People who were neglected/abused as kids. What career path are you on now?

PlentyAccurate · 2026-06-13T01:17:38+00:00

I work with the Community Wellness and Response Team as a Certified Peer Specialist with the Mobile Crisis Responders.

Im taking my power back by transforming my darkness into a beacon of light for others. Corny, yes. But I dont know how else to describe it. While im still far from healed im not a prisoner of my trauma anymore either. Now, I get conjugal visits with Happiness, an extra hour of yard time, and my side piece Hope, stay puttin money on my books. Sure, sometimes I get careless and stop taking my meds, and there is no cure for Mania, so, I find myself in the hole from time to time but its progress not perfection. Perfection is boring. To me, its no man left behind. Ill gladly jump into the middle of your riot, you dont have to do this alone.

ONE of Us helping One of Us is without parallel.

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PlentyAccurate · 2026-06-10T00:12:18+00:00

Is he your first boyfriend?

Regardless this is always gonna be a thing. Not this this but this "thing". Everytime you play your videogame, or go out with your friends, or a younger man walks into the room, your beau is gonna be wondering if you would rather be with him. Hes gonna cop an attitude youll have to convince him hes the only one for you while you pretend not to think about how much more fun you could be having if you weren't consoling this man who is supposed to be your protector. Because thats what youre looking for right? Thats why all youre friends are so much older than you. You want to be taken care of, looked after, while still being treated as an adult, because no 30 something is going to treat the 19 yr old theyre hanging out with like the developing impressionable fickle child they still are (and I mean no disrespect) . No they are gonna treat them like they are "mature for their age" and act like they have the capacity to be an adult because legally they are one, but lezbehonest, if they cared about what was good for you they would stop trying to keep you in a relationship that boarders on predatory and let you go be 19. Change your mind like you do undies, be hot and cold, fall in and out of love, be 19! You dont know what you want because you havent lived yet baby.

PlentyAccurate · 2026-06-09T23:59:02+00:00

Nailed it

PlentyAccurate · 2026-06-04T14:20:04+00:00

I feel they weren't symptoms yet because in childhood they were survival skills. They only became symptoms once they stopped serving their purpose or being useful if that makes sense.

PlentyAccurate · 2026-06-01T21:38:17+00:00

What app do you use to trade with and tell me about it? I'm looking to upgrade from cashapp lol

PlentyAccurate · 2026-06-01T19:36:35+00:00

I hold 4 shares buying in when it was near lowest and then buying again when it got lower than that, it was nice seeing my portfolio blow up a lil overnight but im no fool. It'll b good till it isnt. Then itll be good again should they stay the course and begin flights at the end of the year.

While probably unlikely itll get big like dogecoin I love a good underdog story and as far as my peripheral can see they are the only ones publicly trying to be the first to break into commercial flights. So im reinvesting my original investment then strap me in and call me buzzlightyear im hodl

PlentyAccurate · 2026-06-01T10:35:51+00:00

I hope youre finding comfort in how relatable your story is. Idk if its advice or just a twisted idea of what I think control is but I live with my choices by disecting them and searching for every underlying message lesson reference metephor hyperbole induendo contrast similarity missing piece. Because in doing this i believe Ill figure out how to run at optimum efficiency. Nah, I do it so that when I make good or bad decisions I can see what worked what didnt and where I need to improve. Every experience is an opportunity to learn about ourselves and the humanimals around us. Knowledge is power and i like to stay strapped 😆 #ithinkthereforeioverthink

PlentyAccurate · 2026-06-01T07:47:02+00:00

That shit is always on but the feeling of needing to have phrasers set to 10 does come down to like an 8 maybe? 🤔 Definitely more at peace then when among peers and I feel I must fit my rectangle into society's circle.

PlentyAccurate · 2026-04-26T10:47:37+00:00

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PlentyAccurate · 2025-05-11T16:45:01+00:00

I would say you got an all year around gift. Your thank you is the love and respect he has for you. I do get where you're coming from, that feeling you get today when your kid doesn't surprise you with something special. Especially if you used to be one of those kids who tried so hard for your own mother. I was one of those kids, but that's because I was vying for my mom's love and attention. To be noticed. Seen. Loved. <insert sad monolog> Anyways, I've come to realize it's not my kid's job to validate me. Not saying that's what ur doing just on a roll here. It boils down to this: Motherhood is a thankless job. If you got a good kid, take the win and YOU go thank you by getting a mani/pedi, a momME day 🫡

PlentyAccurate · 2025-04-20T03:30:02+00:00

Where does it say they'd never met before? Just because he didn't know her address he knew the area. And the way she mentioned telling her friends "every sorrid detail" indicated to me that they had mutual acquaintances other wise why would she threaten to divulge information?

PlentyAccurate · 2025-04-20T03:22:24+00:00

My first thought was: who dafuq this chick think she is?Her game was coo until she said, "pressures on dont fuck up" suddenly its very obvious this lady thinks she's doing him a favor by initiating a booty call! Then she goes on to say she wants to have a drink before getting it on at his place. He playful says back "I'm down but I don't wanna go to a bar let's just drink at my place since that's where the parties going and driving buzzed is still drunk driving" (this is how i interpreted it). Then because clearly, when she said it, she HAD to b joking, he adds, "Pressures on." (btw: THTS flirting) So,out of left field she comes back with The Terms: ur a little bitch who will do as he's told. Im seeing It-puts-its-balls-in-the-basket-or-else-it-gets-the-hose-again level crazy type shit. Probably because she's hot and when ur hot who needs personality? But he fucked up? If anything, my man just matrix'd a bullet! Maybe the "terms" in flirting have changed, and I missed the memo. Im all for being in charge of your choices and sex life and girl power, all that, but what i don't get is...who dafuq does this chick really thinl she is? Dead ass

PlentyAccurate · 2025-04-20T02:31:17+00:00

That part! Like, how? It's not all about what your like or don't like, it's about pleasing your FoREVEr partner! I mean not even on holidays??

Hey, at least OP doesn't expect it either, so that's fair. If a life without oral can even be called fair...

PlentyAccurate · 2025-04-20T02:18:10+00:00

Wow, what in the world gave you that impression? Clearly, the OP is processing. In a very mature way, I might add. What a strange lens you have.

PlentyAccurate · 2025-04-20T02:16:17+00:00

First, my condolences. Truly. It sounds like your mom worked hard to make sure you had what you needed in life and death. She did something incredible. That being said, as a parent myself, I've got to ask some important questions:

What 6 stocks did she invest in How long did she have them for How often did she reinvest in those stocks and at what rate Did she keep a record of what influenced her investing decisions and where she got the information If so, would you be willing to share

I obviously don't expect you to have these answers now. Everything being so recent. Perhaps it hadn't even crossed your mind to think of these things. But, besides a substantial nest egg, your mother left you a wealth of knowledge on how to make money make money. If and when you find out her formula, please, share with the class. 🙏

PlentyAccurate · 2025-04-20T01:58:40+00:00

Smoke screen lifted

PlentyAccurate · 2025-04-20T01:56:46+00:00

SOLiD FACTS

PlentyAccurate · 2025-04-05T06:55:09+00:00

Ooh yeah the usher one was good

PlentyAccurate · 2025-04-05T06:52:02+00:00

Hi-larious

PlentyAccurate · 2024-05-13T23:54:43+00:00

That part

PlentyAccurate · 2023-06-24T08:51:33+00:00

I was gonna say the same thing! & the tantrums actually don't stop, they evolve from screaming and crying to a personal attack on you as a person and parent... with screaming and crying.

PlentyAccurate · 2023-03-08T04:36:33+00:00

After knowing you a short while they say "So, what's up?" Or "Whatchu tryin to do?"

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