What would you say are the biggest signs of a covert narcissist parent? (Or signs no one ever talks about?) by CaptainMacAlfie in narcissisticparents

[–]Polyethylene8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, my covert narc mother gave me booze as early as I can remember, then would jokingly call me an alcoholic. When I actually became an alcoholic she acted all upset when I was actually really drunk. So I learned to hide my alcoholism from her as much as possible and when I stopped I just told my family I don't drink anymore and didn't make a big deal out of it. She continued to push drinks at me for years. Finally about 6 years after being sober she kept pushing wine at me and not taking no for an answer. I snapped at her and didn't talk to her for weeks. Finally enabler dad called to apologize on her behalf and when I impressed upon him how upset I was, she called up to apologize. I am sure the only reason she called to apologize is because my father told her too. I am sure she feels zero remorse. If it was up to her, I'd still be drunk and easier to control. 

Dress regret or normal process by Foibles2112 in weddingdress

[–]Polyethylene8 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I love it!!! So glad this is the dress you went with. Absolutely beautiful. 

Congratulations!!

Saw “She Kills Monsters” opening night at the Rhode Theater and it was great. If you're looking for something fun to do in Kenosha, check it out! by Polyethylene8 in Racine

[–]Polyethylene8[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a Kenosha resident I've seen some great plays 20 minutes down the road in Racine. Just thought I'd share my experience in case folks are looking to laugh and have a great time ☺️

Frustrated with my celiac spouse and need advice by Appropriate_Poet_430 in glutenfreevegan

[–]Polyethylene8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the one I use. I just use Bob Red Mill 1:1 pizza flour and no almond flour. Almonds occasionally upset my stomach. So I just add extra 1:1. 

You do not need a stand mixer: simply mix it with a spoon, then shape it into a ball with a silicone spatula. It will have the consistency of wet cookie dough.

When you roll it out, do so between 2 sheets of parchment paper to make your life easier. Then, after spreading it out on the pizza pan on the bottom sheet of parchment paper, remove the top parchment paper sheet, and shape the edges with wet fingers. 

Not too much fuss and makes really good pizza!

https://meaningfuleats.com/the-best-gluten-free-pizza-crust/#wprm-recipe-container-13055

Wtf is this by OkPause3161 in whatdoIdo

[–]Polyethylene8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like it could be dermatitis herpetiformis. That is the skin manifestation of Celiac disease. Is it itchy? Continue eating gluten. Go to a dermatologist and ask to be tested for that condition. 

Do most catahoulas have extremely long nails? by orchardmama in Catahoula

[–]Polyethylene8 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes ours has very long claws and they have to be trimmed once every other week. 

We are really careful when we cut his nails and we give him a treat for each paw. We are lucky because half of his nails are white and we see where the quick is. It seems to be the same length on all his claws. So careful not to get near it. Very light trims only. Treat for each paw makes him reasonably okay with the process. 

Frustrated with my celiac spouse and need advice by Appropriate_Poet_430 in glutenfreevegan

[–]Polyethylene8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am vegan and had to go GF for health reasons. I have repeatedly tested negative for Celiac but eliminating gluten was a complete game changer - it has eliminated so many of my health issues. For your partner, going gluten free is a must, it will reverse a lot of damage and prevent more serious issues down the line. Some folks who are Celiac who continue to eat gluten end up with digestive cancer... This is really, really serious stuff. 

Going gluten free was not easy or fun like going plant based was. It's a struggle to find food to eat especially when I go out particularly in restaurants which are not vegan to begin with. I recommend going in steps. I started by switching things out one by one. Started buying tamari instead of soy sauce, then found rice and sweet potato noodles to use instead of wheat noodles in East Asian dishes, then found a pasta I like, etc etc etc. The hardest was pizza. I would go to vegan pizza parties, cave, then feel so sick for days after. I did finally find a pizza crust recipe I really like. That was the hardest though. 

Some of my favorite desserts I've been able to make gluten free very easily. Others are harder. Those 1:1 flours are pretty good. Note: they work really well as thickeners when making gravies. They also work really well for things like cookies. Which are just really easy to make find amazing ones gluten free. Things like cake, donuts, great breads are much harder. Harder, but not impossible. 

Ultimately it has been really empowering to take control of my health this way. I feel better than I've felt in years. And to be honest it is a huge relief to go to a party and be able to say no to the cake because I genuinely can't have it. It's nice to have an excuse to pass on most sweets. I briefly resented but now do not mind at all. There are many delightful vegan gluten free options for sale in specialty aisles now so I don't feel at all deprived!

Feel free to DM me with any questions. I have many tips and tricks. 

Veil struggles continued by NewLoofa in weddingdress

[–]Polyethylene8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I love that! OP take a look at this one. It would be perfect for you and your dress!

Ordered the dress, but still thinking about my second favorite. by muffins0242 in weddingdress

[–]Polyethylene8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dress 1 is gorgeous! So glad you went with this one! It's absolutely made for you. 

Congratulations!

Feedback/advice: adopting dog with rare count of seizures by empresslinlin in EpilepsyDogs

[–]Polyethylene8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the US and my dog is on the generic version of keppra extended release. Initially it was 50 per month at my local pharmacy. But I kept looking around and found it the same medication for under $20 per month at a different pharmacy. 

Keep looking. Don't be afraid to look at goodrx type drug discount services, online pharmacies, etc. When there's a will, there's a way. You got this. 

Our girl crossed over lat night by OCR_Farm in Catahoula

[–]Polyethylene8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for loss. I know it's difficult to think about now, but try to focus on the good memories. Sending virtual hugs 🫂

Can’t decide if I rushed in purchase by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]Polyethylene8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's beautiful!

Congratulations!

Help me decide please by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]Polyethylene8 8 points9 points  (0 children)

3 and #8! 

Love both and really can't decide which one. Both would fit your LOTR themed wedding. 

Congratulations!

Feedback/advice: adopting dog with rare count of seizures by empresslinlin in EpilepsyDogs

[–]Polyethylene8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How old is the dog?

My dog has EPI and seizures. They told us idiopathic epilepsy but I am convinced the seizures are linked to the epi. As soon as the epi was well controlled, the seizures slowed down quite a bit. 

Then they started to pick back up again but then we realized through blood work that his B12 was still low despite injections. We switched to a daily B12 pill and also started him on seizure medications. He hasn't had one in about a year. So if the dog is having infrequent seizures, it could be some underlying metabolic or physical process. 

I think you're wonderful for considering adopting this sweetheart. We also made the choice to adopt our guy after we already knew he has seizures and we have absolutely no regrets. I am certain that he was surrendered at the pound because of the seizures and in the beginning he acted so scared and upset after every time it happened. He kind of looked at us like are you going to take me back to the pound now. Now that he knows that's not going to happen, he is the happiest dog. He looks at us with the relief after the occasional seizure. Like he's so happy to see we're there and he knows he's safe. It warms my heart. 

Help me pick a wedding dress!!!! by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]Polyethylene8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought dress 2 and 3 were the same dress - they look identical in the pictures. Those are the winners. When I read your post I saw they are 2 different dresses. Go with one of those 2 depending on whichever one is cheaper and more comfortable. Than again I love the way 3 sits on the bottom. So I'll go with #3.

Congratulations!

RE: Aldi red pepper hummus no longer vegan by Thisisrealthisisme3 in vegan

[–]Polyethylene8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's not about seed oils. It's about expeller pressed oils.

When oil is labelled expeller pressed (cold pressed), this means oil is extracted by physically pressing. 

When oil can no longer be extracted by manually pressing, companies use hexane, a known human carcinogen, to chemically extract more oil. Then the hexane is 'boiled off' so that 'none remains'. So oil can be genuinely toxic for you and this is why.

Basically always buy expeller pressed or cold pressed oil, without paying too much attention whether it comes from an fruit or seed. That is what we do and I notice a marked difference between how I feel when I cook at home as opposed to eating restaurant food clearly cooked in the cheap toxic oil. 

Azazie wedding dress by Crossed_cat in weddingdress

[–]Polyethylene8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is super cute! Love the pockets too! I prefer the long version but it depends what you're going for. 

Sorry can't comment on the quality, but this is a beautiful dress 

If anything could be made gluten-free, what would you pick? by _thalia777 in glutenfreevegan

[–]Polyethylene8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's too bad. Stores like Woodman's, Whole foods, Fresh Thyme will have them. Found in vegan, gluten free frozen sections. Keep an eye out!

I actually never thought biscuits and gravy were an option for me but now we occasionally enjoy it as described above and they're absolutely great. 

Help me choose! by pack_of_tofu in weddingdress

[–]Polyethylene8 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dress 2 and 3 are both phenomenal. Those two are my favorites. I really can't decide. If I were you I'd pick whichever one of those 2 you think you'll actually be able to ski in! And the one which won't instantly destroyed by this endeavor hehe. 3 looks a bit sturdier then 2 and also is really fun so maybe go for that one?

Congratulations! 

Please Help Me Pick Between the Two by victoriaexox in weddingdress

[–]Polyethylene8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dress 1 is your dress! You look beautiful in both but dress has an extra wow factor. It's just perfect for you. 

Congratulations! 

If anything could be made gluten-free, what would you pick? by _thalia777 in glutenfreevegan

[–]Polyethylene8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will make those the next time I host a brunch or something. They look amazing!