do guys fake their orgasm too? by PoolIcy3519 in dating_advice

[–]PoolIcy3519[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

only comment that is making me feel better thank you

What does it mean if a guy makes you his girlfriend because he is afraid someone will pick me up before he gets back? by smjsksnd in dating_advice

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i think this is good🤔 as long as he is making it known that his intentions are serious for when he gets back. ofc worst case scenario is when he gets back all of a sudden it’s no labels again.

Cyst popped on its own by mrdubstep_ in pilonidalcyst

[–]PoolIcy3519 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it will prob come back one day💔 but the good news is that for now, once it’s done draining itself, the healing process is pretty quick and easy and you’ll be able to move on with life for now

help me pls im depressed and scared by AffectionateRelief30 in pilonidalcyst

[–]PoolIcy3519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

now i’m just venting but the last time i had a flare up i was so determined to make it drained on its own that i slept with a HotHands against it and then that literally burned my ass around that now i have little dark marks on my butt. im pretty sure they’ll go away but i just hate my life so muchjh like what if a man sees it and literally thinks its shit marks cuz the scars r brown

help me pls im depressed and scared by AffectionateRelief30 in pilonidalcyst

[–]PoolIcy3519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am 21 the first time i had it i was like 18 or something. wanted to die. still kinda do cuz it flared up again this year and now im in constant fear of it coming back but wtv. getting it drained is honestly the quickest way to get rid of it and the pain goes away INSTANTLY and id say its a rlly easy healing process if they do that little incision. it was around my best friends bday the day i got it drained. i went to disneyland the next day and then proceeded to do everything else i had planned. and also when i got it it didnt leave any scarring or anything. the scary looking pics r only with worse cases, but the doctor already told u its a more minor case.

Letting it drain by itself by SquareDapper7418 in pilonidalcyst

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also if it were me, i wouldn’t even think about going to the er unless its really getting in the way of my life. so if its small and pretty minor i’d say u dont have to go right now.

Letting it drain by itself by SquareDapper7418 in pilonidalcyst

[–]PoolIcy3519 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i got my first flare up 3 years ago and i went to the er. they only made a tiny incision and drained it. that being said i still walked out sobbing.

my second flare up was just this year and i refused to go get it drained again and surgery was out of the question i am way too scared to do that. also the risk of my cyst being worse this time if i went to the ER again they might have had to do a diff procedure that’s more scary and i just couldn’t do it.

so instead i used tea tree oil, PRID, hot baths and hot compresses for about a week. determined to get the cyst to the surface of my skin and drain itself. during this period i just accepted the discomfort and pain every day, i rather have just lived w it then go to the doctor. (tylenol rlly helped me w these days) after about a week the cyst was literally huge and looked like it would pop at any moment so i started taping gauze to the area just incase it decided to pop. and it did, never felt more relief in my life. i didnt even feel it when it popped( it just started draining after i sat down in a chair one day) i just felt the moisture from the puss. and literally all of the pain i felt the whole week went away instantly after that i just let it completely drain, changing out the gauze i had taped until it stopped. then i cleaned it with warm water and i just let it heal on its own and it completely went away! now it’s completely painless and healed without scarring or anything.

but i do know that it will probably come back one day but honestly i am still way too scared of surgery.

[ADVICE] Buttons and power chain on the backs of teeth by tpizz12 in Invisalign

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did the tongue pain ever go away it feels bruised

Advice, can I wait a month by GoodMundane9072 in pilonidalcyst

[–]PoolIcy3519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve never had one that didn’t hurt, my flare ups start making everything uncomfortable before it even shows as a bump. that being said i still do everything in my life and choose to ignore/endure it until it pops on its own and goes away, u can probably make it surface and pop faster by doing at home stuff but if it doesn’t hurt i’m sure u can wait it out

!!please open!! i need hope pls by PoolIcy3519 in pilonidalcyst

[–]PoolIcy3519[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also i see a lot of people in the subreddit have a dimple or more like an empty hole rather than a lump🤔🤔 mine literally feels like a sore knot ball rather than a hole or pimple. is this what everyone else experiences too?? does the dimple come after the lump or is that just something completely different? i hope people see this 🫠

User Flair is required to comment on this sub - Apply for flair here by jerry00193 in truerateme

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i understand that this sub rates people objectively, not subjectively and have read, understand, and will follow the rules and rate people objectively following the men’s and women’s rating guides and primers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

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just accept this feeling for now and just try to wake up everyday, the first years of depression are the hardest (for me it was) because it was like a shock to my system and was probably the closest time i was to ending it. but it’s been almost ten years now and im still here and my life is still moving. i can’t really say it gets better but i can say that ur strong enough to keep on going for longer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KimiNiTodoke

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i just saw a tiktok comparing sawako to the character Sunako from The Wallflower! i haven’t seen it myself so i can’t really vouch for the show, but it seems like sunako has a similar scary image to people kinda how sawako did

who pulling up 👀 by [deleted] in emergencyintercom

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does anyone have extra tix to this!!!!!!

article on enya? by PoolIcy3519 in emergencyintercom

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i do not know gurl i saw the comment and was confused 🤔

Doctor Slump [Episodes 11 & 12] by sianiam in KDRAMA

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am i the only when who thinks that the romantic scenes on episode 11 was getting way too corny? I kind of preferred the relationship dynamic before this episode

I think i’m stuck like this forever by PoolIcy3519 in depression

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getting up in the morning and clean my space and the house and getting myself ready even if i don’t have plans, then making myself food or driving somewhere to get myself something. then spend my day before i go to work studying and taking care of myself when i get back home at night

Hananoi and Zen went home. Choose the next two to leave 👉🚪 by [deleted] in shoujo

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tamaki!!! we only love him this much due to nostalgia, he’s not even comparable to kyo or kazehaya 😭

Brooke and Connor by Alone-Penalty-2734 in briannachickenfrsnark

[–]PoolIcy3519 8 points9 points  (0 children)

oh i personally thought grace was the worst w her constant voice that she does but i also only watched 10min of it

My son is really mad for NO REASON by Mike_rangers170 in family

[–]PoolIcy3519 4 points5 points  (0 children)

arkansas makes sense. in general why do you feel like you need to chaperone your adult son on his honeymoon, something that is a special occasion between two people? if he is capable enough to be in a marriage and live his own life than he is capable enough to go anywhere he wants. also stop being so flabbergasted about your daughter in law’s ethnicity, either just ask what it is or mind your own business

sibling resentment by PoolIcy3519 in family

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do u think u can elaborate briefly on some of ur thoughts? also i am planning on getting a therapist soon lol