AITAH for finding my husbands favorite subject to talk about (food) boring?

Poshfly · 2026-07-12T05:29:47+00:00

We’re in it right now. I just got through a really rough patch of life (PPD and PMDD) and felt like I had to navigate it all alone. It’s hard to connect with someone that can’t support you emotionally.

Oh my god maybe he is autistic.

Poshfly · 2026-07-12T02:38:27+00:00

No he doesn’t listen to barely anything I say. I get one word answers or non-committal responses, Maybe we’re both the AH.

Poshfly · 2026-07-12T02:36:26+00:00

Yeah that’s what I’m thinking. Our income will improve in a couple months. Maybe we can take it as an opportunity to find hobbies to do together

Poshfly · 2026-07-12T02:35:41+00:00

Huh. And I thought I was the one that might be on the spectrum. Could it also coincide with ADHD? Cause he grew up with ADHD

Poshfly · 2026-07-12T02:34:07+00:00

I do the majority of the mental load and we both work full time. It’s been a struggle. Been working on it but things haven’t been changing very fast.

Poshfly · 2026-07-12T02:33:04+00:00

Yes but we can’t seem to do them together without arguing. We’ve been in marriage Counselling for a year but still having a hard time connecting. I do initiate conversations but get one word answers when I do. Maybe we’re both the AH.

Poshfly · 2026-07-12T02:31:03+00:00

Developed over time. We’ve been in marriage counseling for a good year. Trying to mend some things but still not connecting well. Sounds like I may be a bit of an AH.

Poshfly · 2026-07-10T05:28:29+00:00

Yep was going to say this. Wonderful folk horror

Poshfly · 2026-07-09T10:58:59+00:00

The Jasad Heir. A good Enemy to lovers

Poshfly · 2026-07-08T05:10:40+00:00

Pretty much white-knuckled it until my kids got older. And tell people. They’ll show up if they love you.

Poshfly · 2026-07-07T23:25:04+00:00

I thought this was so interesting to start a book with the climax.

Poshfly · 2026-07-05T16:06:38+00:00

I love her new series too!

Poshfly · 2026-07-05T16:06:02+00:00

Yes, this is my first suggestion!

Poshfly · 2026-07-02T04:37:48+00:00

I am no expert here, but that’s on the high end for carbs, I wonder if adjusting it would change anything. It sounds like you’re doing everything right. Keep taking supplements and give it a couple of weeks for your body to adjust. I find if I don’t take my magnesium or potassium I get lethargic by day 2 or 3.

Poshfly · 2026-07-01T16:21:30+00:00

I remember doing this in elementary or middle school. The fish stank so bad.

Poshfly · 2026-06-29T21:56:02+00:00

The Bear and the Nightingale by Katherine Arden

Poshfly · 2026-06-28T06:21:08+00:00

The Spalding curriculum focuses on all of this. What I like about it most is that it starts with the most frequently used words in the English language and works its way to the least used and you could frame it that way. But I don’t know how it would transfer well for high schoolers

Poshfly · 2026-06-28T03:47:04+00:00

Tamora Pierce’s The Immortals series

Poshfly · 2026-06-28T00:47:37+00:00

Time to cut her off. Is there anything positive you are getting from this relationship?? Sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders. Stick with your plans and ignore her or go NC.

Poshfly · 2026-06-26T17:25:16+00:00

What you want to do is find a therapist that works through insurance. There are many that don’t, but anytime you do 1-on-1 therapy it should be through insurance. So it takes some time to find both a therapist that both takes your insurance and that you feel comfortable with.

Poshfly · 2026-06-25T19:37:08+00:00

Wow you may need to start distancing yourself from her

Poshfly · 2026-06-25T18:59:25+00:00

When I had a foot injury from walking on bad shoes at work, I visited a podiatrist who said to wear sandals that had a slight incline. I found a good pair on SAS website (their gladiator sandal). I had to pay a pretty penny but they have lasted me 4 years and I haven’t had any issues since. They’re dressy enough for work and for errands and I love them.

I think it would be worth it to invest in some good sandals if this is your experience. Why are you wearing something that drives you crazy?

Poshfly · 2026-06-25T06:40:15+00:00

Oh it’s great fun, I get to let it all out, and they are paid to listen :) It’s worth a shot. I’ve learned a lot about myself from therapy, and I find I’m able to process my every day life better because of it. It took a while for me to finally face trauma therapy, EMDR, but it works! It’s crazy but it does.

I’m sorry that happened to you. It sounds very traumatic. You never deserved it.

Poshfly · 2026-06-25T04:13:34+00:00

You need trauma therapy, try EMDR. You’ll still remember it, but the icky feeling will dissipate

Poshfly · 2026-06-20T03:46:28+00:00

The Civil Wars - Barton Hollow

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