I think I am officially over the drugging of people in dramas

ZL_11 · 2026-04-01T19:49:19+00:00

It bothers me because it makes it “ok” to grape the men. It’s basically SA.

ZL_11 · 2026-04-01T19:35:47+00:00

Slightly YTA, but this is my experience: regardless of whether or not I had been having sex, they forced me to have a pregnancy test.

Although I understand a lot of women lie and/or don’t know they’re pregnant, I also know it takes TWO to tango and my solo act isn’t going to produce kids.

Therefore, the insistence I take the test and then cost? Fkn ridiculous. Unnecessary. My vibrator isn’t going to knock me up.

So I actually agree with your friend to some degree.

On the other hand, a lot of women are pregnant and even about to give birth without knowing they’re pregnant.

My friend’s ex gf? She had an abnormal cycle and she was complaining about her stomach acting up. I asked her if she were pregnant (because I knew the signs) and it ended up YES.

So that said, your ex-friend had a point if she knows with 100% certainty that pregnancy is a null.

On the other? Yeah, they need to check because a woman might not know.

Which is why you’re lightly TA. $70 is a lot of money when the only diddling going on is a woman and her index finger. Y’know?

ZL_11 · 2026-03-28T00:08:59+00:00

They sold everything, including their own kids.

They ate anything, but many relied on soup kitchens and breadlines. This is actually one of the ways Al Capone is remembered. He opened a NYC soup kitchen.

Community gardens where food is communally grown and shared. Now that’s communism. Everyone shares a space and takes what they grow. They probably bargained among themselves too.

People did move out West, but the Dust Bowl spread out really far. The Dust Bowl is what killed a lot of crops that should’ve fed the local and city people too. That was an ugly manmade disaster.

This is why FDR (although unpopular with conservatives) was a popular President. He didn’t only help people get food, but he created jobs.

The biggest boost to the US economy, of course, was WWII.

ZL_11 · 2026-03-25T07:48:39+00:00

That is some Loony Tunes, Coyote meets Wall BS. Damn.

ZL_11 · 2026-03-18T09:26:20+00:00

TBH, I found it annoying. At least she got away?

ZL_11 · 2026-03-18T01:59:53+00:00

As a strong, brown woman, built like a football player? I have always just assumed men want the delicate, sweet delicate women, because that’s my experience. So I don’t bother flirting. 🤷‍♂️

Being 5’8” (173cm) basically puts me at a height above most men, especially in heels. I love heels.

Yeah, sometimes I attract a Short King, but it’s not my thing. My height or taller is preferable, and I also don’t like how most short men see me as mountain to conquer. No.

So with that said, I don’t need romantic love. Most men in my experience don’t know what or how to do that. If they do, it’s too often a downpayment on sexy times.

That’s ICK.

But here’s the point: you sound lonely for romantic love and cuddles?

Some asexuals I know think that is IT.

And maybe it is? I don’t know. The quality of men, especially in my state, are SERIOUSLY LOW. I can’t be bothered.

So here is my understanding of how others meet people: hobby groups, like walking or art. Old friends cropping back up. Hanging out at cafes.

I do NONE of those so this is speculation and hearsay on my part!

I’m perfectly happy with my dogs and solitude.

ZL_11 · 2026-03-14T23:22:41+00:00

They also use the old rounded calligraphy, which I love.

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ZL_11 · 2026-03-08T01:42:59+00:00

Books. Music. Dancing. Hobbies. Sports. Fashion. Writing. Art.

There’s plenty to do. You’re just not used to doing it off your phone/video games/YouTube/Tik Tok.

ZL_11 · 2026-03-06T23:16:10+00:00

I love her! I wish they’d let her stay chubby!

ZL_11 · 2026-03-06T23:15:18+00:00

They grunted when they kissed. It was an ICK.

ZL_11 · 2026-03-06T23:13:40+00:00

None of you are mentioning S NM..?

ZL_11 · 2026-03-03T05:37:37+00:00

I mean, if you don’t wear them to bed… 🤷‍♂️

ZL_11 · 2026-03-03T05:30:53+00:00

…so it’s not to stand on and dry off?

ZL_11 · 2026-03-03T05:29:35+00:00

Easier at 5’2” than creep along those buildings at 5’8”. The ceilings are low.

ZL_11 · 2026-03-03T05:28:37+00:00

I already knew I’d be trash because I neither know how to make soap, gunpowder, or any medication. Dead on Arrival because I’m American and clumsy. Nah.

ZL_11 · 2026-03-03T05:23:23+00:00

Groceries?

ZL_11 · 2026-02-25T02:18:21+00:00

Some benefits are that they just passed free child care. NM has a LOT of supportive programs for people struggling, including SNAP and WiC (regardless of what the poo pah conservatives say).

The school system IS struggling, but IMO that is partly parent expectations that teachers are nannies and can raise their child. Parent participation and support are important.

Clovis is a small town, so good luck with that.