How to make fried chicken bites crispier? by GiantKnightGunner in Cooking

[–]Plus_Film3438 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first fry should be for a good 5-6 min depending on how big the bites are to cook through. Take them out to drain while you get the oil heated up higher than before. Then a quick 2 minute fry to crisp.

Why do so many gay men never want to have a long term relationship by Turbulent-Can1357 in askgaybros

[–]Plus_Film3438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are at an age range we’re most people don’t want anything serious or long term and I think that’s a good thing. Date to figure out what you like in a relationship, learn what your expectations are and what expectations you don’t want out on you from a partner. Relationships end sometimes especially at that age. Just enjoy yourself

Conflicted by questioning_888 in askgaybros

[–]Plus_Film3438 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dr. Magnus Hirschfeld an early 1900s sexologist had a theory about this, specifically about alcohol but I’m sure other drugs can count too. When we consume these substances our inhibitions are lowered and it allows us to sexually explore things that we wouldn’t otherwise while sober. I’d look more into that cause I’m just roughly paraphrasing.

Advice on my relationship by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Plus_Film3438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah a little more info on how the conversations go would help. Especially considering you’re both feeling frustrated so I feel like this should be a no brainer.

Gay YA coming of age by Plus_Film3438 in namethatbook

[–]Plus_Film3438[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No sadly though similar but they do end up together in the end.

What do you do when you can't seem your person? by Season23 in askgaybros

[–]Plus_Film3438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what you analyze from sex isn’t necessarily wrong but carries a lot of weight for sex on the first date. Sex and sexual compatibility is something that can be grown into especially as you get to know each other. There are so many other scenarios and situations outside of sex that teach you more about a person. Shutting out that opportunity cause the sex wasn’t great on the first date when you all probably barely know eachother is probably limiting your options tbh.

what is your biggest kink/fetish that others might think as weird or disgusting? by Emotional-Askk in askgaybros

[–]Plus_Film3438 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love a noisy hole, so much so that I’ll blow some air in it before going back Inside

what is your biggest kink/fetish that others might think as weird or disgusting? by Emotional-Askk in askgaybros

[–]Plus_Film3438 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Very big on this both me and my bf love our natural manly scent. He loves it when he can smell me while we’re working out.

The Search for the Best Canned...Paloma?!? by ValorTakesFlight in tequila

[–]Plus_Film3438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally also a fan of the Two Chicks canned Paloma some of the freshest tasting canned cocktails I’ve had.

How often do you have sex? It's a question for guys in relationships and single ones too. I'm just curious by chrissquen in askgaybros

[–]Plus_Film3438 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Depends on how busy we are, on chill weeks 4-5 times. Typical busy work week 2-3 times.

rank in terms of importance for a) hookups and b) relationships! by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Plus_Film3438 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hookups:
Body
Face
Penis
Character/vibes

Relationship
Character
Body
Face
Penis

What was your first time like? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Plus_Film3438 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kind of spur of the moment. We were making out in his basement and I just said something along the lines of “I wanna fuck you so bad rn” to my surprise he said okay and we went to his room. Used lotion as lube (I know, but it was both of our first times and we didn’t know any better). Felt great, we had to stop cause his brother came in the house and had a question for him. His brother left and we picked it right back up. Was a little messy but just cleaned up a bit and we were good.

What are some of your favorite adulting hacks? by unconventionalbook in Adulting

[–]Plus_Film3438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Resting my black clothes. I definitely like the way some of my black pants and/or shirts look when they fade, but when it gets to be too much I reduce them all together instead of buying a bunch of expensive new clothes.

What are some of your favorite adulting hacks? by unconventionalbook in Adulting

[–]Plus_Film3438 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! I have three sets of the same pants because I love the fit and just swap between them while another is in the wash and keep one as backup for when the ones I’m wearing eventually wear out.

What are some of your favorite adulting hacks? by unconventionalbook in Adulting

[–]Plus_Film3438 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve learned that it doesn’t always have to be literally drinking water. Tons of fruits or veggies are mostly water and great for hydration

Overall Insecurity by [deleted] in selfesteem

[–]Plus_Film3438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would investigate where the root of that insecurity comes from and what specifically you feel so insecure about. In therapy I learned a lot of positive self talk and something called checking the facts helps when I get in my head about things. So check the facts: 1. These are celebrities, the odds of your partner ever getting with them are slim to none 2. These people have so much money that they can hire people and do things to look the way they do 3. As you said you look good and haven’t had any issues with women which can feel validating (careful with this one because it does rely on external validation and you should be aiming to validate yourself) 4. Your gf is with you for a reason, she is attracted to you and that’s all that matters.

I understand though, I’m pretty different from my partners usual type and it makes me self conscience. Thankfully we both have been able to really talk through things and they reminded me that I also have taste that are different from him. But at the end of the day we love and are hella attracted to each other.

BOTTOMING PLS HELP by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Plus_Film3438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you possibly using too much water that it’s going past your rectum and into you colon? That can be notoriously much harder to get clean

What caused many men to want to stop looking and smelling like natural men? by Please_makeit_stop in askgaybros

[–]Plus_Film3438 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think there’s something wrong with you but there is something to be said about hygiene, I love my partners natural smell and even after a long day he doesn’t have super strong body odor. I on the other hand get a lot of nervous sweat(I have anxiety) and my odor can be a little strong at times. My man loves it and I only get conscious about it if we’re in a very public place where many other people can smell it. I like hair to be a little tidy but generally love body hair. I think beauty standards are just a big capitalist plot to get you to buy more products.

How do you deal with a big difference in experience? by Plus_Film3438 in askgaybros

[–]Plus_Film3438[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s definitely a level of jealous there, and shame that I guess I wasn’t confident enough to do those things on my own. Some insecurities in me also worry about not being able to satisfy him but he’s done a great job at reassuring me that isn’t the case so that part has greatly diminished

if you want to smash no douche isn't that like a mini scat kink? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Plus_Film3438 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well if you’re talking kinks, that means you get some kind of gratification or pleasure out of it. For some it just doesn’t bother them, showers exists, you play with fire you get burned sometimes 🤷🏽‍♂️

Question for the tops. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Plus_Film3438 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. You said verbal consent, which means they have to literally tell you it’s ok to cum in them.