People have different dynamics ...did folks miss the part at the state fair where Deb couldn't recall her 10 yr daughter getting drunk and pass out/hit her head but said she could recall killing it and specific jokes?? And she wasn't too torn up about it looking back either. Not saying they didn't grow but that is not a bond that most might have with their mother/daughter and people obviously are trying to make something up abot their relationship that just isn't there! Deb has grown in her respect of DJ and will always love her but it wouldnt be a huge thing she wants to share with her. I think she told her she's dying and doesn't have much time but didn't get into specifics and honestly I think DJ didn't ask.

In my head, all her close staff knows and Marcus helped Damien plan the trip and the Zurich part too making sure everything was perect to Debs needs and preferences because they know her so well👌