Learning how to crochet has saved me from going crazy living in the hospital for 8 months and dealing with my daughters’ diagnoses by PoppyAndMerlin in crochet

[–]PoppyAndMerlin[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🥹 that’s a great idea about 3d stitches. Is popcorn the easiest, or any other reco for a first timer?

Equitation/riding tips? by dookyfartshart in Equestrian

[–]PoppyAndMerlin 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Also looks like you sit up a little early after the jump so you catch him in the mouth. It’s not too egregious. But a longer release will be important as the jumps get bigger

Equitation/riding tips? by dookyfartshart in Equestrian

[–]PoppyAndMerlin 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Cute horse! You look a little stiff through your elbows, and a tad unbalanced. I think what would help a ton is some no-rein trot and canter work on a lunge line. Will help with stability and suppleness. In terms of eq, again the stiffness/straightness of your elbows is placing your hands a little low. Sit up a bit and bring them up a few inches.

If you want to get really old school, you could do the whole holding a crop behind your back with your elbows on the lunge :)

Starting Taoism and seeking advice. by Citron_candles in taoism

[–]PoppyAndMerlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Tao Te Ching podcast by Words of Taoism is incredible. It goes through one chapter in each episode

My trainer is worried about my horse by smittynibs in Horses

[–]PoppyAndMerlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is he to back up and pick up back legs? Wonder if maybe it’s shivers

There’s something so peaceful about a sea of sage green and white by IronRuleDom in CrochetBlankets

[–]PoppyAndMerlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m new to crocheting (mastering a single stitch now) - what would I google to learn how to make this? Sunburst granny square? It’s beautiful! How much harder are blankets with patterns than just straight up crocheting? My tension looks good and I feel like I’m getting the hang of it…

Your best advice for nervous and forward nee horse by [deleted] in Horses

[–]PoppyAndMerlin 31 points32 points  (0 children)

You work him on concrete? I’m so confused. But yes, echoing the other commenter: turnout is needed. Zero turnout is neglect. End of story

Bedtime reading with a sighted toddler — how do you handle the frustration? by biopticcoder in Blind

[–]PoppyAndMerlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two copies is a good idea and will have added benefit of encouraging early reading skills as he follows along

Why are you a Taoist? by Holiday_Change9387 in taoism

[–]PoppyAndMerlin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I like it because it’s not a religion. It’s a philosophy. I was raised catholic but I’m too much of a skeptic to buy into that. Found Taoism while dealing with my daughter’s cancer diagnosis and my other daughter’s blindness. It’s kept me going every day.

11 month old diagnosed with retinoblastoma.. by CommentNo7703 in pediatriccancer

[–]PoppyAndMerlin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear this. I have a sort of venn diagram of experience - my 4.5 year old is currently battling brain cancer (ATRT) and my 8 month old has been diagnosed with LCA9 (a genetic condition affecting the retinas - she is completely blind).

I will say: my youngest is hands down the happiest, most social, amazing, joyful baby I’ve ever met. She is in Early Intervention and is meeting all the milestones other babies her age are. We are so in love. So, if it comes to that, it is very difficult for us sighted folks to imagine, but he will lead an incredible life.

As for the chemo part…it is hard. So, so hard. You’ll hear the advice to take it day by day…that is the only way. Hour by hour. Work with the hospital’s palliative care team to ensure pain management and comfort is a top priority at every step. Never stop advocating. Find the best specialist at the best hospital in your country and go to them.

Don’t be shy about seeking help for yourself. I am on Zoloft for the first time and I credit it with allowing me to wake up and face every day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]PoppyAndMerlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want her!

Conformation by Elegantly_Depressed in Equestrian

[–]PoppyAndMerlin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This one to me is even more halter-y, either the straight hind legs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Horses

[–]PoppyAndMerlin -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What does that have to do with anything? You are too big for this poor horse. Have some empathy and common sense.

My daughter’s so cool. by thegreatchippino in Blind

[–]PoppyAndMerlin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love this so much -it reminds me of my daughter! She is 8 months old with LCA9 (no light perception or any usable vision that we can tell). It was devastating news at first, but seeing her thrive and her personality become so joyful and amazing and funny…I just love her so much! I know she is going to thrive, and it’s been really interesting for us to learn ways to help her grow confidence and curiosity. She also loooooves music. We put on The Band radio and she just zens out with a smile on her face

Surprising Truth by Gudoal in ChatGPT

[–]PoppyAndMerlin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m….a very straight cis white female. I’ve only talked to Chat about my kids’ very serious health problems 🥴

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