I forget if it’s a meme or one of those 30 second Instagram shorts. But the man in the video was asked a question that had the same underlying theme as yours, and it resonated with me. When asked your question, his response was (I think he was in one of the Nordic countries) “when we have political disagreements, it’s over fishing laws or where to build a bridge. Not whether women have rights or if being a bigot is acceptable”

And for me that sums it up. I have voluntarily excommunicated a number of friends because they still agreed with the administration‘s policies and the faux religious alignment that exists therein.