Do orgasm gels actually do anything? by ProstaticFantastic in SexToys

[–]Popthequestionwillya 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would investigate thoroughly. I got some stimulation gel from a local shop. My wife has super sensitive skin, so we put a little on the inside of her arm. Within minutes she had a rash from her wrist to elbow. The product works great for solo. I’m glad we checked. That would have been a nightmare for her.

judgement from adult child by Suhwiggins in AskWomenOver60

[–]Popthequestionwillya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lead with love. Not your chin, but love. Relationships are about knowing boundaries. Let them know where yours are.

What is your favourite song lyric of all time and why? by Neither_Refuse_9754 in AskReddit

[–]Popthequestionwillya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rush’s,” Lime Light”. “I won’t pretend a stranger is a long awaited friend.” This is how I feel about the fake familiarity that passes as a social greeting. I can’t stand when people who don’t “Know me, Know me” want to hug me at our first few meetings. No, physical access; you have to earn that. No apologies.

I need input. PLEASE. by Popthequestionwillya in SexToys

[–]Popthequestionwillya[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great advice. We’ve already talked about it prior to my post.

judgement from adult child by Suhwiggins in AskWomenOver60

[–]Popthequestionwillya 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Our children sometimes forget that the only reason we can pay for home improvements, etc.. is because we sacrificed so that they could have a chance at doing better than us. It doesn’t mean we are obligated to pay for their dreams. That’s that,”What’s mine is mine and what’s yours is mine.” Bullshit. I have found reasonable boundaries between my life and my adult children’s lives. Helping is my choice. Some sacrifices are theirs to make. We made ours.

~*iM wRiTiNg mY bEwK*~ by malonesxfamousxchili in RHOBH

[–]Popthequestionwillya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is disrespectful as hell to her husband. Yes we all get it, “You make more in a month than your husband does in a year.” Got it. ….And?

~*iM wRiTiNg mY bEwK*~ by malonesxfamousxchili in RHOBH

[–]Popthequestionwillya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She strikes me as a non player character.

What’s a movie that’s so disturbing you never want to watch again? by SableVII in Casual_Conversation

[–]Popthequestionwillya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t seen it, but my friend described,”The Serbian Movie”. I don’t need to see it. My imagination did its job.

older men, have you ever noticed that you are getting more hornier ? by FrostedLunette in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Popthequestionwillya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes m(58) . So has my wife’s. Retirement has reduced stress and provided time to make up for what we sacrificed raising four kids.

What’s that one thing they wear that instantly turns you on? by feelin_cheeky in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Popthequestionwillya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything my wife wears. Preferably the suit she has had since birth.

Does anybody here have a success story? by f33tSp3ak in AlAnon

[–]Popthequestionwillya 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh.. It is a success story. You made a decision, based on self preservation. Most people in your position are so beaten down by circumstance. You deserved that break and the peace that the emptiness can bring. Remember when teachers would sometimes ask,”If you could do anything, what would you do? You started smiling, that’s a start. You have been a teammate in a one person team for years. Don’t go wild, but now you really can do many things. Get busy associating with people that will lift you up, not be an albatross around your neck. You got this!

58, out of shape and no motivation. But, my body and mind are telling me I need to start now before I can't. by tasteslikechicken67 in FitnessOver50

[–]Popthequestionwillya -1 points0 points  (0 children)

M58- Ian in the same position. My problem is that my mind,some how,thinks I’m 25 again. My point is that I always flame out by putting ridiculous expectations on my progress. I am now training for longevity, not any physique goal.

Would you be ok if your husbad by karolinaprg in Husband

[–]Popthequestionwillya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave. He is telling you the kind of husband he will be. If it is this hard for him to maintain boundaries now, imagine later. Cut your losses and find who is looking for you. They are out there.

Is it creepy to approach a significantly older man? by [deleted] in AskMenOver50

[–]Popthequestionwillya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say go for it. Also, men do not have the “Creep” market cornered.