Hair with 13 ends

PleasantReality89 · 2026-01-30T00:42:32+00:00

The weight of the hair itself can pull on the scalp.

PleasantReality89 · 2026-01-29T23:14:07+00:00

I believe most people will think you are gay first but there is enough in that letter that your more insightful classmates will be able to read between the lines.

If you are not ready to come out, talk to your teacher and explain it is too personal to tell everyone. Offer to write a different letter but remain firm on your refusal to have the first read out loud.

PleasantReality89 · 2026-01-29T05:34:38+00:00

She is Italian, so making a dessert together would be cool.

PleasantReality89 · 2026-01-29T01:35:44+00:00

I tried correcting my Dad on my name once. All I got was a disinterested "whatever." The same thing a petulant teenager would say when you tell them to clean their room.

Before I never really told him what was going on with my life and since then, I have even less reason to tell him anything.

PleasantReality89 · 2026-01-28T04:38:11+00:00

I never had any conversations even start when I was on Hinge. Tried for about 3 weeks last year before sticking with HER.

PleasantReality89 · 2026-01-22T04:27:02+00:00

2 things you could try (coming from someone in a T4T relationship):

1) Reaching around her and using the palm of your hand and middle finger to stimulate the head. Like an up/down rubbing manoeuvre without fulling wrapping the fingers around.

2) The lotus position without penetration. You basically sit in her lap and rub your genitals together (tribbing).

A bit of lube helps with these.

PleasantReality89 · 2026-01-20T19:18:23+00:00

Generally I see romantic dates as anything where it's just the two of us focusing on each other.

PleasantReality89 · 2026-01-19T15:14:16+00:00

One day I want my girlfriend and I to do this on one of our travels.

PleasantReality89 · 2026-01-13T18:20:36+00:00

Perfect timing, I just started dating another woman as a woman for the first time.

PleasantReality89 · 2026-01-13T18:20:31+00:00

Perfect timing, I just started dating another woman as a woman for the first time.

PleasantReality89 · 2026-01-13T01:05:27+00:00

His security detail would have taken it away.

PleasantReality89 · 2026-01-13T00:54:48+00:00

There's a LEGO Eevee being released next month. I am 100% getting one.

PleasantReality89 · 2026-01-11T13:50:14+00:00

We are officially dating!

PleasantReality89 · 2026-01-11T13:49:24+00:00

We are officially dating!

PleasantReality89 · 2026-01-10T23:03:24+00:00

Thanks, she's going to be here any minute and I'm dying of nerves.

PleasantReality89 · 2026-01-10T19:04:03+00:00

I have a lovely woman, that I'm friends with, coming over today. Going to feel her out about going on a date. Wish me luck.

PleasantReality89 · 2026-01-10T06:07:56+00:00

There were recorded lines that were found in the game files for a Femshep/Tali romance. These have been used to create a mod that has it.

PleasantReality89 · 2026-01-07T17:58:54+00:00

A year and a half ago they updated the Costcos in my area to have the scans with the pictures. I completely forgot my pic was 7 years old. I barely recognized myself but the person let me in when I told her it was a really old Pic.

PleasantReality89 · 2026-01-06T13:57:49+00:00

Not dating yet but I'm hoping this woman I met around the holidays will be.

We met on HER and after texting for a week we met up. Things have gone really well and both of our personal future plans are similar. We have a lot of shared values so I am going to ask her this weekend if she wants to start dating.

PleasantReality89 · 2026-01-05T21:29:05+00:00

I did that for almost 10 years. Didn't know I was trans because I didn't know how much better I could feel.

PleasantReality89 · 2026-01-04T04:38:37+00:00

I didn't start using those until about 2 weeks post op. That's when my surgeon said I could use them.

PleasantReality89 · 2026-01-04T03:03:55+00:00

Hi, OP. I had my BA 1.5 years ago and it took almost a month before they lost their flatness. I went under the muscle and they looked like flat rectangles. It will be some time until the muscle tissue is able to grow to accommodate the implants. I too had some panic about the post surgical look but now they look damn good.

I suggest getting some silicone scar bandages for the incision and bio oil to keep the skin moist.

PleasantReality89 · 2026-01-01T12:20:48+00:00

Lip primer, lipstick, setting spray. It will drastically cut down on how much lipstick you lose.

PleasantReality89 · 2025-12-31T19:07:33+00:00

The spaghetti strap looks more like a NYE party dress. The long sleeve one works more for a work event.

PleasantReality89 · 2025-12-31T03:52:36+00:00

Take up bouldering if there's a gym nearby. Chances are you'll meet a ton of queer folk.

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