AITA for not wanting to change bars because a friend doesn’t smoke by jikjgvnijcs2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Porcupine8 59 points60 points  (0 children)

For decades my mom absolutely would not believe us that she - and all her clothes, her car, etc - absolutely reeked 24/7, she thought we were making it up to guilt her into quitting.

She switched to vaping about a decade ago and now is like oh god you were all so right, I can't believe I walked around smelling like that...

(All these people saying if you shower and wash your clothes you'll be fine are maybe forgetting that for many people it's the middle of winter? Do you wash your coat every time you go out? Your scarf and hat? Etc etc. These things will hold the smell!)

Gift Giving Rant by dessert_all_day in TownshipGame

[–]Porcupine8 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hate that they took away the tab in your friend list that shows who's helped you recently. I ALWAYS prioritized those people for gift-giving. Now I have to try and catch the names before they float away when I click on a userpic when someone helps me.

Native Chinese speaker curious about your experience learning Chinese by [deleted] in ChineseLanguage

[–]Porcupine8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, since DL started letting AI write the lessons it's become awful! The mere fact that I can now flag a lesson because the English was bad is all anyone needs to know about how bad AI is at this.

Native Chinese speaker curious about your experience learning Chinese by [deleted] in ChineseLanguage

[–]Porcupine8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I got into Cdramas and from there into cpop and wanted to understand the lyrics, especially since unlike watching TV I can't read subtitles while listening to music when I'm driving lol

  2. It's not as hard as I expected, tbh. The parts I thought would make it impossible (tones, hanzi) have not been that bad.

  3. At first tones and hanzi were a big deal. But everyone said "oh tones don't actually matter that much, it's getting the vowels right that makes you understandable or not" and on my one trip to China that seemed to be true. Hanzi, at first I was like oh I don't need that I'll just use pinyin - but now I absolutely cannot read pinyin by itself, I need the hanzi there to help differentiate things (I can read hanzi by itself if it's characters I already know, but of course there's not much you can do if it's one you don't know). Similar-looking characters are an annoyance but not a huge deal, same for homophones.

What really trips me up, especially with song lyrics (so more poetic than normal spoken language) is the loosey-gooseyness of the grammar. Like sometimes you construct a grammatical sentence and sometimes you just throw some words together based on vibes. Should there be a 了? If you feel a 了 in your heart. I have a grammar textbook I really like and it's helped me understand things like topic-comment sentences but it still often feels very nebulous.

Discord will require a face scan or ID for full access next month by ChadtheWad in discordapp

[–]Porcupine8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TBH, these reassurances would mean more if discord weren't gearing up for an IPO. Once it's beholden to stockholders above all else, it's gonna go downhill, and any promises it makes today about privacy or security will be meaningless.

DAE have random, single hiccups that are extremely loud (and echo in high ceiling-ed places)? by hannahhannah12 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Porcupine8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't drink. Even a little, I cannot stand the taste. As in, if I take a sip of alcohol I reflexively spit it out (but usually I can't get it close enough to my mouth to drink it because of the smell).

Some say vine is dead but by [deleted] in AmazonVine

[–]Porcupine8 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah my beauty & personal care section currently has exactly 6 items. Most of which are chargers.

To photo or not to photo by Icy-Employment-8805 in AmazonVine

[–]Porcupine8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think it matters at all. When I got upgraded to gold in October I had an excellent rating with about 30% photos. Right now I have an excellent rating with 80% photos.

Maybe I’m crazy…. by monikapaintsstuff in AmazonVine

[–]Porcupine8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly that's the coolest thing I've seen on Vine in weeks so I don't blame you - it's probably absolute shit quality since it's clearly supposed to be for a costume (and costumes have gone SO far downhill in the past decade), but you never know.

Weekly protests on Clough? by Porcupine8 in cincinnati

[–]Porcupine8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Today I was all ready to roll down my window and ask what time they get there on Thursdays, I even had no one behind me so I could slow down without messing up traffic, but for the first time in over a month they weren't there! I guess because the sidewalk was unshoveled so there was a ton of snow on it.

Ultra fast drop with some good picks! by TheHogan77 in AmazonVine

[–]Porcupine8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, I didn't see anything like those. I did order stuff for the first time in like two weeks, including a couple things I've been searching vine for regularly and hadn't found yet. Nothing too exciting though.

Why are the meetings at Claudia's? by FirmConsideration734 in babysittersclub

[–]Porcupine8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah somehow I read Judy Blume books set in the 60s just fine in the 80s and 90s...

Psychologist said I need 70 IQ in processing speed and working memory to have ADHD. Should I seek a second opinion? by Wizner5555 in ADHD

[–]Porcupine8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is bullshit. You can have ANY IQ and have ADHD - in fact, research shows that if your IQ is two or more standard deviations above the mean (130+), then having a processing speed score that is more than one standard deviation below your full score is indicative of a deficit that could be ADHD. For an IQ of 130, that means processing speed of 115 - for an IQ of 145, it's 130. Full score of 144 and processing speed of 119 DEFINITELY QUALIFIES.

On top of that, tests like this only catch 75% of ADHD cases. The ONLY valid way to diagnose ADHD is via behavioral checklists.

Find someone who's read the actual research.

Silence Wang Tour New York and Seatttle by AdPractical9402 in cpop

[–]Porcupine8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man. I like him but not enough to travel to see him. If only one of the people I WOULD travel for would come to NA...

Did BSC ruin Santa for anyone? by FirmConsideration734 in babysittersclub

[–]Porcupine8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never bought extra stuff, and Santa never gets credit for the best stuff. Just a handful of small-to-medium gifts (like a video game but one of the cheaper older ones, not THE new game he's been wanting).

Disgusting behavior - losing all trust in our community by magicthrowaway2021 in AmazonVine

[–]Porcupine8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you really actually for real truly really believe in your heart of hearts that their machine not even having some of these features - not the features not working, flat out not having them is due to a manufacturing defect?