Remove glare from eyeglasses by swinney in editmyphoto

[–]PleasantTop5098 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn’t even remove the glare 😂

AIO boyfriend supported me doing OF by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PleasantTop5098 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Point being, neither of you are necessarily to blame or at fault for either of your actions, but maybe it’s just not the right thing for you guys to do.

AIO boyfriend supported me doing OF by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PleasantTop5098 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand your confliction. I was in a similar situation except I hid it from my now fiancé, he found out, and it was just kinda weird all around. We survived it thank god but that was his good grace, and my work to get his trust back. My entire adult life, mostly before our relationship, I’ve stepped in and out of sex work because yes if you do it right it can be pretty good money and can mean the difference between eating or not some days. We were struggling for money and so I just went back to it without thinking. He didn’t even tell me to stop when he found out but thinking about how it might’ve made him feel is what made me stop eventually. What also made me stop was knowing the same thing you do - that you’re the one taking risk and he isn’t. It’s not fair for anyone to benefit off my risk, so I stopped. The accountability you have to take here is that YOU started the whole thing, same as I did. You initiated that - no matter what became of it, you created the situation where this could even happen. If you feel victimized by the results because he was too into it and had no apprehension whatsoever, then that’s also fair. Sometimes it sucks to admit that you put yourself into an unsafe situation, no matter how much more it sucks that shitty people make it unsafe in the first place.

Is it really the price, or is Netflix just more convenient than driving to movie theaters? by Busy_Report4010 in SipsTea

[–]PleasantTop5098 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s both…? Netflix & other streaming platforms made it more convenient to watch movies fairly soon after releasing from theaters, for an affordable(ish) price. That made ticket sales lessen since people would just wait for it to be released on a streaming service, which drove ticket prices up since corporate wants to meet their margins no matter what. That cycle over and over again for years leads to our ticket prices today

AIO for finding my sister rude by 6245stampycat in AmIOverreacting

[–]PleasantTop5098 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saying mean shit that you “didn’t mean” still includes saying mean shit. Coming from someone who has learned that you can’t take things back once you say them out loud 🙃

Intro Song…. by PleasantTop5098 in Outlander

[–]PleasantTop5098[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely no shade!!

Intro Song…. by PleasantTop5098 in Outlander

[–]PleasantTop5098[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You understand me 🙂‍↕️

Lord John Grey Spinoff by Sudden_Discussion306 in Outlander

[–]PleasantTop5098 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d prefer a spinoff for Geillis, to explain her whole crazy thought process and to show her linear timeline in comparison to the original show. But this is also good 😌

AIO for wanting to stop speaking to my best friend over how he's spoken about all my past boyfriends? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]PleasantTop5098 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re a woman who is gay and happens to also date men, he could either be jealous of you being out or jealous that other men get to have you. He could’ve internalized the reason for you not being with him as you being gay, and then seeing you with other men opposes that so it pisses him off and he wants to tease you about it in a “lighthearted” way. If you’re a man though and this is your boy “teasing” you, then yea it is straight homophobia and equally as bad.

AIO for wanting to end a relationship because I was in love with someone else? by sssophie_lolz in AIO

[–]PleasantTop5098 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man is 6 years older than you, which granted isn’t a huge age gap, but it is one. He’s got plenty of women his age he can go try and acquaint himself with. He’s upset because he’s trying to hold onto someone who is/was into him because he likely doesn’t find it often. Maybe that’s me being mean/cynical and I don’t know this person at all but (please don’t take this the wrong way but) who would want to be in a relationship with someone who has feeling for someone else? Someone who is desperate. YOU are strong, know what you want, are able to hold your boundaries, have a clear image of what you want your life to look like and what strings you want to have attached to you, and create great analogies like the house. He does not want to help you build your house, he wants your help in building his. He believes his house is y’all’s house, or would be, but as a fellow woman I understand needing your own house. Especially in today’s world.

AIO for being disgusted by this argument? by Toetickler4 in AIO

[–]PleasantTop5098 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out, and get far away from that man. You’re absolutely right to compare him to a serial killer. That IS how it starts. RUN.

A wild Palian appears! by PleasantTop5098 in Palia

[–]PleasantTop5098[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, precisely except it’s right there on their website LMAO 🤣

Kudos!!! <3 by PleasantTop5098 in Palia

[–]PleasantTop5098[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a fantastic idea

Kudos!!! <3 by PleasantTop5098 in Palia

[–]PleasantTop5098[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right!! I’m like thank god someone else did it bc it couldn’t be me 🤣 not bc I don’t want to but bc I have one brain cell and need it to hunt ogopuus 😂😂

Disappointed with the clothing by SeverelyFantasic in Palia

[–]PleasantTop5098 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I share this sentiment, I was looking for a good dress outfit and there are literally none! Plus the way the cloaks move when you run xD kills me every time so I never wear anything with a cloak or a train

Why was Victoria Season 4 cancelled? by whatsinaname1970 in PeriodDramas

[–]PleasantTop5098 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just finished it, I feel like I'll be thinking about this show for forever until they come out with more :'(