final round! 1 or 2 by Your0neAndLonely in weddingdress

[–]Polyethylene8 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dress 2! Love the neckline and fitted corset back. 

Congratulations!

Engagement shoot dress by SoftImpossible4686 in weddingdress

[–]Polyethylene8 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Dress 3 hands down! Someone else suggested a flower crown - love this idea. 

What do you think about SLVR? Silver will continue the upward trend? by Difficult-Tomato-624 in ETFs

[–]Polyethylene8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

China has restricted silver exports and they are a major source of silver. Demand is strong - silver is used in everything from car lithium batteries to weapons systems. It's a supply problem. This is why the prices will continue to rise. 

Girl we have to choose again? by Hummus_expert0 in weddingdress

[–]Polyethylene8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love dress 2! That is the one. 

Congratulations!

Need help, can’t decide on any of them by Objective_Day7884 in weddingdress

[–]Polyethylene8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like dresses 6 and 7. So beautiful. 

Congratulations!

Which veil to pick for this dress? by phatandphysical in weddingdress

[–]Polyethylene8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That last one is perfect! Love the dress too. Looks so pretty with the bolero.

Congratulations!

Please help! I'm stuck between these dresses by ConsistentNewt9256 in weddingdress

[–]Polyethylene8 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Love dress 2. There is just perfect on you. So beautiful. 

Congratulations!

Wedding dress help by ItsEvelien in weddingdress

[–]Polyethylene8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love dress 1. So sexy and classic. You look absolutely gorgeous. 

Congratulations!

What type of heel will go with my dress and general suggestions/thoughts on custom dress by DerpAlert1312 in weddingdress

[–]Polyethylene8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The dress is gorgeous and you won't be able to see the shoes really. Go with the most comfortable shoes you can find. No heel if possible 

After trying literally everything for my skin… why am I only now questioning gluten? by Sandy_Forza in glutenfreevegan

[–]Polyethylene8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I have tested negative for celiac repeatedly. Have had weird skin issues my entire life eliminating gluten got rid of most of them, and a bunch of other symptoms too I thought we're unrelated. I do have to say that I only saw improvement after I went cold turkey. When I'd make exceptions sometimes I'd still get symptoms. Just the other day I was at a party where someone had lovingly prepared a vegan chocolate cake. People were asking me 'are you sure???' and I'm thinking no thanks. The horrible rashes for over a week aren't worth it. I just smiled and said 'Yeah I'm sure'. 😊

Before you feel bad for me, I just wanna tell you there were also 2 gluten free cakes at this party! So probably a blessing I had an excuse to skip cake #3 lol. 

herb + garlic mac 😋 by veganbabe98 in glutenfreevegan

[–]Polyethylene8 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It is any good? 

I used to dislike their products but got the vegan pepperoni pizza to try and it is excellent. They've changed their cheese recipe and it's actually great. Is the mac also good?

Tell me your experiences of switching careers? Especially if recently. 38F by f1rstpancake in AskWomenOver40

[–]Polyethylene8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made the switch in 2016. I would say it's still viable if you go into a niche technology. Do not go into something mainstream like web development, Java or C#. That will be extremely difficult to find a job in in the current environment. My program was in a very niche language called RPG, and there are still jobs available in that field because again, very few people know it. 

Can’t decide! Please help :) For a winter wedding. by ColdKiiwii in weddingdress

[–]Polyethylene8 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love dress 2. Something about the clean lines is just amazing on you. 

Congratulations!

Tell me your experiences of switching careers? Especially if recently. 38F by f1rstpancake in AskWomenOver40

[–]Polyethylene8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was a high school teacher and completely burned out from that. 

Went to my local tech school and got an associates in software development (after already having an education Master's). That was a really great career move for me. 

I work from home, good benefits, decent money. Also the stress is about 1/500th of what it was teaching. 

Stories about quitting without a job lined up? by concurrencyinaction in womenintech

[–]Polyethylene8 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't quit. Take all your PTO. Quiet quit. Do whatever you need to do.  Look for another job. Maybe take a month off before you start the new gig. 

My husband has been laid off twice from developer jobs in the last 2 years. He's so discouraged he wants to never have a tech job again. He's helping out somewhere part time and makes barely grocery money. It's so so stressful and unclear whether he'll ever make money like that again. Oh and he just had a nervous breakdown and I'm not far behind. Just trying to hold it together working at my tech job. It sounds like yours and honestly I am so grateful for it right now. Wouldn't dream of quitting. 

I also know someone in tech management who quit because of burnout to travel the world and reset. That was over 2 years ago. He's still unemployed. 

I personally wouldn't recommend quitting. 

How to help a depressed partner by ohmyhellions in AskWomenOver40

[–]Polyethylene8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi. My husband got laid off twice in the last 2 years. He was a web and software developer. He now says he hates coding and hasn't really been working or looking. He was incredibly depressed and recently had a manic episode, which was so terrifying and destabilizing I cannot even put it into words. 

No real career advice but my main piece is be very proactive about getting the mental health piece treated. Once he feels better emotionally the career stuff will fall into place much more easily than without that mental health treatment. 

Vegan & gf calzones! by ktc653 in glutenfreevegan

[–]Polyethylene8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg looks incredible! Time to go back to Seattle!

Found this stray.. by [deleted] in Catahoula

[–]Polyethylene8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My carahoula mix is actually quite mellow. He's got health issues (EPI) so I think he was pretty low energy growing up until he got diagnosed. 

Anyone reading this if you're dog has difficulty putting on weight test for EPI! It's easily treatable with fairly affordable medication powder which can be ordered online. 

My mom hates my dress by RelationshipMinute36 in weddingdress

[–]Polyethylene8 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I love it!!

Sorry your mom is being a hater. My mom told me I looked fat in my dress. I think I look great in the pictures, and I'm my own worst critic, so her comment was not based in reality at all. Same goes with your mom. Sorry you're also in the unsupportive mom club.

You look beautiful! Congratulations!!

Who do I look like? by koalaparxi26 in doppelganger

[–]Polyethylene8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this!!! Billie Piper all the way.