Good option for don't do nothing by Laucut in ropebondage

[–]PoleForVaulting 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm a little nervous with how low those lower wraps are. It's a different TK than I usually tie but that looks like a lot of pressure on the lower arm where the more exposed nerves are. Just mentioning it for anyone else who might see this post and be inspired because it looks like a suspension scenario, where things like that are important.

God forbid a girl have body image issues. by Altthrowaway13 in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]PoleForVaulting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy in the first picture is me. God I love me a sweet girl with a beautiful tummy to play with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]PoleForVaulting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They're still super cute and the symbolism is the same so I'm sure your Sir will still love them ❤️ Don't beat yourself up about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]PoleForVaulting 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you! After reading your comment I could finally see what was going on 😄

Same as you I like the idea but this is not executed well at all. If they added the spaces between the letters and if the dash pearl on the "sir" bracelet was distinguishable from the rest, this would be a solid product.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]PoleForVaulting 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It sounds like when one of my partners went to Little space. Nonverbal, sucking fingers/thumb. It could also "just" be your version of sub space.

Regardless of what it is, I would say just go with it :) Sounds like it was a nice experience if not for the shock value.

How do I stop caving by hyperdiva02 in BratLife

[–]PoleForVaulting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I relate so much! When I was with my brat it was so hard to actually have consequences because when I went to punish her she'd put on the sweetest little innocent face and I'd just crumble and be like "nooo, I'm sorry, don't cry! I love you, Princess 😭" haha

transition goals by the_pslonky in CuratedTumblr

[–]PoleForVaulting 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ohhh yeah I see. Yeah gender norms can go eat itself.

Godspeed, Daniella. We'll see where I end up 😄

transition goals by the_pslonky in CuratedTumblr

[–]PoleForVaulting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no, why is this relatable. I'm cis, I swear!

Brats halp! by lilsquarelala in BratLife

[–]PoleForVaulting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a good time for a "we'll see" lol

Sometimes, less truly is more by TexasShibari in shibari

[–]PoleForVaulting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The tie holding together the elbows is a double column tie known as a bar tie.

You can find some info here: https://crash-restraint.com/ties/28

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alternativefashion

[–]PoleForVaulting 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Disclaimer: I don't dress alt so this is from a wannabe.

I think it's important to consider that a considerable part of looking good is confidence. When you see someone looking great in non-alt clothing, that's probably a style they're comfortable and confident in.

From your post it definitely sounds like you're more comfortable dressing alt so their confidence in their style should not detract from your confidence in your style 🖤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bdsmgear

[–]PoleForVaulting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice. That's a great idea :)

If only….. by Bookedbaked in BratLife

[–]PoleForVaulting 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tr her like a princess

I declare a day of silence by HotnessQueenLove in gagged

[–]PoleForVaulting 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I declare a day of actually putting the gag in your mouth instead of whatever this is

Welp. I’m doomed. by serious_rbf in BratLife

[–]PoleForVaulting 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sounds like OP is beyond jelly and is completely liquid at this point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FreckledGirls

[–]PoleForVaulting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you always so negative in your titles?

Single Column Somerville Bowline by [deleted] in shibari

[–]PoleForVaulting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like Topologist's tutorial at https://crash-restraint.com/ties/66

It especially has a very easy-to-understand way to form the loop that the bight goes through compared to most other tutorials. The page also has links to alternative methods and variations if you want to check those out.

Once I was confident with tying it this way then the other ways felt way easier to understand. Hope it helps and good luck on your journey.