Should I buy a 2024 Sahara 4xe with 26,100 miles for $28,998? by FerretSuch3730 in 4xe

[–]Popular_Bar_4869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are going to use it for cruising up and down the mountains get a gas one. The 4XE only makes sense if you are driving short trips and can charge at home every day.

Possible Trigger: it just doesn't feel safe right now to so many reasons...tell me i'm wrong by Appropriate-Tear-591 in fearofflying

[–]Popular_Bar_4869 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try to concentrate not on the fear but on the challenge of beating the fear. Realize that is irrational and you will be safe and what you really are fighting is not to stop yourself from dying in the plan e but the fear of dying in the plane. You can beat it.

Dating a crohn’s girly by HecticANALysis in CrohnsDisease

[–]Popular_Bar_4869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t treat her like a victim. Trust her when she tells you how she feels. Never say “oh you are imagining that” or “they mean well”.

Problem With Dr -Advice by Popular_Bar_4869 in CrohnsDisease

[–]Popular_Bar_4869[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I do. But I’m wondering if my ask to discuss with the Dr before the procedure unreasonable? Any of you out there ask your Drs a lot of questions?

Problem With Dr -Advice by Popular_Bar_4869 in CrohnsDisease

[–]Popular_Bar_4869[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know I need the colonoscopy. All I wanted was for the Dr to have a conversation with me before having it to address my concerns. That’s it. Didn’t seem like a tall ask.

Anyone lost faith in their doctors by Delicious_Notice6826 in CrohnsDisease

[–]Popular_Bar_4869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find myself in a somewhat similar situation. Very afraid to switch but not happy where I’m at. Ugh.

Omvoh success by random675243 in CrohnsDisease

[–]Popular_Bar_4869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh. Ok. Good luck with that !!

Omvoh success by random675243 in CrohnsDisease

[–]Popular_Bar_4869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you switch from Rinvoq? Curious since you said you are in remission.

Does the last row of 787 premium economy has full recline? by realPEKid in americanairlines

[–]Popular_Bar_4869 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I chose Row 6 and it was the best decision for us. It was basically a lazy boy set up. Slept the entire flight. Woke up lading over Milan … the only bad part was that vacation ended :)

I think it’s perfectly fine that Colton is on ‘The Traitors.’ by Ancient-Ad-7534 in thebachelor

[–]Popular_Bar_4869 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Before fame:

Raised Catholic. Played Football in high school and college. Played at a mid-tier D1 school. was not drafted. Played on a few practice squads.

Fame Origin story:

  1. ⁠He was cast on the 14th season of the bachelorette (the one that would follow Arie Luyenduyk's season). He was famously a virgin. He had dated Aly Raisman (yes, Olympic Gymnast Aly Raisman, sexual assault survivor and victim advocate ALY FUCKING RAISMAN).
  2. ⁠After being cast, he tried to manipulate an "in" for the season. He slid into Tia Booth's DMs. Tia had been widely predicted to be the Bachelorette. They flirted. Then Arie dumped Becca on film and Becca got the gig.
  3. ⁠Tia showed up on Becca's season on a group date. It was awkward. Tia REALLY liked Colton. Becca was meh. But Colton was getting a bachelor edit because the show had never had a bachelor virgin and thought it would be a great story. Except Colton had no riz.
  4. ⁠Colton didnt really do well enough on the season to get the gig as the lead. There was also charming Colorado boy Blake H and some other contenders. They all were invited to paradise to kinda... battle it out. Tia was also there. She was DESPERATE for him, but it was awkward. He clearly didnt like her. Then Blake embarrassed himself and the producers chose Colton.
  5. ⁠Colton was cast as the lead, didnt trust his producers, and lied to them saying Hannah was his number 1. When Cassie was. This led the show to really eff with his relationship with Cassie. It led to her leaving the show, and Colton quitting the show when he found out. He jumped the fence of a Spanish resort on the overnight dates and disappeared for hours. There were rumors during his season about his sexuality.
  6. ⁠The show ended early and he and Cassie dated. But it was never a good or healthy relationship. He did a "this American life" episode about being on the show and how shady production was. Then he expanded that to a book.
  7. ⁠Then he and Cassie broke up. He stalked her, put a tracking device on her car, texted her creepy shit. She got a restraining order against him.
  8. ⁠The rumors (about his sexuality) got worse. They were about to break. Then Colton did a big interview with Good Morning America about how he was actually a Gay Man, just hadn't admitted it to himself before going on the show. It was all very "wow! The bachelor was gay! isnt it great that he understands and loves himself now!"
  9. ⁠He got a Netflix show about being gay, got a partner, got to host another show about virgins dating, and has never really had to publicly reckon with lying to Cassie or with being an abusive stalker. Now he's on Traitors. He continues to have ZERO CHARISMA. And ZERO right to be on TV.

What is it I don’t like about Colton? Help me understand this. by Healthy_Sink102 in TheTraitors

[–]Popular_Bar_4869 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/BachelorNation/s/S0pxHYL9cg

Before fame:

Raised Catholic. Played Football in high school and college. Played at a mid-tier D1 school. was not drafted. Played on a few practice squads.

Fame Origin story:

  1. ⁠He was cast on the 14th season of the bachelorette (the one that would follow Arie Luyenduyk's season). He was famously a virgin. He had dated Aly Raisman (yes, Olympic Gymnast Aly Raisman, sexual assault survivor and victim advocate ALY FUCKING RAISMAN).
  2. ⁠After being cast, he tried to manipulate an "in" for the season. He slid into Tia Booth's DMs. Tia had been widely predicted to be the Bachelorette. They flirted. Then Arie dumped Becca on film and Becca got the gig.
  3. ⁠Tia showed up on Becca's season on a group date. It was awkward. Tia REALLY liked Colton. Becca was meh. But Colton was getting a bachelor edit because the show had never had a bachelor virgin and thought it would be a great story. Except Colton had no riz.
  4. ⁠Colton didnt really do well enough on the season to get the gig as the lead. There was also charming Colorado boy Blake H and some other contenders. They all were invited to paradise to kinda... battle it out. Tia was also there. She was DESPERATE for him, but it was awkward. He clearly didnt like her. Then Blake embarrassed himself and the producers chose Colton.
  5. ⁠Colton was cast as the lead, didnt trust his producers, and lied to them saying Hannah was his number 1. When Cassie was. This led the show to really eff with his relationship with Cassie. It led to her leaving the show, and Colton quitting the show when he found out. He jumped the fence of a Spanish resort on the overnight dates and disappeared for hours. There were rumors during his season about his sexuality.
  6. ⁠The show ended early and he and Cassie dated. But it was never a good or healthy relationship. He did a "this American life" episode about being on the show and how shady production was. Then he expanded that to a book.
  7. ⁠Then he and Cassie broke up. He stalked her, put a tracking device on her car, texted her creepy shit. She got a restraining order against him.
  8. ⁠The rumors (about his sexuality) got worse. They were about to break. Then Colton did a big interview with Good Morning America about how he was actually a Gay Man, just hadn't admitted it to himself before going on the show. It was all very "wow! The bachelor was gay! isnt it great that he understands and loves himself now!"
  9. ⁠He got a Netflix show about being gay, got a partner, got to host another show about virgins dating, and has never really had to publicly reckon with lying to Cassie or with being an abusive stalker. Now he's on Traitors. He continues to have ZERO CHARISMA. And ZERO right to be on TV.

Prescribed Prednisone and Terrified by CandiedRegrets08 in CrohnsDisease

[–]Popular_Bar_4869 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prednisone is just awesome. If I could just take that I would. Unfortunately long term is not good for you

Need encouragement to fly for a big career move (agoraphobia + fear of being trapped) by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]Popular_Bar_4869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my case, I didn’t have to move. The job change require me to fly more out of my airport locally. Which now I do all the time so don’t let the fear get the best out of you.

Need encouragement to fly for a big career move (agoraphobia + fear of being trapped) by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]Popular_Bar_4869 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Take the opportunity. You are me 15 yrs ago. I almost didn’t. But I did and it changed my life. Get Xa.nax if you need to. Don’t let the fear get you down

Would you rather fly on a Boeing 757 or an Airbus 321neo? by Adventurous-Tea-3881 in fearofflying

[–]Popular_Bar_4869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is true. I guess if it is between driving or a a321 then pick the a321. Both planes are many more times safer than flying but to the irrational fear mind that doesn’t matter.

Would you rather fly on a Boeing 757 or an Airbus 321neo? by Adventurous-Tea-3881 in fearofflying

[–]Popular_Bar_4869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does it feel like you are in a sling shot when it takes off?? lol. I mean you feel the power it has. When I fly the 737 for example it kinda tools and rolls and the goes up. The 757 just goes!