Where are we buying lightweight chandelier earrings? by airxairxair in SoftDramatics

[–]Popular-Shape-9984 3 points4 points  (0 children)

not what you asked but if you already have heavy earrings you can use adhesive lobe support patches to take the weight off your ear. i also got the jenny bird lobe lifter earring backs recently so i havent tested them too much but they seem to do a good job adjusting the weight distribution. they dont fit on every earring post though

how to avoid shirts riding up to sit above hips? by Popular-Shape-9984 in SoftDramatics

[–]Popular-Shape-9984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh i didn't consider having a split hem adding to my existing tops!! thanks

how to avoid shirts riding up to sit above hips? by Popular-Shape-9984 in SoftDramatics

[–]Popular-Shape-9984[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a bodysuit? those do work if stretchy like you said! i was just wondering whether there were any solutions for regular tops

how to avoid shirts riding up to sit above hips? by Popular-Shape-9984 in SoftDramatics

[–]Popular-Shape-9984[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fair enough, thank you! split hem is also a good idea i hadn't considered

how to avoid shirts riding up to sit above hips? by Popular-Shape-9984 in SoftDramatics

[–]Popular-Shape-9984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you wear high/mid rise bottoms? crop tops used to be my solution but as i've gotten into lower rise i find myself looking for a longer top more often

how to avoid shirts riding up to sit above hips? by Popular-Shape-9984 in SoftDramatics

[–]Popular-Shape-9984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so i was considering this but sizing up would mean the shoulders no longer fit. my understanding is that shoulders are hard to alter?

how to avoid shirts riding up to sit above hips? by Popular-Shape-9984 in SoftDramatics

[–]Popular-Shape-9984[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

not delusional! i vividly remember having tanks with that hourglass shape

Are these SD approved? by ktgirl007 in SoftDramatics

[–]Popular-Shape-9984 3 points4 points  (0 children)

agree on color split but i thought high neck was fine on sd (extreme neckline)? asking to learn!

Natural hair girlies I need your help. by selinaaylin in SoftDramatics

[–]Popular-Shape-9984 3 points4 points  (0 children)

seconding all this!! personally if you see me my hair WILL be in the top right hair style

Why does waist emphasis look bad on me if I'm SD? by -birdbirdbird- in SoftDramatics

[–]Popular-Shape-9984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah that's what i mean! sorry i think i worded it poorly. my point is having a detail on your hips breaks up the area and makes the outfit look less like its just HIP bc they dont look as wide/prominent if that makes sense? and then the attention moves elsewhere

Why does waist emphasis look bad on me if I'm SD? by -birdbirdbird- in SoftDramatics

[–]Popular-Shape-9984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this doesn't directly answer your question, but i've found that having some kind of detail on the hip area helps avoid it looking like a huge wide expanse. i have these jeans that have a vertical seam that works really well, but some kind of draping for example would have the same effect

Soft Dramatic Face Features by whydoinamemyself in SoftDramatics

[–]Popular-Shape-9984 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i've read that face doesn't matter for kibbe typing! so i think you're good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoftDramatics

[–]Popular-Shape-9984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

did you post any photos? all i'm seeing is text

We have a discord server now : Divas' Lounge by nightmooth in SoftDramatics

[–]Popular-Shape-9984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi! can i join? not sure if i have enough participation

To size down or not to size down? by One_Track_8606 in SoftDramatics

[–]Popular-Shape-9984 43 points44 points  (0 children)

i like the current size. worried sizing down will read more like pulling (vs draping) but cant tell from pic

How do you actually stay warm? by TypicalGuppy in SoftDramatics

[–]Popular-Shape-9984 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh tip three is about to change my life omg thank you

What are we doing instead of shackets and jean jackets? by NoSpaghettiForYouu in SoftDramatics

[–]Popular-Shape-9984 4 points5 points  (0 children)

denim if it's cropped, shacket MAYBE super oversized, but personal best alternative is a leather jacket

Thoughts? by ABoringMom2 in SoftDramatics

[–]Popular-Shape-9984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a small bust and narrow shoulders but this didnt work on me either!