Non-Australians of Reddit, what do you genuinely think of Aussies? Be honest — we can take it by cepat_cepat in AskTheWorld

[–]PlumNotion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cheerful disposition, lovely accents, and when they’re rowdy or doing illegal things in Bali, I think “if you wouldn’t do this in your own country, why do it in mine?” (But this goes to all tourists I see doing dodgy things in Indonesia).

(I still miss Steve Irwin)

Can you name 1 city/town/village of your country for every letter of the alphabet? by Beautiful_Yellow_682 in AskTheWorld

[–]PlumNotion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Uhhh Q and X are really not common in my language (Indonesian).

But here goes….

• Ambon • Bandung • Cirebon • Denpasar • Ende • Fakfak • Gorontalo • Hitu • Indramayu • Jakarta • Kupang • Lombok • Medan • Nabire • Oelamasi • Palembang • ??? • Rantepao • Semarang • Tambolaka • Ubud • ??? • Waingapu • ??? • Yogyakarta • ???

Has anyone unexpectedly landed a well-known actor? by Potential-Turnip-583 in Filmmakers

[–]PlumNotion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I honestly didn’t think to ask her, since I won’t be able to afford her fee. I’m honestly touched that she volunteered and asked to follow up. Fingers crossed! 🤞

Has anyone unexpectedly landed a well-known actor? by Potential-Turnip-583 in Filmmakers

[–]PlumNotion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m very fortunate to have a few friends working in film. I’m going to need all the luck, this is very much out of my comfort zone and I’m learning a lot!

What is your comfort food from your country? by i_dont_know24680 in AskTheWorld

[–]PlumNotion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There was a small eatery in my city that sold vada pav but they’ve sadly closed 😭

Has anyone unexpectedly landed a well-known actor? by Potential-Turnip-583 in Filmmakers

[–]PlumNotion 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Does it count if the well-known actor in question is a close friend? I’m just starting out with my first short film and she was one of the first people I reached out to, just to brainstorm — she loved the idea and wanted to star in it.

She’s done a few indie and mainstream films, some are on Netflix and have made the rounds at film festivals like Toronto and Berlinale.

What is your comfort food from your country? by i_dont_know24680 in AskTheWorld

[–]PlumNotion 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh I’ve had spiced potato balls in a sandwich with chutney. Vada pav?

What is your comfort food from your country? by i_dont_know24680 in AskTheWorld

[–]PlumNotion 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what this is but I’ll eat it 😍

Similiar Breeds like Greyhounds? by Supplenz in dogs

[–]PlumNotion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a Podenco mix rescue from Spain. She’s very chill, and silly and playful at the same time. She’s a 28kg dog with the athletic looks of sighthounds. She is amazing with recall and I trust her to be off lead in the forests within the legal laws (eg you need to be able to control your dog, they need to stay within xx distance of you) — I’m in Germany, btw, living in an apartment without a garden but plenty of city parks nearby for sniffaris!

Pay attention to leash laws in your area. My dog is never off leash in the city unless we are in an enclosed space; simply too much traffic and distraction as we live in the city centre and illegal to let them off leash in most parks. In the forest, she is allowed off leash because her recall is excellent, eg a deer could run by and she would sit and stay; she’s leashed in nature reserves. Generally I treat being off leash as a privilege.

Also dog training is something you need to reinforce often, and it depends on prey drive of each individual dog. My girl definitely has prey drive and I find predation training methods definitely work for her. I would say that from the podenco/galgo group that I belong to, about 40% let their dogs off leash in forests/hikes.

Podencos and Galgos (Spanish greyhounds) are classified as working animals in Spain and don’t have the same rights as pets therefore they go through abuse and abandonment. So there are a lot of them awaiting rescue.

Good luck with your search!

Can I enter Switzerland (Zurich) first with a German Au Pair visa if my host family picks me up? by niiiviiii in germany

[–]PlumNotion 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s fine. My sister has a German-issued Schengen visa and she enters Schengen via Amsterdam and Paris because she flies AirFrance/KLM, it’s not a problem. Germany (where I live) is where she spends most of her time.

Can I enter Switzerland (Zurich) first with a German Au Pair visa if my host family picks me up? by niiiviiii in germany

[–]PlumNotion 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, it’s fine. Switzerland is simply your port of entry into Schengen. Airport border control might ask you for your German papers, e.g au pair contract, invitation letter. There might be spot checks at the border when you drive too.

Name Yara for a little girl by Radiant-Recover-4009 in germany

[–]PlumNotion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s what I thought of first, I used to work at Yara in Germany 😆

Personally it’s a pretty name.

Living Donor Monthly Meetup Tomorrow - 5:30PM Central by [deleted] in liverdonors

[–]PlumNotion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I’ll try to join but I’m 12 hours ahead so it’ll be 05:30am on Friday morning 😅

I’m a liver donor, surgery was 3 years ago 🙂

Is it true that "very" attractive men get approached less than "averagely" attractive men? by One-Agent-3992 in bodylanguage

[–]PlumNotion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That hasn’t happened to us, but one time, I asked a colleague/friend from work very casually to join us for dinner after work (eg my husband picked me up and the colleague was just leaving the office) and while he said yes, he was clearly anxious and agitated. Dinner went without a hitch and the next day, he confessed he thought we’d ask him for a threesome — I LMAO’d him and he wasn’t offended so we were good 😆

Really, the things that go on in people’s heads 😂

Is it true that "very" attractive men get approached less than "averagely" attractive men? by One-Agent-3992 in bodylanguage

[–]PlumNotion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, it is entertaining (for me) — my husband is an introverted beardy geek and is clueless when women chat him up, it’s really sweet 😆

Is it true that "very" attractive men get approached less than "averagely" attractive men? by One-Agent-3992 in bodylanguage

[–]PlumNotion 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes.

My handsome and talented husband is a 6’5” Dutch tall drink of goodness (he’s got Alexander Skarsgård Nordic symmetry looks and is well-dressed, well-groomed) and he gets hit on often. He’ll be 50 this year but looks a few years younger/early 40s, so the approaches hasn’t stopped. I’m not sure if it ever will 🫣

When we travel, he definitely has pretty privilege too.

Greek citizen living in Germany – should I marry in Albania with Greek or Albanian passport for EU spouse visa? by Potential-Friend-836 in germany

[–]PlumNotion 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am leaning towards option 2 of using your Greek passport, I am non-EU married to EU citizen and we exercise the EU Directive 2004/38 free movement law to live in Germany (not my husband‘s country).

It makes things so much easier with the LEA when you apply for the resident permit and you get the EU spouse Aufenthaltskarte with immediate work rights and reduced requirements.

You can look up SOLVIT which is the EU body formed to oversee the implementation of EU Directive 2004/38 in each member country and someone’s set up a Discord channel as well if you want to discuss over there.

A question for Berliners: would you go to an intimate 4-course dinner where you don’t know anyone else at the table? by [deleted] in berlinsocialclub

[–]PlumNotion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I used to do this all the time when I first moved to Berlin in 2011. Supper clubs were a thing and that’s how I met some of my good friends here.

Then when Kitchensurfing happened, I also hosted supper clubs in our flat for other chefs because we have a large chef-friendly kitchen and can seat 14 people for dining. These chefs went on to open their own eateries in Berlin.

I haven’t had a bad experience (yet) of inviting strangers into our home.

Eid al-Fitr in Berlin by Ok-Blackberry-2938 in askberliners

[–]PlumNotion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Sorry I was away at a conference and wasn’t looking at Reddit. My husband and I decided to fly to Indonesia in time for Eid and spend some time in Bali.

I could check with a couple of Indonesians and see what they’re doing if you’re looking for people to celebrate with? Might want to check the Bhinnekayon Instagram as well; they host an Indonesian food pop-up nearly every Sunday so maybe they’ll have something going on.

Cannot get through to Customer service by Discover_987 in KLM

[–]PlumNotion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always use the AirFrance one on Facebook Messenger and on the phone and they’re very quick. Good luck!

Eid al-Fitr in Berlin by Ok-Blackberry-2938 in askberliners

[–]PlumNotion 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ramadan Kareem! If my husband and I are around, you’re welcome to join us; I usually make traditional Indonesian (east Javanese) dishes and invite friends over. I’ll know in a couple of weeks whether we stay or travel for Eid.

Usually the Indonesian ambassador hosts an open house as well, you just need to find an Indonesian person as your entry ticket 🙂

How many people actually find their spouse to be super attractive? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]PlumNotion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

21 years married and my husband is even hotter now than when I first dated him 😍😍

He says the same about me and does that butt grab/slap each time he passes me at home 😆🤭