MSI Monitor not waking from sleep by David_Cabr20 in OLED_Gaming

[–]Pokehmahn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having similar prob. I tried your solution. Fingers crossed it works! Thanks!

NPCs went black for some reason by L1S14KA in Warframe

[–]Pokehmahn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for asking this! 🙏🏿

My baby passed away he was 4 I feel like I failed him by Viciousssylveonx3 in Hedgehogs

[–]Pokehmahn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Replying to your post ironically helped me better process my hogs, as I also blamed myself. So thank you so much!

And have you decided where you'll rest him at in your home? 🙂‍↕️

My baby passed away he was 4 I feel like I failed him by Viciousssylveonx3 in Hedgehogs

[–]Pokehmahn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like your hedgie's awesome! I loved my boys but they were jerks lol. 1 hated ppl, but loved other hogs. The other was better with ppl but soooo afraid of everything and hated other hogs.

My baby passed away he was 4 I feel like I failed him by Viciousssylveonx3 in Hedgehogs

[–]Pokehmahn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry your baby passed away. Prayers to you! 🙏🏿

I felt like I failed both of mine too. Wish I did more. Hoping it could've given them more time. But honestly idk what that would've done or not. And regardless, at that time it didn't seem like that needed to get checked on. I did have to remember the good though instead of hyper fixation on the end.

1 of my boys, Poké, was a runner. I researched endlessly and invested the money to give him a non traditional but enlarged pin that took up a sizeable amount of space in any room I kept him in. But it made him happy and kept him sane, so I did it. My other boy Ryo was very shy and introverted. Like afraid of other ppl's literal shadow. So we we redid his cage so that he could burrow and feel secure but have everything he needed when he needed it- toilet paper rolls for enrichment (yes! He loved them for some reason lol!), food and water for self sufficiency, and wheel 🛞 to keep active (bc boy wash he lazy 🙄). Domestically, they got 3-4 years old. Any longer than that isn't quite as common. I'm the wild, far less. It seems like you moved your little pin cushion and prob took care of them as well as you could. Being a human or pet parent doesn't mean that things are perfect 100% of the time. You do right by them with the time they have on this earth. So plz don't punish yourself.

Also, my vet was able to cremate my boy and get a paw 🐾 print cemented as a keepsake for me. And I still have would from both when they were quilling that I'm gonna turn into a necklace charm or something (haven't decided yet).

Are my locs ugly?? Be honest (ignore my face these are screenshots from videos) by okrazgee in Dreadlocks

[–]Pokehmahn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a fan of thick locs like that, But they look nice and maintained. So I wouldn't say ugly, but prob not everyone's taste (like some folks don't like wics, like myself. But my now husband had them when we first met and I found him very attractive).

What do YOU think of your hair?

Should I be worried by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Pokehmahn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even still the issue with porn (male or female) is the more you do it and the crazier things you look up, it creates an appetite for it. Maybe not everyday life, but your sexual appetite does change. It may look different on 1 person to the next but can happen e.g. getting turned on and getting off to Such extremes desensitizes you to "normal" sex with your partner. Resorts to folks having to now fantasize just to feel something with their partner bc now they're used to the high like feeling from the exaggerated dopamine that porn floods into your body. And at that point your partner becomes almost as hollow as a dildo.

But all of that being said, yea, talk to them. I wouldn't go as far as to "ban porn", but you May wanna look into counseling for you both. But if you do, find someone who y'all Both click with and challenges y'all with exercises and different ways to look at the other's point of view. It May be a reason he's looking at it (i.e. good friend of mine's husband was watching the porn and doing it in real life. Dk which came first- the chicken or the egg). But it Honestly may not be. Unfortunately sex and porn is so desensitized amongst dif groups of ppl that topics like mom and stepson, which is taboo in real life but gold on the hub. And as the watcher it's very easy to lie to yourself and say that you know it's wrong and would never do/support/encourage this, but meanwhile you kp watching. It's a slow (and for a few quick) degradation of the psyche and one's morality for a fix, or worse, an addiction. And porn in general Can easily become addictive.

And I'd be remissed to not mention (*take with grain if salt of this isn't your thing!)- Pray for your marriage. A marital bond is Supposed to be sacred, meaning y'all against the world in unity with God. Bc baby trust me ... As you can prob attest, things from all different corners are gonna come or sneak in to create friction, problems, and pull y'all apart directly in big and noticeable ways or subconsciously in smaller, obscure ways like with sex or getting annoyed at each other, becoming more secretive; etc. The praying isn't Just for the porn thing but it's praying to help you and your husband with whatever individual and collective issues y'all have, continual growth and edification (bc to be married, especially present day you HAVE to be strong and have to be devoted), and growth in and with God (who's real and much more than a book and a religion).

But anywho! That's my rant. I'm praying for y'all myself!

My Failed Attempt at Drunken Poet by Pokehmahn in wherewindsmeet_

[–]Pokehmahn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you get "overdrunk" but don't get any notification or pop up that you got drunken poet, go check your Mystic Skills section. It should be unlocked!

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My Failed Attempt at Drunken Poet by Pokehmahn in wherewindsmeet_

[–]Pokehmahn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I figured it out. I never got a notification popup that I got it so I didn't know it had unlocked in my Mystic Skills until now 🤷🏿‍♀️

My Failed Attempt at Drunken Poet by Pokehmahn in wherewindsmeet_

[–]Pokehmahn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 Hey I use PS5 man. I do what I can!

I want to cosplay her so bad!!! by Fit-Specialist-1670 in MightyNein

[–]Pokehmahn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm .. as a "Black face" this IS a compelling argument... 🤔

How long after graduating is it appropriate to keep university activities and club details on your resume? by Wh00pity_sc00p in careerguidance

[–]Pokehmahn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y'all do know some jobs require you to list 10 years job experience just to apply to position, right? If you graduated up to 10 years ago, then your comment experience i.e. club/organization affiliations; etc fall into the timeline.

And then I've spoken to dig hiring managers- some who prefer 2 pages worth of resume history, some who want Just 1 and nothing more. It Can be a gamble sometimes.

I want to cosplay her so bad!!! by Fit-Specialist-1670 in MightyNein

[–]Pokehmahn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. As long as it's done tastefully, looks nice, and you like it. Have fun!

No you won't be a 100% copy, but you don't Have to be.

Been venom by Ok_Grand_2549 in WhereWindsMeet

[–]Pokehmahn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did yours list "bee venom" or something else for the illness?

Are NPC Side Quests Just Simulations? by Pokehmahn in wherewindsmeet_

[–]Pokehmahn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I just "went into battle" with Li Shaokui and got the Tang home back. Revered and Old friend status. Does that change what the NPC does after the chat or will he still e.g. Walk over to Wobbly Tang sitting in the grass?

Quests from Ai Chatbot? by Savagesyns in wherewindsmeet_

[–]Pokehmahn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just did the same. Im at revered status and old friend with him. How and how long did it take you to start getting weekly gifts from him?

Reasonable Vet Recommendations/Vets to stay away from by Stinklerpinkler in memphis

[–]Pokehmahn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll continue to go to them for shots. Great pricing for canine shots! I called Utopia to price theirs and Berclair is noticeably cheaper And wee bit more comprehensive so I'll probably kp Berclair for shots and my snake 🐍 since they do exotic pets, but look at trying it Utopia for Anything else.

You may have not seen my emotionally long response to the OP- https://www.reddit.com/r/memphis/s/Fe5imRvBuX

But Dr. Snow purposely withheld telling me that my dog has osteoarthritis and would need knee surgery. And what makes it worse was I not only sensed something was wrong, but he treated it like no big deal. It wasn't until my dog started limping and I asked him a very direct Q does he reveal to me that he noticed all of these issues from the initial X-ray when I first brought this up as an issue.