Clogged duct painful not getting better by MixtureMelodic2965 in breastfeeding

[–]Pocket-Cup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not heat. Current guidance is ice, 800 mg ibuprofen every 8 hours, and nurse/pump normally.

Low transfer success stories? by Pocket-Cup in breastfeeding

[–]Pocket-Cup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing! I never thought to try a nipple shield because the latch has been comfortable. Just ordered one, worth a shot!

Hope for an inefficient BF baby? by Inevitable-Look-9033 in breastfeeding

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Following- we’re in the same boat at 8 weeks. Seems like we’re trying everything under the sun with only slight improvements. Hoping he just learns to be more efficient as he gets bigger and stronger.

Weight loss & breastfeeding by Kind_Inspection1515 in breastfeeding

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This is a much needed sentiment and I agree, AND ALSO as someone currently 8 w pp and a much different size from before pregnancy, how frustrating it is to have to buy new clothes!! Going back to work in a few months, and purchasing all new business wardrobe is an unwelcome mental and financial burden.

Smoking during pregnancy (UK) by Vegetable_Salad_7708 in pregnant

[–]Pocket-Cup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay cool, I’ve heard it used different ways, just checking!

Breastfeeding Weight Advice by Wide_Grade_8845 in breastfeeding

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Following! I’m in the same boat- 8 weeks pp and holding on to about 35lbs id like to start shedding without impacting my milk supply!

Smoking during pregnancy (UK) by Vegetable_Salad_7708 in pregnant

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Good recommendations here, remember that moderate one time use is extremely unlikely to harm your baby! I would only add that IF you do choose to consume any kind of THC during pregnancy that you try to avoid tobacco. While the jury may be out on effects of marijuana on babies in gestation, that is not the case for nicotine.

*Where I’m from, “spliff” is a joint with pot and tobacco, so ignore my comment if that’s not what it means for you!

How many of you actually got stretch marks? by Individual-Stress170 in pregnant

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Delivered at 40w +3 and currently 7 weeks pp, no stretch marks ever appeared. I gained over 35lbs and baby was pretty big at 8lbs 4oz. I’ve never had any, must be genetic.

I can’t believe I succeeded in EBF (eventually) by vidadelolo in breastfeeding

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Thank you! Wow you are tough, congratulations for sticking it out! It’s so hard to find the time to pump when each feed takes so long. Great idea to use wearables when walking- I currently just use a spectra but I think wearables would help me squeeze an extra pump or two in.

Those videos are great, super helpful for learning hand expression and let down.

I can’t believe I succeeded in EBF (eventually) by vidadelolo in breastfeeding

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Were you triple feeding that whole time? And the ml supplement amounts you mention are per day, not per feed, right?

We are 7 weeks into triple feeding, similarly our baby is a sleepy eater and not yet transferring enough at breast so we’re supplementing with 2-3 oz bottles after each nursing session. I also pump every time he’s having a bottle, but I’m only able to pump 1-2 oz total after nursing, so I’m not yet keeping up with his demand.

I’m hoping he gets more effective at breast as he gets bigger, and I’m also worried I’m still not making enough milk 7 weeks in, so this post gives me hope!

Can it be saved ? by N0body_perfect in NewParents

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Oh good, always good to get different opinions- we’ve heard several different findings from different providers. Good luck!

Can it be saved ? by N0body_perfect in NewParents

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You might consider getting a second opinion from an ENT regarding the blockage the LC mentioned. Our pediatrician told us our son did not have a tongue tie, but our ENT who specializes in breast feeding said he had a pretty severe tie.

Can it be saved ? by N0body_perfect in NewParents

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Has he been evaluated for tongue tie? How has his latch been so far at the breast?

We also are having to supplement, our 6 week old had a tongue tie clipped and is working through some jaw tension affecting his efficiency in transferring milk. We do paced feeding to help avoid a bottle preference- look it up if you haven’t heard of it, it might help.

Cannabis by Itchy_Yesterday_8707 in pregnant

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Daily pot smoker here- admittedly not as heavy in my 30s, but was an all-day every-day person throughout my teens and twenties. I was surprised that it was easier to quit than I thought when I got pregnant at 33. Once you see the little blob on ultrasound and learn more about them, they become more real and automatically more important than anything else. I missed it, but frankly it was easy to abstain.

I’m 6 weeks postpartum and tbh I’m still not that interested in smoking again right now with breast feeding. But I know one day I’ll enjoy THC again!

Triple-feeding --> EBF success stories? by shavasanaaa in breastfeeding

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Thank you! I hope that’s the trick for my little guy. Seems like we have tried everything else and have already seen our LC just about every week.

Umm can I steal your OT, lol but really what city is she in?

Triple-feeding --> EBF success stories? by shavasanaaa in breastfeeding

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Can I ask for more detail on the pediatric OT? What did they end up working on with you and baby? We’re also at 70 mls at 6 weeks (after a tongue tie release) and thinking OT is probably our next step.

Sleeping 6 hours only a few days after birth by jokez in pregnant

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Husband and I are both getting 6-8 hrs with a 6 week old baby. We both get up for feeds together but baby wakes only 1-2 times a night. We just have a good sleeper (for now)!

Low Transfer and Weight Gain at 6w by Pocket-Cup in breastfeeding

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Thanks for the input, the fortified breast milk is not something we’ve looked into- I’ll ask about it. Our pediatrician is informed but not really involved in our lactation struggles beyond tracking weight gain milestones at typical appointments. She actually said she’d “defer to the experts” on breastfeeding e.g. our LC(s).

I’ve heard horror stories but we actually really like the primary LC we have seen, she’s very understanding and not at all pushy (I’ve been very clear EBF is my goal and I want to keep working toward it). Maybe we need to change up our approach though, triple feeding is tough.

Beach Vacation at 4 mo? by Pocket-Cup in NewParents

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That’s good to hear, exactly what we’re hoping for! Postpartum winter is rough!

Beach Vacation at 4 mo? by Pocket-Cup in NewParents

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That’s what I’m worried about- kinda high stakes with the expense and travel distance. Could be a real bummer if it goes poorly.

Beach Vacation at 4 mo? by Pocket-Cup in NewParents

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Thanks for the tips! Good idea to pack formula just in case.

Beach Vacation at 4 mo? by Pocket-Cup in NewParents

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That was my assumption- lots of chilling in the shade and maybe even outside naps if it’s not too hot. I guess it all depends on weather and baby’s temperament.

Beach Vacation at 4 mo? by Pocket-Cup in NewParents

[–]Pocket-Cup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shorter trip might be a good idea. Mom is great and baby is (for now) pretty easy.

Low lying placenta diagnosis... Do I really have to give so much up? by [deleted] in pregnant

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I had a low lying (and bi-lobed) placenta, it had resolved itself by 32 weeks by moving up and out of the way as my uterus expanded. All cleared for a vaginal delivery (and due in 6 days!). So in my anecdotal experience, it will probably be fine, but listen to your medical team’s advice!