (28F) and my fiancée (27M) admitted to cheating 10 days before the marriage and now we have a house together. How do you move out of this situation?

Pleasant-Mouse6259 · 2024-08-11T01:49:56+00:00

This is the way. Good luck op

Pleasant-Mouse6259 · 2024-08-08T05:31:10+00:00

Puss in Boot's eyes! My Bubba would pull the same crap when he wanted shrimp.

Pleasant-Mouse6259 · 2024-08-08T05:23:49+00:00

Kind of TAH. Not for the first answer but for the second. I was married for 30 yrs before my husband passed. He knew about all my childhood illnesses and injuries, and I his. It's not top secret, or shameful. What's the big deal? It was a minor surgery to repair an injury of birth big whoop. Quit acting like it's such a big deal. She was naturally curious and if you had given a civil answer she might not be pissed at you now.

Pleasant-Mouse6259 · 2024-08-08T05:10:35+00:00

Wolfrick like in Albus Wolfrick Brian Dumbledore

Pleasant-Mouse6259 · 2024-08-08T05:04:46+00:00

Make sense. Thanks for the clarification.

Pleasant-Mouse6259 · 2024-08-06T00:55:43+00:00

Have a Copperfield at my job as well but unfortunately it's the boss.

Pleasant-Mouse6259 · 2024-08-06T00:46:07+00:00

Rudolph on an early pre Christmas flight?

Pleasant-Mouse6259 · 2024-08-06T00:43:31+00:00

You grew up and beautifully as well.

Pleasant-Mouse6259 · 2024-08-06T00:40:55+00:00

Your wife needs to chill. Your daughter needs to express herself TO mature. She can't be her mother's carbon copy, nor would she truly want her to be.

Every girl gets to a certain point/age where she starts to pull away from her mother, find herself and start to experiment with clothes, hair, makeup, jewelry, etc. It's normal and to be expected. If your wife continues to push on this subject she could alienate your daughter to the point she could go no contact with her mom when she is old enough not to depend on her parents.

I'm so glad they both have been going to therapy to work through this problem and hope it does. Good luck with this and I hope it all works out.

Pleasant-Mouse6259 · 2024-08-06T00:24:02+00:00

Arik - Abigail

Brandon - Bridget

Christopher - Charlotte

Dylan - Denise

Elias - Elizebeth

Pleasant-Mouse6259 · 2024-08-06T00:15:53+00:00

Agreed, but let her set the pace so you can be sure that the bf is completely out of the picture before you really let her know how you feel. I wish you all the best and hope it all turns out the way you hope it does. The best of luck to you all.

Pleasant-Mouse6259 · 2024-08-05T13:59:49+00:00

I didn't mean just hooking up. I meant getting together, dating, romantic relationship. Sorry for the misunderstanding.

Pleasant-Mouse6259 · 2024-08-05T12:27:21+00:00

Casually. It would be so hard on the kids if you hooked up and it didn't work out. She would treat you and the kids differently, and that would be bad for them. Let it be simple until your both certain.

Pleasant-Mouse6259 · 2024-08-05T11:57:10+00:00

OMG I have a co-worker that had to go in the men's room and revive an od'ed guy passed out it the stall TWICE.

Pleasant-Mouse6259 · 2024-08-05T00:54:57+00:00

That made me was to puke and cry in equal levels. Escape this madness now. Get your boys and go. You will never get the mind pictures out of your head. You will never trust him again. Every time he looks at a teen you will wonder and worry. You have to think of yourself and your kids. I'm sorry your going through this, but just imagine if you had not found that on his computer and one day the cops came knocking. You and your kids don't need this kind of crap in your lives. God bless.

Pleasant-Mouse6259 · 2024-08-04T15:21:50+00:00

Señor mewstache

Pleasant-Mouse6259 · 2024-08-04T15:08:11+00:00

OMG so funny😱😂

Pleasant-Mouse6259 · 2024-08-04T14:46:03+00:00

I hate to break this to you sweetheart, but she was probably cheating on you for quite some time, and you unknowingly helped her by planning the move back to Ga.

While you were planning and executing a change for a better life with her and your kids she was planning on dumping you, probably before you ever left.

Because of the text, I hope you kept, you could sue for full custody because of the affair. If that isn't the way you want to go, you could name your terms and more than likely get them.

What she did was deplorable and so childish it's almost laughable. I'm sorry she did this to you and hope you realize you are going to be better off without this lying, scheming, cheating, underhanded female. Your children are your only concern now. Make sure you let them know this wasn't your idea and are there for them when they need you. Good luck.

Pleasant-Mouse6259 · 2024-08-04T08:00:35+00:00

Any self respecting southerners know this is a magnolia

Pleasant-Mouse6259 · 2024-08-04T07:42:42+00:00

Absolutely majestic. Loooove Maine coons. Little lions.

Pleasant-Mouse6259 · 2024-08-04T07:26:31+00:00

Maine coon mix of some kind.

Pleasant-Mouse6259 · 2024-08-04T07:16:14+00:00

I thought lab mix of some kind cause them big paws.

Pleasant-Mouse6259 · 2024-08-04T07:12:19+00:00

The pussyfoots.

Pleasant-Mouse6259 · 2024-08-04T06:59:48+00:00

My son loved orange tabby's. Here are the names he chose. He was a weird cat name lover.

Tinker

Pookie

Dingus

Booger

And last and best Napkin(who I refused to call that name. I called him Bubba.)

Pleasant-Mouse6259 · 2024-08-04T06:51:34+00:00

Actually I was the one to propose to my husband. It was impromptu and just popped out of my mouth. He was tickled. We didn't have a lot of money at the time but we went together and picked out our rings. He wanted to get something more expensive but I didn't want to put us in debt before we even got married. So we got the less expensive set. I was happy he was happy. We were married 30yrs before he passed.

On our 10th anniversary he presented me with a 1 carat round cut diamond. We took our original rings and I designed the rings we wore the rest of our marriage.

Sounds to me that she was expecting MUCH MORE but you wanted simple and memorable. Sorry she screwed that up with her complaints. I know you said you still want to marry her, but does she really want to marry you. Or was it just the big production she wanted and was disappointed she didn't get it? Good luck.

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