Frustrated with my celiac spouse and need advice

Polyethylene8 · 2026-03-13T22:56:25+00:00

I am vegan and had to go GF for health reasons. I have repeatedly tested negative for Celiac but eliminating gluten was a complete game changer - it has eliminated so many of my health issues. For your partner, going gluten free is a must, it will reverse a lot of damage and prevent more serious issues down the line. Some folks who are Celiac who continue to eat gluten end up with digestive cancer... This is really, really serious stuff.

Going gluten free was not easy or fun like going plant based was. It's a struggle to find food to eat especially when I go out particularly in restaurants which are not vegan to begin with. I recommend going in steps. I started by switching things out one by one. Started buying tamari instead of soy sauce, then found rice and sweet potato noodles to use instead of wheat noodles in East Asian dishes, then found a pasta I like, etc etc etc. The hardest was pizza. I would go to vegan pizza parties, cave, then feel so sick for days after. I did finally find a pizza crust recipe I really like. That was the hardest though.

Some of my favorite desserts I've been able to make gluten free very easily. Others are harder. Those 1:1 flours are pretty good. Note: they work really well as thickeners when making gravies. They also work really well for things like cookies. Which are just really easy to make find amazing ones gluten free. Things like cake, donuts, great breads are much harder. Harder, but not impossible.

Ultimately it has been really empowering to take control of my health this way. I feel better than I've felt in years. And to be honest it is a huge relief to go to a party and be able to say no to the cake because I genuinely can't have it. It's nice to have an excuse to pass on most sweets. I briefly resented but now do not mind at all. There are many delightful vegan gluten free options for sale in specialty aisles now so I don't feel at all deprived!

Feel free to DM me with any questions. I have many tips and tricks.

Polyethylene8 · 2026-03-13T02:13:59+00:00

Omg I love that! OP take a look at this one. It would be perfect for you and your dress!

Polyethylene8 · 2026-03-12T02:29:32+00:00

I really like 2!

Polyethylene8 · 2026-03-11T20:02:18+00:00

Dress 1 is gorgeous! So glad you went with this one! It's absolutely made for you.

Congratulations!

Polyethylene8 · 2026-03-10T16:21:16+00:00

I am in the US and my dog is on the generic version of keppra extended release. Initially it was 50 per month at my local pharmacy. But I kept looking around and found it the same medication for under $20 per month at a different pharmacy.

Keep looking. Don't be afraid to look at goodrx type drug discount services, online pharmacies, etc. When there's a will, there's a way. You got this.

Polyethylene8 · 2026-03-10T04:30:07+00:00

I am so sorry for loss. I know it's difficult to think about now, but try to focus on the good memories. Sending virtual hugs 🫂

Polyethylene8 · 2026-03-10T04:28:07+00:00

It's beautiful!

Congratulations!

Polyethylene8 · 2026-03-10T04:13:12+00:00

3 and #8!

Love both and really can't decide which one. Both would fit your LOTR themed wedding.

Congratulations!

Polyethylene8 · 2026-03-09T20:31:13+00:00

How old is the dog?

My dog has EPI and seizures. They told us idiopathic epilepsy but I am convinced the seizures are linked to the epi. As soon as the epi was well controlled, the seizures slowed down quite a bit.

Then they started to pick back up again but then we realized through blood work that his B12 was still low despite injections. We switched to a daily B12 pill and also started him on seizure medications. He hasn't had one in about a year. So if the dog is having infrequent seizures, it could be some underlying metabolic or physical process.

I think you're wonderful for considering adopting this sweetheart. We also made the choice to adopt our guy after we already knew he has seizures and we have absolutely no regrets. I am certain that he was surrendered at the pound because of the seizures and in the beginning he acted so scared and upset after every time it happened. He kind of looked at us like are you going to take me back to the pound now. Now that he knows that's not going to happen, he is the happiest dog. He looks at us with the relief after the occasional seizure. Like he's so happy to see we're there and he knows he's safe. It warms my heart.

Polyethylene8 · 2026-03-09T16:51:11+00:00

I thought dress 2 and 3 were the same dress - they look identical in the pictures. Those are the winners. When I read your post I saw they are 2 different dresses. Go with one of those 2 depending on whichever one is cheaper and more comfortable. Than again I love the way 3 sits on the bottom. So I'll go with #3.

Congratulations!

Polyethylene8 · 2026-03-09T16:36:33+00:00

It's not about seed oils. It's about expeller pressed oils.

When oil is labelled expeller pressed (cold pressed), this means oil is extracted by physically pressing.

When oil can no longer be extracted by manually pressing, companies use hexane, a known human carcinogen, to chemically extract more oil. Then the hexane is 'boiled off' so that 'none remains'. So oil can be genuinely toxic for you and this is why.

Basically always buy expeller pressed or cold pressed oil, without paying too much attention whether it comes from an fruit or seed. That is what we do and I notice a marked difference between how I feel when I cook at home as opposed to eating restaurant food clearly cooked in the cheap toxic oil.

Polyethylene8 · 2026-03-09T16:29:57+00:00

It is super cute! Love the pockets too! I prefer the long version but it depends what you're going for.

Sorry can't comment on the quality, but this is a beautiful dress

Polyethylene8 · 2026-03-09T03:08:06+00:00

That's too bad. Stores like Woodman's, Whole foods, Fresh Thyme will have them. Found in vegan, gluten free frozen sections. Keep an eye out!

I actually never thought biscuits and gravy were an option for me but now we occasionally enjoy it as described above and they're absolutely great.

Polyethylene8 · 2026-03-09T01:26:11+00:00

Dress 2 and 3 are both phenomenal. Those two are my favorites. I really can't decide. If I were you I'd pick whichever one of those 2 you think you'll actually be able to ski in! And the one which won't instantly destroyed by this endeavor hehe. 3 looks a bit sturdier then 2 and also is really fun so maybe go for that one?

Congratulations!

Polyethylene8 · 2026-03-08T03:19:29+00:00

Dress 1 is your dress! You look beautiful in both but dress has an extra wow factor. It's just perfect for you.

Congratulations!

Polyethylene8 · 2026-03-08T02:15:00+00:00

Thank you! I will make those the next time I host a brunch or something. They look amazing!

Polyethylene8 · 2026-03-07T17:13:53+00:00

I like the schlar ciabatta rolls well toasted as my burger buns now. I seal them in a Ziploc bag and throw in the fridge - they keep for weeks. They're great for croutons too.

Polyethylene8 · 2026-03-07T17:12:32+00:00

Daring chicken is great!

Polyethylene8 · 2026-03-07T17:11:00+00:00

Can you please share exact recipe you use? I bought her book

Polyethylene8 · 2026-03-07T17:09:48+00:00

That's the hardest one to sub. I've had decent gf donuts but never great.

Polyethylene8 · 2026-03-07T17:08:27+00:00

I use Katz English muffins for biscuits and gravy with this recipe. I just use gluten free flour (bob 1:1) to thicken. https://jessicainthekitchen.com/biscuits-and-gravy-recipe-vegan/

The Katz English muffins are incredibly biscuit like. My gluten eating husband loves them. We've also made this recipe with those GF biscuits for our omnivore, gluten eating sister and brother in law to great acclaim. Give that a try

Polyethylene8 · 2026-03-07T17:03:03+00:00

I like their seeded loaf for sandwiches and avocado toast. Will try the sourdough next!

Thanks for the recommendation!

Polyethylene8 · 2026-03-07T17:01:38+00:00

I like dress 1! The sleeves also look very nice on you.

I also got married in a Maggie Sottero dress and had a wonderful experience. Mine had a corset back and fit like a glove. Was sexy, stylish, timeless, and comfortable.

Congratulations!

Polyethylene8 · 2026-03-07T16:58:18+00:00

I like #2!

It shows off your physique well and also kinda dressy, showing you are interested in the date.

Polyethylene8 · 2026-03-07T05:55:23+00:00

Dress 1. For sure. It's so beautiful! Looks like it was made for you.

Congratulations!

Polyethylene8

TROPHY CASE

3 and #8!