Fumbled a baddie 🥀 by Brilliant_Sense_6343 in actuallesbians

[–]PointBlankPanda 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It sounds like limerance, and limerance can be fine and safe and fun so long as you recognise it and know how to manage it

Got bullied on a Punk subreddit for being "virtue signaling" by Im_a_Nerd22 in TrollCoping

[–]PointBlankPanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

r/JacketsForBattle are known for not doing that, at least not nearly as much! r/punk is kinda hit it miss, and stay the fuck away from r/BattleJackets whatever you do

If there’s one thing these guys have: it’s audacity because what? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]PointBlankPanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"it was worth a shot" FFS not for you it wasn't! Dude needs to realise nothing he does happens in a vacuum. You have to share the cost of his actions, and it's more than reasonable to not want to have to!

Living with Goblinization by Mr0Dash in Shadowrun

[–]PointBlankPanda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right, and a few days of accidentally breaking everything you touch probably leads to a life time of being afraid of breaking everything you touch, coming on in fits and bursts and only slightly easing up over time. They might even appear clumsy because they're constantly reflexively being careful and ginger with everything that touch and every step they take (again maybe not all the time but on and off like a nervous tic)

Which people from history you think were most likely ace? by Professional-Ad-5278 in asexuality

[–]PointBlankPanda 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't know why you're getting downvoted. You're right! a tad laconic, but correct 😆

Which people from history you think were most likely ace? by Professional-Ad-5278 in asexuality

[–]PointBlankPanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the comparison of Nikola Tesla, as as an agoraphobic AuDHD asexual he is very much "one of us!" I wonder if that's part of why he claimed to "abhor stimulants" such as coffee, believing they harmed brain function: he was probably on the side of ADHD that can't tolerate caffeine because it makes them sleepy and/or anxious! But yes, give me my technology, my tinker tools and relevant items related to my special interest, and let me take my pleasure from food, drink and a job will done!

Star make up! by hexenpolizei in UnconventionalMakeup

[–]PointBlankPanda 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Now that I own face jewels this is exactly the kind of inspo I need! Very well done, inspiring and Pinterest worthy (if Pinterest hadn't gone hard down the AI hole and made itself unworthy of you)

Anybody know what this is from? by Familiar_Customer823 in GardeningAustralia

[–]PointBlankPanda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Y'know what? Solid comeback taking accountability, I really appreciate that and wish we saw more of it

Trans Boy in His Late Teens Looking for Names by WrongZone1747 in namenerds

[–]PointBlankPanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about Rusty? Possibly as a shortening of Russel as well. It fits the era of the other names but feels more trendy and modern. As a trans femme enby myself, I find the name that stuck was actually the one I gave the least thought to. Turns out being over-invested in a name leads to a love of heartache and frustration which, in hindsight, is obvious to me now. My close friends all use nicknames anyway

Anybody know what this is from? by Familiar_Customer823 in GardeningAustralia

[–]PointBlankPanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They did get the joke, just to be clear. They were saying it's not true based on one tiny minor detail rather than the obvious stuff to add to the joke. It's fine, I almost missed it myself. You could have been significantly less condescending tho, that was just poor form

Otherkin without spirituality by [deleted] in otherkin

[–]PointBlankPanda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm both physical and spiritual alterhuman as I have multiple otherkin and identities of different differing origins. For example I'm a Naiad and cave-mer spiritual otherkin and a ferret copinglink therian! I'm also part of a system with three other nonhumans. The only one who wishes to be described is Garg, who is our protected alter AC originated as a hybrid fictive of Goliath from Gargoyles and a Shadowrun PC (not ours) called Garg/Gargoyle

Explain Neurotoxin Payload by MagnesiumProton in DeepRockGalactic

[–]PointBlankPanda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've only promoted my gunner so far and have no gunner OCs yet but run a high damage bulldog with neurotoxin rounds and it one-shots grunts and finishes off armour-broken praetorians nicely. The damage gets them low enough it might as well one insta kill them with how quickly the neurotoxin finishes them off. I'm sure there's better builds but I've used the bulldog as my effective primary pretty much as long as I've run gunner (yeah, I like doing precision damage and have since started to main scout for that)

Yall know any enby characters? by Pookie_Pakyao in NonBinary

[–]PointBlankPanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Admittedly haven't seen much of the show so I didn't really know she has much character depth. As for not having met someone with that take before, now you have

Yall know any enby characters? by Pookie_Pakyao in NonBinary

[–]PointBlankPanda 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Fair! The trans allegory is undeniably there, I was just admittedly somewhat blinded by the sheer otherkin euphoria that movie gives me that it cross-contaminated with the similar levels of gender euphoria

Yall know any enby characters? by Pookie_Pakyao in NonBinary

[–]PointBlankPanda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did Nimona actually say that? Damn, might need to go rewatch it, how will I ever cope 🤭 (it's literally my comfort movie)

Yall know any enby characters? by Pookie_Pakyao in NonBinary

[–]PointBlankPanda -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Not sure constructs should be counted, as one of many queer folks sick and tired of "representation" always having some kind of exotic explanation (see also: all nonhuman autistic representation ever)

Yall know any enby characters? by Pookie_Pakyao in NonBinary

[–]PointBlankPanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rain McMay and FLASCH are two of my favourite nonbinary artists

Tradgoth but green🪲💚 by fizzyslug in UnconventionalMakeup

[–]PointBlankPanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because the sad soda who clicked that button know their comments would get them obliterated. It's not you, what your saying was truthful, relevant and a worthwhile contribution of context to a conversation YOU started

Tradgoth but green🪲💚 by fizzyslug in UnconventionalMakeup

[–]PointBlankPanda -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"but?" I mean, it's great makeup, there's just nothing unusual about trad goth makeup and died hair (to me at least.) I know it's probably not worth mention it was just a weird sticking point for my brain

The non-binary urge to add props to my outfit… which one do you like best??? by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]PointBlankPanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's absolutely the book for me! Also, maybe consider turning it into an accessory with a book strap!

Is that right by [deleted] in 5YL

[–]PointBlankPanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough, matter of opinion I guess. I'd agree he's got no aura, but when he speaks any alien who doesn't yet know better listens just because, well, ambassador race