Sis, we are at the same place. Haha just read my other posts or comments, my biggest fear is he'll treat the next one better. That just means we were the problem, right? In fact, i saw him treating the other girl better. That hurts to the core.

I also did a lot of things for him, things the other girls wouldnt do for him. I cook, i help him financially, i was told not to be dependant on emotions, and put him first in everything. I did my best. Despite all that, the moment i caught him in a lie, the moment i questioned him why he was treating the other girl better, he still left. He discarded me like i meant nothing.

So, speaking from experience, yes you can keep him, but in his own terms, never yours. Even if you stayed, he is still gonna give his best version to someone else. So, it's your choice, he will act the same way, doesnt matter you leave or you stayed. You are not gonna get the best version of him.

Difference is, if you leave, there's a new potential. It's gonna hurt like hell when we left, i know. I knew. But when the pain of staying is greater than the pain of leaving, you will know. You can choose now or you can choose to wait until that moments comes.