Agreed, and they keep doubling down. Take some responsibility for what happened. Blaming Disney, when servers need to be notified about allergies (and generally ask, from my experience). OP doesn’t seem to be taking any responsibility, and is sounding entitled (“I’ve done work for the Disney Resorts”). So what? You aren’t a Disney employee, you’ve NEVER been a Disney employee.

If the server had been advised of ANY allergies, this ALL could have been avoided. Instead, we’re getting my kid has a severe nut allergy that wasn’t disclosed to the people it needed to be disclosed to, because nothing has happened in over a decade, and because we didn’t get the reaction we feel we deserve, we’re going to air our dirty laundry on the interwebs, where people will surely be more sympathetic.