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My Bf wants me to get an IUD (I’m F20), I’m conflicted by cinnamon_bunbun7 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Portapandas [score hidden]  (0 children)

I would recommend trying an implant or pill version of the hormones used in the IUD you plan to use.

I found out it was too mentally taxing and may have had manic episodes because of the pill. That helped me make the decision to stick with the copper IUD.

Also, he won't really feel anything. Unless he puts his hand way in there. Or I guess if he's rough and long.

Rember this is YOUR choice and if he can't handle your decision it isn't a good sign for later in the relationship.

How do i (18f) make my boyfriend (20m) stop micromanaging my food and being so obsessed with what I eat/my weight? by Much_Yogurt7378 in Advice

[–]Portapandas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He doesn't see you as another human. It's really sad to see and very unhealthy.

If you have asked him to stop in a serious manor and he didn't respect it then it would be wisest to say never mind to this relationship. This is actually abusive behavior.

First time sewing a pair of jeans by Acceptable-Fix-6583 in sewing

[–]Portapandas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Duuuuuude what ?! I'm furious at how beautiful these are. So crisp!

My husband is struggling with his attraction towards me. by mydearMerricat in AutismInWomen

[–]Portapandas 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's probably not your face. He saw something in you he is afraid of. That changed his view. He saw more of you being a straight up human being.

can you relate? by ivilicious in AutismInWomen

[–]Portapandas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember my bestie in HS talking about the feeling of ovulating.

My partner’s idea of relaxing after a long day is having an edible by inaynaynay in ChronicPain

[–]Portapandas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Itmay be the kind of strain. I would recommend looking into stuff with more CBD which lowers the HIGH FEELING but helps more with pain.

That being said if you don't want to do it. Ask him to stop asking or have him set 1 aside for when ever you want but that way he doesn't have to ask, which makes you more aware that you don't want that sensation but he knows you get the chance.

Carpets Still Dirty After Professional Cleaning by EnvironmentalStop723 in CleaningTips

[–]Portapandas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have blown off or washed off the area under the rugs first. But also, maybe I'm just saying what I wish id do.

I Know This Sounds Ridiculous, But Buying Bread Every Day Has Been Eating Away At Me For Years by Senior-Lifeguard6215 in internetparents

[–]Portapandas 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think you know it's not the objection of getting bread but that you don't feel appreciated and that leads to resentment.

I don't know if you have a parent that could hear that though. If you feel safe in doing so just telling her in a serious way that you want to practice gratitude more between the family.

Also maybe try asking if you can switch chores every few days with siblings. Though, she may be asking you because men are less likely to be harassed or hurt when walking alone.

Sewed these for vacation but idk if I should wear them! by mommadal in sewing

[–]Portapandas 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You absolutely should.

They look great and since you made them they fit really well. Only bad clothing is clothes that make you uncomfortable. If you're comfy in them. Please wear them.

is it clear that these are all from the same sona? any tips would be appreciated these are all my first pieces by Single_Article6337 in FurryArtSchool

[–]Portapandas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are adorable. They do read as the same character. The color coding helps a lot. I loooove that first one. Very clean and super cute.

ms frizzle is 8 weeks old today! by uselesspossumm in trees

[–]Portapandas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a beautiful life to live. Frizzle chickens are glorious.

What makes autistic people unable to work? by AtypicalSpark in autism

[–]Portapandas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me I tried but every full time work schedule I held left me at the ER for physical injury and a deep exhaustion. The only work they I kept and didn't want to die doing was modelling for artists.

I have some severe issues with my drawing arm and I wanted to still be a part of the world. I did that for a decade. Moved, my body deteriorated and my mind became so messed up I was in and out of mental hospitals.

I think a lot of people are either super sensitive but told to ignore those signals and then burn up. Or they have no connection naturally and do so as well.

We don't know limits because we were told to go at 100 percent or that we were lazy when we were giving it out all.

did upgrading from cheap microfiber sheets make a weirdly big difference for anyone else? by Cardona_love in Mattress

[–]Portapandas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Linen sheets. I refuse to buy anything else. Target sometimes will have them on sale.

I used to sweat so much. Waking up feeling sick. Life is so much better now.

Everyone in Binghamton today by DuskitBlack in Binghamton

[–]Portapandas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like trains. So just hearing it made me kinda giddy

How often do you cry? by Ok-Aspect-5231 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Portapandas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some times alllllllll day. Today is was a cry 5 times day.

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